Prude

Why so old school in your train of thought?

Besides P-Angel every pisces I've known of has been a prude.

Lady_M

You also need hard core mental discipline.

After that, you will act with utmost respect with Pisces.

I beg your pardon?

That just needlessly again shows the neccesity of hardcore mental discipline.

details Haffo, elaborate please.

It's like hypnotising people. You cant explain how you do it. You just do it.

Venus in Aries, maybe?

Not sure .. something in my placement of planets .. life is short, really.

If it gets you hot .. go for it, right?

Lady M, personally, I think everybody has it in them (to be sexually expressive, no matter what) .. it's just most people are worried about what another will think of them, and quite honestly .. I don't give a shit what others think .. if laying with another woman, or a plastic one, or leather .. turns me on .. screw what anybody else thinks.

We're all there .. most are just worried about thier image of wanting to make the world think they are proper ladies .. fuck that .. I ain't no angel .. I go where my libido takes me .. if someone doesn't like it .. they don't have to look.

Attitude is signature .. mine is all my own. 😛

Not ashamed or embarrassed ..

"I go where my libido takes me" - now that's a classic!!!.....sounds like a one-liner Clinty (Eastwood), not Bill C! might throw out:-) - way to go P-Angel.......I think your talent lies in writing for the movies:-) my dearest......:-)

A x

Wait a second aren't you an Aquarius?!

I think you guys can act so much more like prudes.

Pisces' can be extremely sexual if it's the right person.

We're the sign that loves role-playing and what not.

Actually, if you think about this .. it is kind of funny.

Pisces have no boundaries when it comes to certain things .. pleasing our partner sexually is included .. if you know how to turn us on and we feel safe with you ..

.. we're wide fucking open .. no sexual boundaries

If someone thinks we're prude sexually, then that means they didn't know how to get us hot .. simple as that.

IF we're comfortable...anything goes...

no, the pisces I know are very prudish...

Not only in sex, I also said your views and thoughts can be quite retro.

I concur P-Angel- the sexual aspects

I will say though that I am prudish in my behavior when it comes to how I carry myself- which I consider carrying myself like a lady- I am modest by nature- I am not overly outgoing, loud, or have the desire to "be seen". Yet I am friendly, very approachable and personable, and have a genuine interest in people.

All of this is just who I am and not an attempt at trying to gain acceptance from anyone.
Most people will find that Pisces are rarely followers and we tend to revel in being very independent and indiviualistic.

Not progressive, or open-minded.

"Most people will find that Pisces are rarely followers"

Couldn't agree more, though, the majority of people (non-Pisces) are unable to recognize this .. funny, really .. because I follow nobody .. you share your life with me, or I leave .. won't lead or follow, rather meld.

Lady_M .. I know what you mean. I thought you meant just sexually .. but, by looking at other aspects I can see what you're saying ..

Well, I'm not a prude. Not a 'ho, either, but definitely not a prude. Around acquaintances there's a fair amount of ladylike demeanor and detachment, but with someone I trust and adore - forget it. One man in particular agrees I'm a nympho...but that's not the same as being a slut.

I save it for the guy I'm with, but as a general rule, if you can get me turned on, feeling safe, secure and mentally stimulated, there just aren't any limits to what I'm willing to do in the bedroom.

Lots of conditions getting there, but none once we're there.

I must say, im not a prude by a long shot. I'm very open minded when it comes to sexual experiences with the one I'm being sexual with. especially if i love him. And most pisceans i know are like that. It becomes an art form for us because we are so creative and we can definitely lose ourselves in the moment, making it very pleasurable for our partner? What, pray tell, is prudish about that?

As a matter of fact, most Pisceans I know, including myself, are damn near open to any kind of idea. They at least consider it and give it some thought. That's in every aspect of life so i really can't see calling us prudes. We are all about dreams, adventure, excitement, and fond memories that we can reflect on while in our fantasy world. A prude can't reflect on anything because he or she is too conservative to make any memories.

no one is exclusively talking about sex.

im not talking about sex exclusively either. i said we are open minded in all aspects in life. and we approach life in general with the "I need adventure, excitement, and fond memories" philosophy.

I feel like I'm pretty progressive in my way of thinking, though, as I always preach, how we view ourselves isn't necessarily how others see us. In my marriage, I've let myself get "stuck" over the years in a place that's stagnant .. but, overall, I believe that I'm very expandable in the way I process my views ..

Very engaging .. will throw stuff out to see how it falls, any topic .. if there's something that fits within my logic, I'll make adjustments, sometimes even change my whole opinion all together. If a better way of doing something is presented, I'll take it into consideration. Some things I completely ignore because of no, or very little interest .. like politics. Couldn't care a less about it .. but, most everything else is wide-open to possibilities. Normally, the only thing I'm closed-minded about is people who are oblivious of the self .. if you can't see yourself and the role you play, why you do it, realize that your own actions led you there .. I'm pretty rigid and harsh.

And Virgo's .. I'm close-minded about them .. they suck big time.

Who knows, maybe one day I might meet one who will change my opinion .. but, that's doubtful because I know many, not just my husband.

Everytime I try to get off my set and pathetic view of them .. one of them will do something to send me right back to where I am now. Something I just can't get past, no matter how hard I try to be reasonable.

i think virgos are our complete opposite sign so we tend to debate a lot. i was in a major relationship with a virgo and it was... interesting. he just wasnt ready for someone like me. the way my mind worked was just totally beyond his understanding and all his analytical skills didnt work on me, BUT we're great friends now. ONLY friends thank goodness.

Why dont you try to find yourself a Taurus? Im having a wonderous time with my little bull, though he is one that can be a little close minded, with a little nudging he usually will "try" whatever i persuasively suggest. And if you asked him, he'd say "She's a prude? Bah!"

"the way my mind worked was just totally beyond his understanding and all his analytical skills"

I hear ya on that .. our minds work the complete opposite. My Virgo has only one layer to his brain .. mine transcends .. communication is greatly comprimised.

I have a good friend who is a Taurus and though, she's great as a friend, I don't think I'd do well dating one. Mainly, because like all earth signs .. she won't expand her mind beyond limited boundaries she's set using her logic. Me and logic, when discussing possibilities don't get along .. and every topic to me, is worth hashing over different viewpoints.

For some reason, earth people think that just because it's discussed, that means you have to own it .. I contemplate verbally, draw people in to give thier counsel, encourage people to go beyond what is programmed .. earth people just don't fit the bill, for me.

Isn't it a hoot when people say we're prudes? You'll have to show your little bull what the word "erotic" means .. we're absolute masters at role-playing fantasies .. lay that on him, he'll change his tune real quick. 😛

oh indeed, he does enjoy the role playing which i was astonished to find that he had never done before me.

I know what you mean when you say that philosophies with logic don't mix with you because i feel the same way most times. I don't feel that there's one set way, or solution or view on anything and anyone im with has to understand that that's how i think.

When I got with this little bull, I explained to him all my "flaws" or what im sure he would view as my flaws so he knew what was coming. But they are pretty understanding and tend to offer a lot of emotional support which i find positively yummy (having been in an emotionally abusive relationship previous to this one). And they do aim to please though they can be a tad stubborn at times. I'm not saying they are the miracle cure to dead-beat men, but they're worth the old try-a-roo. Oh yeah, one last thing. Most guys are usually so easy to read and I have them figured out in like two seconds flat, this guy keeps me genuinely interested both on the artistic level and the philosophical, intellectual level. he can keep up with me and im like whoa, really?

as you said i think you "unleash yourself" when you are comfortable. We don't usually have a whole lot to say before that. Im usually an observer in the beginning because im not comfortable to be myself, which is the "wild" side... if you want to call it wild... I think it's pretty normal but wild to others.

Perhaps the person who started this topic should be aware that if the piscean they were dealing with was a prude, then they probably werent comfortable around you. and thats okay because not everybody is compatible. but bottomline, if they didnt "unleash" themselves, and thats EITHER SEXUALLY OR NONSEXUALLY (to be clear) then they probably weren't feeling you and that usually comes from a lack of stimulation in the areas i mentioned before.

lack of stimulation leads to clamming up, simply observing, then swimming away... never to be heard from again. And you may wonder to yourself... where did my little mermaid go? LOL

hehehehehe .. if the rest of the world only knew .. unlock us by knowing how to turn us on and letting us know we're safe with you .. hotdamn ..

I remember after I broke up with my first husband, we came back with every new girlfriend for a couple years .. I was like, no no way dude .. he was like, "Show her how to ride me, baby" .. lol, he was such a slut .. but, damn good.

Of course, I didn't do it .. that's our secret, isn't it?

Seriously .. I think this is why we don't get jealous or compete with other women to get a man .. we don't HAVE to, lol

indeed... it was like that with my bull, starfish. after like a month of dating, i felt totally comfortable like we were old buddies who just decided to start dating. it was cool and the sex was KAPOW! he knew what he was doing so i had to take him there with it lol oh yes lol...

but no, we dont have to compete with other women and i LOVE that about us. Our mystique is one that no other female in the zodiac can touch because when we are comfortable, there's damn near NO limitations at all. My old scorpio was missing me so badly when we broke up. I think the beautiful part about it is that when we are comfortable, we use our emotions and psychic/intuition that we have to connect with that person on a personal level. what do you think?

i feel that way too. Although I can be quite good at mind games, especially if im feeling spiteful, i dont like to play little tug of war games for my man. If I have to compete with a woman for my man, forget it. he's all hers and i'll watch as he looks at her blandly, makes a face, and screams "give me my little mermaid!"

lol