Taurus man pisces woman URGENT help please

I have been datin gmy pisces girl for almost 3 years. We are long distance. We met in CHicago, (I lkive in New York). We broke up last summer because she was not sure if she wanted to keep dating me. I respected her wish and backed off. We reunited last winter when she reappeared, wanting to reunite, apologizing and admitting that she missed me. Since then we have been good to each other. No arguments, we have each visited each other at least once. She is a preschool teacher and her days are draining to say the least. By the time the weekend comes she doesn't want to leave the house, just recooperate and rest.

SInce this is the end of the school year things have been hectic, but she usually responds to my calls. I don't want to call her at work as it can be disruptive.

Is this normal behavior for a pisces woman when things get crazy around her? I am good with giving her space (not hard to do in a LDR, but you know what I mean)
Do you usually dissappear from friends and boyfriends for a little bit to recharge, or should I be worried? I've never cheated on her, and she says she knows that I do love her. Any insight would be appreciated.

"Do you usually dissappear from friends and boyfriends for a little bit to recharge, or should I be worried?"



It's a very Piscean thing. It's also a very Taurean thing to be a little on the posesive side.


"but she usually responds to my calls. I don't want to call her at work as it can be disruptive."

When was the last time you talked to her on the phone, and previous to that, how often would you usually talk over the phone?

"When was the last time you talked to her on the phone, and previous to that, how often would you usually talk over the phone?"

Hi Liokaiser

The last time we spoke was last thusday but that was all of 10 seconds. I called her just as her break was ending adn the kids for her afternoon session we're coming in. I said OK, then call me when you have time.
Reason I'm concerned is that when we did speak at length the previous week she told me to call her that Friday as she was going to be home (she needed the day off/work-stress). So I called her later the next day but got no response. Tried once again on Sunday. And thats when I made the Thursday call I mentioned above.

We usually speak about once or twice a week. Once on a night that she gets in early enough before crashing, and usually me once on a Saturday or Sunday.

I also don't want to push her. This was a problem last year with me (possesive Taurus). Ever since we got back together I have been immaculate with giving her space and vice versa. Like night and day. She noticed and appreciates it.

Hi Bran

I definitely don't want her under me 24/7.

"I also don't want to push her."

There's some onus on her too, Give her a ring on at the next time you would usually talk to her, and if you aren't able to contact her, leave her a message to ring you back.

Liokaiser,

CAn you please elaborate on this "very Piscean thing"? What are some motivators behind it? I just want to be more understanding, and prepared for when this happens since it seems to be a trait.

I do this a lot, actually, but I've always been the loner type. Sometimes, even if I want to spend a lot of time with someone, I fight that urge because I'm afraid of crowding them. However, I like to be PURSUED. It has been stated this is a popular trait of Pisces women, and it is true of me, anyway. It's a bit old fashioned, but it proves to me that someone is willing to put forth some effort to be with me. Just my .02. Hope it helps.

Thanks Sea Siren, and Sweet P.

This is something I'm going to ride out. She'll call when she's ready.

Oh, disappear? Pisces women? When there's stress?


You betcha! I do it all the time. If I can't disappear physically (with people in the house) I do it mentally. Better to hide away than risk exposing a vulnerable core that's scary even to the person who owns it. When things get really, really rough I can't find the words or thoughts to put it out there and don't want to burden other people.

And we do love to be pursued. It's old fashioned, yes, but it's also biology since the dawn of time. We're best when receptive and responsive to a man's efforts - it's a feminine trait and Pisces women are the eternal feminine.

hey i'm a pisces woman and yes i do spend lots of time alone away frm ppl to charge myself and to think...my guess is that she'll be bak on track soon...be patient

I am also a Pisces female and hold true to what all the rest has said. At this time in the school year, I would think she would be especially busy, dealing with the end of a term and year .. her workload is probably doubled. So, to need extra time to relax wouldn't seem unreasonable.

It's in our nature, because we are aware on two planes .. it takes a lot of energy to keep focused in strenuous circumstances .. I wouldn't panic.

However, I also agree with Leokitten, "three years is a lot of time to sink into something that seems to have no future and not much daily connection." As well as several other Pisceans who proclaimed that they would have contact with you to tell you their intentions.

This, in itself, would cause me alarm, but, NOT necessarily the needing of space. After this much time in a relationship, I would think she would be more attentive to you.

And this brings up another crucial point .. Piscean females are VERY attentive to their mates/partners .. we don't normally appear so unavailable. I would be concerned about this aspect of the relationship.

If I were you .. I would prompt her into having a conversation addressing your concerns about the relationship. However, I would probably wait until after school has ended. You might find that after it's over and she's had to time to re-charge her internal batteries, that this avoidance isn't even an issue.

It's is definitely a Piscean trait to disappear and recharge.

I certainly require a lot of space on a regular basis, but only for a specific amount of time. The rest of the time, I really enjoy keeping in touch with my loved ones and hearing how their lives are going. In fact, I feel energized when I do talk to them after a couple of days without any contact.

I agree with the rest of the posters, she's probably just completely swamped.
However, you should voice your concerns about her being non responsive.

BTW, we do like to be chased, but not aggressively, of course, otherwise we flee.