Sigh ... My Darn Pisces Mama :( (vent)

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by cappysweetie on Sunday, July 27, 2008 and has 3 replies.

I'm kind of upset, but maybe I should be, I don't really know right now, but I feel slightly angry.

Today, I wanted discuss a few things with my mom over lunch -- I asked her last night to come to lunch with me, so we could talk about things. She wants to hear everything over the phone but I suggested that I talk to her over lunch. She said she would call and let me know what time we could go. When noon approached and I didn't hear anything from her, I called and asked what happened. She wants to discuss everything at her house to talk, she thinks its silly to discuss things outside of her house. Usually, I wouldn't take issue to this, but I've noticed that everytime my Aqua Step-dad wants to go somewhere, she will drop everything and go -- seroiusly, I swear. If my Step-dad leaves her behind, she gets highly upset.

The fact that she will not go out to lunch with me has upset me only because this isn't the first time she's cancelled on me and suggest that I come to her instead.

This time ... I'm not doing it ...

My Mom wants to be more involved in my life and I want her to be more involved too. We've been working on this for a while but not without problems. Everytime I talk to her, she's always doing something else, so she's distracted and doesn't always hear the important stuff. Or, my Step-dad always feels the need to voice his opinion and come in all certain issues that he doesn't really understand. He can be super critical along with being negative and he turns most of the conversations into a "three-ring circus". Things have gotten better since I've moved out, but he still has a tendency to do that when he's in one of his moods.

So she's expecting me over but I will not go because ... I'm not sure what I'm feeling, but I know I'm don't want to see her right now.