Revenge

OK so I know to want revenge is not healthy and I should be above it all blah blah but I'm flaming well sick of seeing people get away with shit and it makes my blood boil. Normally I let these things slide but lately I find myself feeling quite enraged and wanting to see people get their comeupance.

I feel so frustrated. I want people to pay!

Still trying to settle that dispute in the family about the inheritence, Sweet-T?

It's always nice when you pop in 😄

Hey P! No it's not that, thankfully that's all calmed down and all is very well with the family - in fact it's brought us all closer together in a strange sort of way.

I'm just venting because of the behaviour of some people I know. OK one in particular. And I suppose I should spill to let you understand where I'm coming from.

Long story short, old Scorp friend of mine who back in the early summer confessed to liking me more as a friend. Came as a bit of a shock but we did always get on really well, had a sort of bond. We kind of seen each other on and off, nothing major as we've known each other for years and I lost one friend before through things getting "complicated" and I wasn't sure how things would turn out. Mainly because I know what I'm like, fickle and all that. Then he went on holiday and met a girl. Said he liked her and that was fine, I was happy for him. But then later on a night out he says nah it was just a drunken fling but he is still good mates with her but that he likes me. So we hook up again. The next weekend he tells me she's coming over for his birthday. I'm like erm ok but I think right I'll come out and meet her which I do. He proceeds to spend most of the night flirting with me which I find weird as she keeps looking over and it's just obvious from her behaviour that she's there as more than a friend.

So I say to him look if this means more to her than you then you need to let her know. He says it's cool they are 100% just mates and she goes home (to Ireland) and the next again weekend he and I hook up again. Then I find out the next weekend she has MOVED here and is staying with him while trying to get a job here. She stayed with him when she was over for his birthday weekend too. So that was 2 weeks ago and I haven't heard a peep from him.

I'm just really angry that he can flit from me to her and back again etc. all the while telling me all this piss about her just being a mate. Sorry but I don't believe a word of it. We have a ten year long friendship and he's only known her 6 months if that plus if he's not sleeping with her I'll eat my own shoe.

From my own perspective I'm not bothered about him being with someone, because we were never serious. It's the fact she clearly knows shit about him being with me and that he's just lied about it all to both of us. I actually want to punch his face in, or tell her, or both!

There are other things as well not just with him. Just people lying about shit when there is no need it drives me bananas!

Posted by Loyalist Rebel

Posted by P-Angel
It's always nice when you pop in 😄

Or poop in....just like she did.

However I agree. It's nice to see her here.

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Hey SF glad to see you're still about! Yeah been a while!

I know and you're right. I never wanted a relationship with him though. I'm just disgusted that he's been with me while CLEARLY getting into something with her and has lied about it all. Especially since he's supposed to be a good friend. If he had just been upfront and honest I wouldn't be so mad. Nor btw would I have gotten into anything with him myself.

She's welcome to him and I'll say one thing, if this is the kind of behaviour she's to expect from him then I pity her. The man has no balls.

And I'm not one for revenge, it just pisses me off that he's lied to her too but is getting away with it.

I'm also mad at myself for allowing this to happen. But as a good and (formerly) trusted friend I had no reason not to believe him.

He is, as we like to say in Scotland, a complete and utter asswipe.

good to know that "asswipe" is a universal term!

Loyalist Rebel is Haffo Sweet-P ...😄



What a bunch of bullshit ... seriously, you don't need that crap.



We have asswipes here also ... great term, isn't it?

OMG Haffo is still here! Liking the new name btw lol.

I think that's what it is SF I'm just pissed off because as a friend I kinda had this guy on a pedestal and I just never expected this from him. That and I feel like a total idiot. Nothing new there right enough lol but still it makes me mad. And the fact that I haven't heard from him since she moved here that I find quite bad because whatever happened we were mates and I just feel a bit ditched now, not to mention used.

But hey ho, you live and learn I guess. I'm just disappointed. And I still find it mad that she's living with him despite them only having met on holiday 6 months ago. I mean how much can he really know this girl? But that's his problem not mine.

Oh and glad to hear asswipe isn't just a Scottish thing haha. Still, I'm pretty sure "bawbag" is. :-P

Hi Shaks - yet another name change I see lol.

I don't feel very fresh. Still wanna punch the dude's lights out! It'll pass though. :-)

I think you should go back to the place where you met your latin lover .. or was he italian.

Can't remember ... but, what I do remember is that you were glowing in the mornings when he was the one waking you up 😄

Ahhh the Spaniard! Now he was a sweetie.

I need to let go of this anger it doesn't suit me. It's just the time of year I think, it's so depressing. We're in the middle of winter here, in fact the shortest day of the year is this week. We're only getting something like 6 hours of daylight just now and even at that it's still dark and cold and rains most of the time. 😢

Why are my smileys not working? Has it really been that long I've forgotten!