Should I bring up that him not being a big texter bothers me? Or just let things be?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by allyouneedisloveandwine on Monday, June 12, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@allyouneedisloveandwine
9 Years

I’ve been seeing this man (a colleague) for 3 months now and he was very clingy the first month we were seeing each other. His clinginess faded a little bit recently when things got busy at work. I know I shouldn’t take it personally and I do understand him (he’s a very busy guy), that’s why I just let him be since we’re very much okay when we’re together.

Last Friday, he introduced me as his girlfriend to some people (I’ve met his family and other friends during our first month dating) and he brought up that he was very serious with me, etc. I slept over the same night, just cuddled before sleeping and had hot sex the next morning. Haha. The next 2 days, we didn’t communicate much. And it’s always like this in between days we see each other especially on weekends. Weekends he's normally just at home or sometimes out at night. We rarely plan things on weekends. Should I bring up that I’d appreciate it if he texts at least if he’s home or about his plans for the day? Not looking for a conversation. I just want him to update me if he got home safe when he's out. He does this sometimes, but not consistently. I’m just worried, cause he’s going home to his country for over a month.

*I'm a cancer, he's a pisces

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@GalOnTheCusp
11 Years

Maybe it's Pisces guy v. girls - because I love talking on the phone. Texting is totally fine, but I get more out of the convo if it's on the phone, and of course in person.

Audio messages are cute too, but jeez, then just call. lol

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@allyouneedisloveandwine
9 Years

Thanks for the advice guys! Will probably let him be first and see how things go when he is away. If he is still like that while away, I will bring it up when he comes back maybe? Or while he's away? But thanks for taking time to reply.

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Tell him.. You seem close enough that it won't matter and if he cares he'll oblige. No one's ever complained to me about it.. I'm pretty good with txting unless you just aren't interesting.