I went on a site and it calculates how much emphasise there is of each element/planets(?) in my birth profile and my bf's:
Mine - AIR 11 FIRE 5 EARTH 13 WATER 1
His - AIR 7 FIRE 1 EARTH 3 WATER 19
This now explains why he is over sensitive and incredibly moody and why it appears to him that I have no consideration for his feelings at times. I didn't realise I had so little water in my chart!
Yeah it's at www.proastro.com and then you click on free birth chart on the left hand side slightly down the page. Has info on how much cardinal, fixed and mutable influences you have too.
Signs of fire 1 Signs of earth 3 Signs of air 3 Signs of water 3
:save for fire, my elements are otherwise pretty balanced. Thankfully (Mars) Fire is an inner planet which will strengthen its influence and applying aspects considerably.
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Mine - AIR 11
FIRE 5
EARTH 13
WATER 1
His - AIR 7
FIRE 1
EARTH 3
WATER 19
This now explains why he is over sensitive and incredibly moody and why it appears to him that I have no consideration for his feelings at times. I didn't realise I had so little water in my chart!