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Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?
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No if they wanted to rest it's okay, but after a date I think I would expect a text or something saying they got home safe. Otherwise I would wonder if something went wrong or they dont like me or something. That would be like no communication on their part. But no I wouldn't mind it if they didnt want to talk a big long discussion when they got home, and they wanted to rest.
Yeah well it was technically after a date if I’m being transparent. We were together for 24hours. I got home at 5am and woke up to a text from her “you get home ok?!”

I responded and explained I just woke up, and asked her about her day. Nothing :/. That was yesterday. And she put up a passive aggressive post. I can’t be sure it’s about me but seems like it. I just feel sad for her tbh. And us. She lives 6 hours away. We had a beautiful healing 24 hours. I tripped with her and we healed a lot together. I just hope at least she still feels the healing, I’d trade her hating me for the rest of her life being easier. I don’t know what to do rn. But I’v been relaxed. Except for now that I think she’s mad at me I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt her. I’d rather her hate me for something little. But I really don’t want to hurt her, I feel so much for her, and i care so much about her now, I’m so confused, but hopeful that she’s ok without me today.
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No if they wanted to rest it's okay, but after a date I think I would expect a text or something saying they got home safe. Otherwise I would wonder if something went wrong or they dont like me or something. That would be like no communication on their part. But no I wouldn't mind it if they didnt want to talk a big long discussion when they got home, and they wanted to rest.



Yeah well it was technically after a date if I’m being transparent. We were together for 24hours. I got home at 5am and woke up to a text from her “you get home ok?!”
I responded and explained I just woke up, and asked her about her day. Nothing :/. That was yesterday. And she put up a passive aggressive post. I can’t be sure it’s about me but seems like it. I just feel sad for her tbh. And us. She lives 6 hours away. We had a beautiful healing 24 hours. I tripped with her and we healed a lot together. I just hope at least she still feels the healing, I’d trade her hating me for the rest of her life being easier. I don’t know what to do rn. But I’v been relaxed. Except for now that I think she’s mad at me I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt her. I’d rather her hate me for something little. But I really don’t want to hurt her, I feel so much for her, and i care so much about her now, I’m so confused, but hopeful that she’s ok without me today.

Well considering you spent so much time together and really had an amazing time, you texted eachother in the morning I dont see why she would stay mad. Yeah I think it's good to text them saying you got home safe, but it's not that big of a deal, considering you texted in the morning and had spent so much time together already. Im not sure why she would stay mad especially after an amazing date. There have been so many times that I personally have forgotten to text someone I got home lol so I don't see it as a big deal. It's just a small gesture. Hopefully she will be okay after a while. It's not like it's a big mistake. You didnt really do anything wrong so I wouldn't worry too much.
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I didn’t text her in the morning. She texted me first at almost 2pm yesterday and I woke up to it. But I responded by telling her that I that I just woke up and asked about her day. I’m thibjhbg she’s just in her head and will get over it. I’m not asking her about it though, I just wish I could physically console her. Ugh but thanks for the advice. I didn’t think it was a big deal but I needed to put this out there.
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No if they wanted to rest it's okay, but after a date I think I would expect a text or something saying they got home safe. Otherwise I would wonder if something went wrong or they dont like me or something. That would be like no communication on their part. But no I wouldn't mind it if they didnt want to talk a big long discussion when they got home, and they wanted to rest.



Yeah well it was technically after a date if I’m being transparent. We were together for 24hours. I got home at 5am and woke up to a text from her “you get home ok?!”
I responded and explained I just woke up, and asked her about her day. Nothing :/. That was yesterday. And she put up a passive aggressive post. I can’t be sure it’s about me but seems like it. I just feel sad for her tbh. And us. She lives 6 hours away. We had a beautiful healing 24 hours. I tripped with her and we healed a lot together. I just hope at least she still feels the healing, I’d trade her hating me for the rest of her life being easier. I don’t know what to do rn. But I’v been relaxed. Except for now that I think she’s mad at me I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt her. I’d rather her hate me for something little. But I really don’t want to hurt her, I feel so much for her, and i care so much about her now, I’m so confused, but hopeful that she’s ok without me today.



Well considering you spent so much time together and really had an amazing time, you texted eachother in the morning I dont see why she would stay mad. Yeah I think it's good to text them saying you got home safe, but it's not that big of a deal, considering you texted in the morning and had spent so much time together already. Im not sure why she would stay mad especially after an amazing date. There have been so many times that I personally have forgotten to text someone I got home lol so I don't see it as a big deal. It's just a small gesture. Hopefully she will be okay after a while. It's not like it's a big mistake. You didnt really do anything wrong so I wouldn't worry too much.



I didn’t text her in the morning. She texted me first at almost 2pm yesterday and I woke up to it. But I responded by telling her that I that I just woke up and asked about her day. I’m thibjhbg she’s just in her head and will get over it. I’m not asking her about it though, I just wish I could physically console her. Ugh but thanks for the advice. I didn’t think it was a big deal but I needed to put this out there.
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we’ve been talking on FaceTime on and off for months but this is the first time we actually met.
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No if they wanted to rest it's okay, but after a date I think I would expect a text or something saying they got home safe. Otherwise I would wonder if something went wrong or they dont like me or something. That would be like no communication on their part. But no I wouldn't mind it if they didnt want to talk a big long discussion when they got home, and they wanted to rest.



Yeah well it was technically after a date if I’m being transparent. We were together for 24hours. I got home at 5am and woke up to a text from her “you get home ok?!”
I responded and explained I just woke up, and asked her about her day. Nothing :/. That was yesterday. And she put up a passive aggressive post. I can’t be sure it’s about me but seems like it. I just feel sad for her tbh. And us. She lives 6 hours away. We had a beautiful healing 24 hours. I tripped with her and we healed a lot together. I just hope at least she still feels the healing, I’d trade her hating me for the rest of her life being easier. I don’t know what to do rn. But I’v been relaxed. Except for now that I think she’s mad at me I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt her. I’d rather her hate me for something little. But I really don’t want to hurt her, I feel so much for her, and i care so much about her now, I’m so confused, but hopeful that she’s ok without me today.



Well considering you spent so much time together and really had an amazing time, you texted eachother in the morning I dont see why she would stay mad. Yeah I think it's good to text them saying you got home safe, but it's not that big of a deal, considering you texted in the morning and had spent so much time together already. Im not sure why she would stay mad especially after an amazing date. There have been so many times that I personally have forgotten to text someone I got home lol so I don't see it as a big deal. It's just a small gesture. Hopefully she will be okay after a while. It's not like it's a big mistake. You didnt really do anything wrong so I wouldn't worry too much.



I didn’t text her in the morning. She texted me first at almost 2pm yesterday and I woke up to it. But I responded by telling her that I that I just woke up and asked about her day. I’m thibjhbg she’s just in her head and will get over it. I’m not asking her about it though, I just wish I could physically console her. Ugh but thanks for the advice. I didn’t think it was a big deal but I needed to put this out there.

You at least responded , I think the main reason why Id worry about no response is to think I did something wrong or something lol. Particularly if you just started dating. But since you responded it would be clear that everything is okay and then it shouldn't be a big deal, at least I would think so. Especially if you guys have been dating for a long time I dont see why she would stay mad. I think things will be okay. Good luck (:
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We’ve talked on face time on and off since January. But this was technically our first time face to face. We technically just physically met. Is that a deal breaker when just meeting?/first date?
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No if they wanted to rest it's okay, but after a date I think I would expect a text or something saying they got home safe. Otherwise I would wonder if something went wrong or they dont like me or something. That would be like no communication on their part. But no I wouldn't mind it if they didnt want to talk a big long discussion when they got home, and they wanted to rest.



Yeah well it was technically after a date if I’m being transparent. We were together for 24hours. I got home at 5am and woke up to a text from her “you get home ok?!”
I responded and explained I just woke up, and asked her about her day. Nothing :/. That was yesterday. And she put up a passive aggressive post. I can’t be sure it’s about me but seems like it. I just feel sad for her tbh. And us. She lives 6 hours away. We had a beautiful healing 24 hours. I tripped with her and we healed a lot together. I just hope at least she still feels the healing, I’d trade her hating me for the rest of her life being easier. I don’t know what to do rn. But I’v been relaxed. Except for now that I think she’s mad at me I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt her. I’d rather her hate me for something little. But I really don’t want to hurt her, I feel so much for her, and i care so much about her now, I’m so confused, but hopeful that she’s ok without me today.



Well considering you spent so much time together and really had an amazing time, you texted eachother in the morning I dont see why she would stay mad. Yeah I think it's good to text them saying you got home safe, but it's not that big of a deal, considering you texted in the morning and had spent so much time together already. Im not sure why she would stay mad especially after an amazing date. There have been so many times that I personally have forgotten to text someone I got home lol so I don't see it as a big deal. It's just a small gesture. Hopefully she will be okay after a while. It's not like it's a big mistake. You didnt really do anything wrong so I wouldn't worry too much.



I didn’t text her in the morning. She texted me first at almost 2pm yesterday and I woke up to it. But I responded by telling her that I that I just woke up and asked about her day. I’m thibjhbg she’s just in her head and will get over it. I’m not asking her about it though, I just wish I could physically console her. Ugh but thanks for the advice. I didn’t think it was a big deal but I needed to put this out there.



You at least responded , I think the main reason why Id worry about no response is to think I did something wrong or something lol. Particularly if you just started dating. But since you responded it would be clear that everything is okay and then it shouldn't be a big deal, at least I would think so. Especially if you guys have been dating for a long time I dont see why she would stay mad. I think things will be okay. Good luck (:

We’ve talked on face time on and off since January. But this was technically our first time face to face. We technically just physically met. Is that a deal breaker when just meeting?/first date?

I wouldn't call it a deal breaker. If we had a good time, I still dont think it would be something that would effect how I view them. I mean it's not like you were deliberately avoiding her, or avoided her for a few days. It was only til the next day so I dont think it's a big deal.
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If you agree in contacting me when you get home and then you don’t do it I will be disappointed but not mad. Otherwise I wouldn’t expect it.

I would expect you contacting me the day after saying something. If you don’t again I wouldn’t be mad but more like disappointed and I wouldn’t take you very seriously. The less you put in the less seriously I take you so I will behave accordingly.
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Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?
Did any of the two parties involved agree in advance directly or indirectly to calling the other person on that particular day?
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No. That’s why personally I don’t see it as a big deal. And if she does I guess that would be a talk that needed to be had. But we’ll cross that road if we get there
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I wouldn’t be mad. Just assume that they aren’t into me quite as much as I am too them and I’d start to pull back emotionally.
Ugh it feels like that. She’s been distant but Iv been giving her space regardless just noticed she’ll hit me up. And I’ll respond and than she doesn’t. In her defense she was afraid to fall for someone long distance and never entertained it. She’s a monotonous woman too, I’m not. I’m sure she has a lot to think about, and I don’t want her to get hurt. So I’m not pushing it either. It tricky because I never thought I’d meet someone like her in my life, we exchanged souls. We vocalized that to each other. We just... worked. It’s bitter sweet.
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Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?
Yes, because I want to find out if you made it home okay. All it fucking takes is a short text, "Good night" or a quick call. I do the "switch a roo". If you tell me, "Call me Babe, when you get home". Guess what? Yep! You guessed it! I have a MEMORY like an elephant! I will NOT call/text you so you can "feel" what I felt when YOU didn't text/call me when you said you would. Enough said.

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Reassure her and tell her that you had a really great time and tell her how beautiful she looked. Tell her you can't wait to meet her again. I'll tell you what happened. She probably waited for your text and ended up crying and went to sleep. Fix it. Tell her what I've asked you to say. That's all.

I sent her a voice message last night basically saying “hey, figured I’d send you a voice note, kinda hard to be transparent through text. I had a great time with you the other night. I’m thinking about you, you’re on my mind. I think we shared a cool experience together and I’d like to hear your perspective and how you felt the day after we tripped. I hope it was a positive experience. Hmu back whenever. I adore you nugget” (nugget is a pet name).
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Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?

Yes, because I want to find out if you made it home okay. All it treetrunking takes is a short text, "Good night" or a quick call. I do the "switch a roo". If you tell me, "Call me Babe, when you get home". Guess what? Yep! You guessed it! I have a MEMORY like an elephant! I will NOT call/text you so you can "feel" what I felt when YOU didn't text/call me when you said you would. Enough said.

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Lol you petty hu? Do you get over it eventually tho?
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Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?



Yes, because I want to find out if you made it home okay. All it treetrunking takes is a short text, "Good night" or a quick call. I do the "switch a roo". If you tell me, "Call me Babe, when you get home". Guess what? Yep! You guessed it! I have a MEMORY like an elephant! I will NOT call/text you so you can "feel" what I felt when YOU didn't text/call me when you said you would. Enough said.

cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva



Lol you petty hu? Do you get over it eventually tho?
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Not "petty nor tit for tat" but just empathy (that means you feel/felt what I felt at that time). I'll just smile at you when we meet face to face asking "Why"; just like you're asking here. Now, to answer your question, "Do you get over it?" Get over what? You mean I drag it for the next time? Nope. I don't play games. I just put you in your place so you can go, "Hmmmmmmmmm" 😕

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Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?


I'll be like , " text me when you get home . Okay ? " for me , i just wanna know if he arrived safe . That's all.
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I am a pisces women. I wouldn't be mad or hate u...or being hurt...for that...i would think you didn't feel what i did feel and i had my experience you had you'r so when u ready you call me...or not. But now depending her age and experience. Most young Pisces women get easyly hurt and do fall fast or are more naive see everything with unicorns.....it happnd to me to somethimes to forget so i can'[t be mad at things like this...When i was in my 20 i was crying to for anything and if i didn't like something i broke up till i get my life lesson .Since then i learned to tolerate and apreciate every single thing that the other person is doing for me and try to do the same.
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I am a pisces women. I wouldn't be mad or hate u...or being hurt...for that...i would think you didn't feel what i did feel and i had my experience you had you'r so when u ready you call me...or not. But now depending her age and experience. Most young Pisces women get easyly hurt and do fall fast or are more naive see everything with unicorns.....it happnd to me to somethimes to forget so i can'[t be mad at things like this...When i was in my 20 i was crying to for anything and if i didn't like something i broke up till i get my life lesson .Since then i learned to tolerate and apreciate every single thing that the other person is doing for me and try to do the same.


She’s 22 Pisces sun. Gem moon I’m 27 cancer sun sag moon.

We talked ONE TIME since the last time we’d seen each other (after the whole me not texting her when I got home thing).

And when we talked it was brief like a week later. Than I sent her pizza to her job (she lives 6 hours away). She FaceTimed me to thank me. I never answered (I was at the gym). Told her she could call me later. She never did. A week later I call her. JUST as she got to her cousin’s wedding (which I knew was coming up). Tells me a lot has been going on since we last talked and that she can’t talk for a while. Told her “yeah I figured something was up. Hope you have a relaxing break while you’re away at the wedding”. Never heard back. That was 3 weeks ago.... I went thrifting the other day for my self. And stumbled upon an old ass t-shirt of her favorite movie. I took it home and washed it, and mailed it to her job this morning. We are so good together, so many cards against us though. I just wish she would just talk to me, but I’m just gonna keep doing me until she does. I sometimes misconceive my relationships with others, but Iv never been so sure of something/someone in my life. The universe is definitely testing my patience and ego though for sure.
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I am a pisces women. I wouldn't be mad or hate u...or being hurt...for that...i would think you didn't feel what i did feel and i had my experience you had you'r so when u ready you call me...or not. But now depending her age and experience. Most young Pisces women get easyly hurt and do fall fast or are more naive see everything with unicorns.....it happnd to me to somethimes to forget so i can'[t be mad at things like this...When i was in my 20 i was crying to for anything and if i didn't like something i broke up till i get my life lesson .Since then i learned to tolerate and apreciate every single thing that the other person is doing for me and try to do the same.


She’s 22 Pisces sun. Gem moon I’m 27 cancer sun sag moon.

We talked ONE TIME since the last time we’d seen each other (after the whole me not texting her when I got home thing).

And when we talked it was brief like a week later. Than I sent her pizza to her job (she lives 6 hours away). She FaceTimed me to thank me. I never answered (I was at the gym). Told her she could call me later. She never did. A week later I call her. JUST as she got to her cousin’s wedding (which I knew was coming up). Tells me a lot has been going on since we last talked and that she can’t talk for a while. Told her “yeah I figured something was up. Hope you have a relaxing break while you’re away at the wedding”. Never heard back. That was 3 weeks ago.... I went thrifting the other day for my self. And stumbled upon an old ass t-shirt of her favorite movie. I took it home and washed it, and mailed it to her job this morning. We are so good together, so many cards against us though. I just wish she would just talk to me, but I’m just gonna keep doing me until she does. I sometimes misconceive my relationships with others, but Iv never been so sure of something/someone in my life. The universe is definitely testing my patience and ego though for sure.
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Well if she never answered back since then is clear she doesn't want something or it's someone else to in the picture and she can't decide.I never dater a Cancer in my life i only have friends or familly and i found them to sensitive and clingy like i feel i suffocate so i allways dated guys who liked to have intimacy and not be togheter all day lol...but i am also like that and if a guy call's me non stop and stuff i run away....i like men who call me and show me they like me but maybe every 3 days . I know is a bad example but i hope u get what i mean.I allways liked Sag,Aries and Aquarius ...
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I am a pisces women. I wouldn't be mad or hate u...or being hurt...for that...i would think you didn't feel what i did feel and i had my experience you had you'r so when u ready you call me...or not. But now depending her age and experience. Most young Pisces women get easyly hurt and do fall fast or are more naive see everything with unicorns.....it happnd to me to somethimes to forget so i can'[t be mad at things like this...When i was in my 20 i was crying to for anything and if i didn't like something i broke up till i get my life lesson .Since then i learned to tolerate and apreciate every single thing that the other person is doing for me and try to do the same.


She’s 22 Pisces sun. Gem moon I’m 27 cancer sun sag moon.

We talked ONE TIME since the last time we’d seen each other (after the whole me not texting her when I got home thing).

And when we talked it was brief like a week later. Than I sent her pizza to her job (she lives 6 hours away). She FaceTimed me to thank me. I never answered (I was at the gym). Told her she could call me later. She never did. A week later I call her. JUST as she got to her cousin’s wedding (which I knew was coming up). Tells me a lot has been going on since we last talked and that she can’t talk for a while. Told her “yeah I figured something was up. Hope you have a relaxing break while you’re away at the wedding”. Never heard back. That was 3 weeks ago.... I went thrifting the other day for my self. And stumbled upon an old ass t-shirt of her favorite movie. I took it home and washed it, and mailed it to her job this morning. We are so good together, so many cards against us though. I just wish she would just talk to me, but I’m just gonna keep doing me until she does. I sometimes misconceive my relationships with others, but Iv never been so sure of something/someone in my life. The universe is definitely testing my patience and ego though for sure.


Well if she never answered back since then is clear she doesn't want something or it's someone else to in the picture and she can't decide.I never dater a Cancer in my life i only have friends or familly and i found them to sensitive and clingy like i feel i suffocate so i allways dated guys who liked to have intimacy and not be togheter all day lol...but i am also like that and if a guy call's me non stop and stuff i run away....i like men who call me and show me they like me but maybe every 3 days . I know is a bad example but i hope u get what i mean.I allways liked Sag,Aries and Aquarius ...
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Lol I called her 3 times this month. And she lives 6 hours away. So I doubt that it’s “space” or “suffication”. My theory is that she doesn’t want to pursue this cause of the distance. Which I get. But at this point I’m aggravated cause I don’t like when people beat around the bush to spare my feelings. We finally talked through text this morning. I told her she seemed icy toward me the entire 3 times we spoke this month including this morning. Neither of us EVER talk through text. She was being extremely apologetic in telling me, yet again, that her feelings have been fucked up since she last seen me and that she’s not being icy or shady. And that she’s sorry she’d been distant. And has a hard time talking about it. I simply told her that, tbh she seemed like she was being an ass hole for whatever reason and that I don’t like not knowing if she’s ok. That my emotions have been all over the place too, that she can talk to me about whatever and that she doesn’t have to go through shit alone. Than she proceeded to come at me like “I sorry but I can’t be there for your feelings blah blah blah.” And than I got hella pissed because I never even mentioned her being there for my feelings. I can be there for my damn self. And straight up asked her why she would even imply that. That my only reason reaching out is that I want to know how SHE is. Period. Not dump my emotional labor on her. But now I feel annoyed and unsure about where I stand. That Iv been patient and will continue to be so long as there is something to be patient for. But I won’t be made in to a fool and I want to know if I’m the only one thinking about the other cause if not I’ll gladly move on. She hasn’t answered yet but I’m not here to play games. We BOTH like space. We BOTH get busy. But at this point she’s making excuses for avoiding me and it’s a fucking cop out. Iv been down this rodeo enough times with Pisces women to anticipate them and stand up for my self in situations like this. I know I’m not doing anything wrong. This is all her being in her head, or not thinking about it at all I don’t care. But last time we seen each other she told me she LOVED me. And this a day after we had a little argument regarding her point on how she “hates when people say they love you when they don’t mean it”. Last time I saw her she straight CRIED looking in to my eyes expressing “wow, people do come in to eachother’s lives for a reason”. And just kept thanking me for coming in to hers. So yeah at this point I think she’s being a fucking pussy.” Does that make you look at it differently now that I gave you a little more context?
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Think the distance is killing it. Sure, when's she with you she may think you're great for each other. But, when it's been a bit since you've met in person, she's had time to become bored or think herself out of her feelings or even meet someone new. She's probably just making excuses because she's not feeling it anymore and you two don't see each other enough to keep her interested.

She seems more like the type to be focused on what people provide her, rather than what she can provide others, or even a good in between. Basically, she's the 'taker' in the relationship. At least that's what I got from the "I'm sorry but I can't be there for your feelings" comment.

Whether what I said is on point or not, it at least does not sound like the thing you two have will go anywhere anytime soon.
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Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?


depends on if we have Scorpio placements and if we have matured.

i just blocked and unblocked a girl twice today because she didn't respond to my last text yesterday

thought about even unfollowing her on social media

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Posted by WaterDevil

Would you get mad if someone you love didn’t text you back when they got home? For example you are on an amazing date, Pisces tells you she loves you and to get home safe. Than by the time you get home you are tired and figure you’ll talk the next day? Would you get mad if that happened? Seems so benign to me. But what’s the deal behind that if you get mad over those things?


depends on if we have Scorpio placements and if we have matured.

i just blocked and unblocked a girl twice today because she didn't respond to my last text yesterday

thought about even unfollowing her on social media

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