Sick of people saying Pisces are clingy!!

Not all Pisces are clingy! Some are the complete oposite - I need & crave my space!

Thats news to me lol,its usually cancers that get that line because the ones i've met are.My pisces is the only person who hasn't suffocated me into hating him because he needs his space too🙂

Welcome back Tiamat.

We all have missed you here.

There u go - ta Tiamat! I used to try & get 'me' time once a week. Even when with my man I don't watch him 24/7 (cept for lately cause he being a rat bag) but I am more than willing to do my own thing - I HATE being smothered -

Clingy?

What is clinginess of the Pisces?

In what way it is bad?

Why this person needs to be clingy?

Is that person actually gets an answer and then clings? Or is that person gets silent treatment?

Thanks haffo missed you too🙂Also haven't been postin much,just lurking other than a few times on the political board debates or topics on my own scorp/troll infested board that they keep getting decent topics deleted.

Oh yeah and like the new profile lol.

Profile is fine.

Looks like calculus101, but ok 🙂

"I've found Pisces to be extremely clingy and then cold at the next minute. I can only say that this is inspired by moods and not a consistent philsopy of aloofness versus constant availability."

That's inadequate information to judge the clinginess.

I can be clingy at times, but it doesnt last long. I treasure my "me time" If you cant enjoy your own company no one else will.

What is clinginess anyway?

"What is clinginess anyway?"

Clinginess is to remain emotionally attached; to hold on to.

Okay.

Then Pisces is not clingy at all, because Pisces do rarely invest their emotions of someone.

See my interpretation of clingyness is physical attachment like wanting to see and talk to them all the time. In that sense, thats what I meant. I'm not sure what being emotionally clingy is. I'm usually locked inside my head so I dont have much to give emotionally unnecessarily.

Physical attachment?

It's like you bind to them with some sort of a chain or rope? Talking to people and sharing information could be sensible for unclingy part. But when you are talking to someone beyound just sharing information, and "expecting" something from them, then I consider this as attachment.

However, people are attached emotionally to some level with people. At least, calling someone "friend" is also some sort of attachment, isnt it? What is a friend in logical sense? Probably nobody. That what I mean, we just talk with people, share information, but we never hesitate to leave the place when we find we're done there.

This is an unattachment, because Piceans can leave (and dump too as being told in other topic).

The pisces I know do what they damn well like 🙂. No attachments whatsoever.. Sticky? Haven't met a pisces that acts like that to be quite honest.

Pisces

Who said that we are clingy? Tell us and we go and decpitate this being.

*Takes out his titanium double axes and whilrs in his fingers.

Bring those m***kers here.

Clingy to me is someone who uses the smallest and lamest excuses to call you 24/7(alterior motive:To check up on you),someone who wants to meet every single person you ever mention even if its your sister or brother,cousin,makes no differece if its the opposite sex(again they got to check up on you.They always have to be around you and you literally have to say goodnight,turn off the lights and go to bed before they decide to leave,they always have to leave gross ass hickeys all over you(makes sure everyone knows your taken),always wants to be touching you in someway(holding hands,hugging you,etc.)24/7...could also say possesive is my version of clingy,physical stuff.

Yeah,

Negative possesiveness.

Hey that makes lots of sense 😉

That's very smart Tiamat.

According to your description Tiamat, my father was clingy (he's a Cancer BTW lol), because he kept checking on everything and everyone almost every minute. I somehow felt this as a possesiveness, but I never thought it could be clinginess as well.

Haffo! some of the Aquas are the ones usually spouting crap about the pisces being clingy - Bas experiences or something - who knows