Question of the Day...Need some GOOD responses!

QUESTION OF THE DAY (For Pisces):

What is the Farthest you've ever gone to get someone back? (Good or evil)

Voodoo.

Lol just kidding, nothing actually once it's done it's done. I think you'll find that's the general concensus on here too.

Interesting question though.

We don't chase ... once we swim, it's done.


I thought you did an extensive 7 year research, interviewing real-life people .... and you don't even know that Fish are infamous for swimming away, never to return?

This is our trade-mark .. why don't you know that?

P-angel...Here we go again. I don't owe you any damn explanation. Asking questions & hearing from the people of the sign is one way research is done. And what you said is NOT true of every single Pisces. I'm amazed at how you claim you don't chase, yet you sure as hell keep finding my posts & Keep giving negative responses. I didn't title this post, "I need to know the answers because I don't know anything about Pisces." Getting the answers to these questions from Pisces is an even better form of learning more about them. Wait a minute, why am I even responding to such ignorance...From here on out, you will NEVER get a response out of me again, INTELLIGENCE OVER IGNORANCE ANY DAY!

I know of a pisces girl who is quick to kick her friends to the curve once she has a boyfriend...its like she can't juggle the two (friends/boyfriend)

She gets brand new when she is in a relationship, and the bad thing about that is he plays the shit out of her...

Wow, that's messed up. So you're saying OnesexyGem, that your Pisces friend will ditch her friends just to have love?

Yes, that's very true Moro...All of the Pisces that are personally my friends have the tendency to go back to those they are attached to UNTIL they find someone new. I have a friend that was willing to blackmail her ex's NEW girlfriend as a hope of getting him back.

Well, I mean it could be both love & obsession. Love is something EVERYONE in every signs longs for & it's kind of interesting to know the kinds of things people will do to keep their "obsession" or keep the love of their life

Wow, that's messed up. So you're saying OnesexyGem, that your Pisces friend will ditch her friends just to have love?"

Pretty much...

she's just a totally different person when it comes to him, and he is not worth it...

Yeah, some people say that Pisces completely let go & move on. And in some cases that's true, but it also seems like they either completely let go or completely HOLD ON no matter how hurtful/wrong the other person is.

krysrenee7 3/7/2008 11:17:23 AM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

Well, I mean it could be both love & obsession. Love is something EVERYONE in every signs longs for & it's kind of interesting to know the kinds of things people will do to keep their "obsession" or keep the love of their life

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krysrenee7 3/7/2008 11:19:48 AM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

Yeah, some people say that Pisces completely let go & move on. And in some cases that's true, but it also seems like they either completely let go or completely HOLD ON no matter how hurtful/wrong the other person is.

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krysrenee7 3/7/2008 10:24:00 AM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

I'll share my crazy revenge story with you........

.... After we broke up, we were still sleeping together, but the relationship part of us was gone. So I used our sexual relationship to advantage, told him to meet me at a local park at night so we could "get it on." I knew no one would be at the park after closing hours so when he showed up, I peppersprayed his entire body! He started crying, & scratching everywhere because the pepperspray was not only in his eyes, but ON his whole body (clothes too). He got completely naked & begged me for water to ease some of the pain. Oh I had several water bottles in my car, and handed him one bottle (even though he could not see anything). He put the little bit of water on his body, but kept asking for more. Instead of me giving him another water bottle, I threw the water bottle at him again & peppersprayed him even more. At that point he was screaming & cursing me. I took the time to vent & go off on him about everything he'd done to hurt me & drove off....And left his ass. And the crazy thing is, even though I left him in pain, I STILL felt that he didn't feel even HALF of the pain he'd caused me. Even though I felt DAMN GOOD for bringing pain to him ...

StarFish...I think you are absolutely right. So here's my question...What is the farthest you or a friend (Pisces or not) has ever gone to get someone back or keep a relationship? I have a friend that always goes to her partner's family members & complains so that they'll call her boyfriend & make him feel guilty, thus him only staying because of the pressure from his family to do right.

"but when we let go its for good and its like a bomb has been dropped on that other person, bc they did not see it coming thought we would hang on forever.."

Yep, once I fall out of love that's it, gone, done and dusted. It's not about not going back because I don't believe it would be good for me or whatever it's simply because I feel nothing, zilch so I have to let go. Some of my ex's have found it really hard to believe how I can fall out of love so quickly, then again I imagine some of that's down to my Gemini moon, I can literally lose all interest overnight.

Well, Starfish, that's definetely a GREAT thing that you can let go when it's time to let go & hold on when it's time to hold on. That's something alot of people wish they could do. It just comes to show that listening to your MIND and your HEART at the same time might get you in trouble! Your Mind might tell you one thing, while your heart tells you to do another!

Yeah, one of my longtime girlsfriends always uses any kind of gesture to get him to feel sorry for her in order to get him back. She's even used the "I'm terminally ill" line even though she was just fine health wise. I've had Pisces friends that would purposely dress extra sexy around him so that if he didn't want her back mentally, he'd alteast still lust over her sexually. She atleast needed to know that she "had him" in some kind of way.

Well no, the point of my story was to give an example that even the worst forms of revenge still don't work. I learned alot from that experience & I gave that story as a reminder to myself that getting revenge only gives (if it does at all) a temporary feeling of "Yes I got him good!" but in the end, the hurt is still there & cutting him off was the best thing I did for myself in the end.

Aquarius

No, I'm an Aquarious but I have ALOTTT of Scorpio friends

No, not necessarily. I have lots of friends from all the Zodiac. And yes, I've learned alot about Scorpios 1. Because of associating with alot of them and 2. From doing research about them. They're pretty interesting creatures LOL!

Good revenge story! I'm glad you didn't try to call him out on it when he called you for another date because he would've definetely denied taking your money. And if you had've said something, he probably wouldn't have came on the date with you. So good move. He had to have been completely caught off guard. I must say the #1 rule in Revenge is to NEVER let them see it coming.

Right! And that's the mind trick that revenge plays on people. That same "I can get in where I fit in" theory plays a big role when people are involved romantically, because in their minds, Love is wayyyy more stronger and worse off losing than money. But I do agree with you, if you mess with my money, you mess with ME and anybody else who protects me. I wonder why he was stupid enough to ask you on another date? He probably thought he'd be able to pick pocket you again, especially since you hadn't said anything to him on the phone about it.

Oh Wow. So what happend next? Did he attempt to get revenge back because he got jumped? Did he ever call you again? Did you guys ever see each other again?

Moro: "If there is one sign that doesn't go back to their exes is the gemini. And this is NOT absolute. We all have our weeknesses...."

I wish this was true, I just turned my Gemini ex away this morning after ignoring him all day yesterday. He came back on last Saturday saying he wanted us to be back together, he was playing for keeps and wanted us to get married soon.

He scares me, the first time we were together it was for 3 weeks, we lived together from Sun to Thurs when we had an argument and my attitude didn't subside soon enough and he rolled out. This was the third Thursday in August and I begged him til Labor day to come and let's work it out. He promised the Friday prior to Labor Day that we would talk on Labor Day and I never heard back from him He wanted us to get married before the end of the year then too. Anyway, he and I both have gone back since breaking up initially in 2005. Every time he has a new story about a relationshipg (usually engaged to the girl) where something went wrong. I just couldnt get it out of my head that he wouldn't bail on me again at the first sign of heat. So, I can't trust him anymore. Had to be honest.

As for Pisces coming back, if things didnt' end badly but they just lagged off they will come back. If it ended ugly I don't think they will. But, I don't know for sure.

Starfish, my brother and his friend beat a dude up for my sister who is Pisces, from what I gather she didn't tell them to but should have. The story went that this dude who was a family friend but a non-working three kids having loser. He was a punk too. Well my sister is forever bringing in strays to my mom house. So this dude was staying there for a time being, he wasn't her boyfriend just a family friend for a few years. I even had him over to my house along with another of her friends on our family Thanksgiving celebration in 2005.

Well, she left $ 200 out on her dresser, she always leaves money out like that. And she came back and it was gone. He was the only one in there at the time. His baby momma who she was cool with told my sister all the stuff he had bought. He admitted to taking it after it was all gone and tried to apologize. Of course he had no way of paying her back. Well she pretended to forgive him too and when he came over my brother (Leo) and his friend beat that ass as well.

That dude you met was definitely trashy and I am so glad justice was served. I don't feel sorry for people like that. Who knows, that ass whooping might save his life one day.

"we had an argument and my attitude didn't subside soon enough and he rolled out. This was the third Thursday in August and I begged him til Labor day to come and let's work it out."



Begged?

Yeah, pretty much begged. Between the day he decided to leave and the Friday he said he would come talk to me. During that conversation he made me think he was open to working it out and that on Labor day we would talk face to face. He never called.

Well my pisces ex told me ummm I think this was Thursday that I was his wife and he was never ever ever gonna leave me alone. Mind you, I'm not his wife & it is sooo over between us. I'm a cancer and I think cancers (not all) tend to let go and be gone without a trace. Its hard for us to finally break it off but once we do...it's goodbye. I mean we will think about you and love you forever...but as far as getting back together or back to "that place" in our hearts it just can't happen. Not even if we wanted it to. Theres always that nasty little pessimistic voice that says, "it'll never work"....or "he hasn't changed" or "don't get your heart broken again"...."protect yourself!!"

Weeeeell...I don't Pisces would do much to get anyone back, because Pisces would most of the time feel that some failing of theirs lead to the break-up.Also Pisces is quite laid-back and philosophical.

Awww come on guys we all know us Pisces are obsessed stalkers (hahaha). To get a man back, I usually ruin their chances of successfully finding a date by airing their dirty laundry. Even more so after completely being over them, I do it for the kicks....I know Im terrible. Thats only for serious partners though, if its a primitive relationship, I dont even bother.