Taurus Woman seeking advice from Pisces Man

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transcendentbull
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Hi guys! I'm new here, I decided to finally sign up after a few days of lurking in the shadows (I just realized how creepy that sounded...I'm nice I promise, I bake a lot!..okay I'm stopping). I have my eyes set on a Pisces male, but the way in which we have started to contact eachother is quite unconventional, and I am trying to figure out what my next move should be. I am still, however, very cautious in regards to posting the story here because it is so distinct, and there could be a chance he would see it (Oi vey, am I ever paranoid, such a plug.)

I was wondering if there were any Pisces males who could dedicate a few moments to reading into the story and the first few encounters. Maybe they could point me in the right direction. Just message me, I'll bake you some virtual cookies.
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transcendentbull
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Ok ok
The Pisces I like comes into my place of work a lot, and I work in a place where a lot of us girls get to observe our members. We know their name, details about their schooling, and so on. It all comes up on our computer. We have cheeky little "work" crushes, completely innocent in nature and with no intention at all. Its a silly little environment, we just chuckle whenever someone elses "work crush" comes along.

A week and a half ago I finally noticed mine (all hail being a crazily lame human being.) A girl I work with started to joke around about it and said "Hey you never know what will happen!" Seeing as I am the way I am, I just started laughing and said that we was way out of my league. She is a very strong headed person, she does not get embarrassed and acts like a mother to a lot of the girls there. She went off on me! She started going on about how someone who looks like me should have no insecurities about their looks, and she said that he would be lucky to ever be introduced to someone like me, so much so that she went on to message him to prove a point. She told him that someone she knew thought he was cute, and that this person was very attractive, worked where I work, etc. He replied minutes later with a really funny email, but he asked who this person was. She told him that I would kill her if she ever disclosed my name (its one thing to message someone, its another to give them my name...eek!) but nonetheless, after I begged her not to, she did. She told him that he could just look at my Facebook and if he was curious to add me.

About 20 minutes later the Pisces added me. He sent me a message I never got until he messaged me again the next day on chat saying hello. We spoke for about an hour and a half, getting the hilarity that was our introduction over with soon enough. He's very funny, which appeals to the side of me that loves banter, we went back and forth for quite some time. He remembered me from my place of employment, stating that I was the one who sold him something a while ago and that he has noticed me down there on many occasions. After a while I had to end the conversation, as studying to be a doctor eats up most of my free time during exams. We said our goodbyes and he hasn't messaged me since, and I know that as a Pisces male they usually try very hard at first when they are interested in someone, so I am thinking I should take this as a sign of disinterest. Yes? No?
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Posted by transcendentbull
He's also a known cheater



Nevermind. Dont be a fucking assclown.
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Yeah I know I know. I tend to like what I know I shouldn't. I am completely drawn to him, he probably knows that. I'm just being silly, I tend to be a bit of a dreamer when it comes to thinking I can be the "different" one.

Okay. Time to smarten up. *smacks face*
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transcendentbull
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Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
You are adorable.
How do you know though that he is a cheater. Are the resources reliable? I had a reputation in school of "not just being with one guy" that was told to a boyfriend of mine, funny because back in school, I was a virgin throughout. Luckily he knew me well enough to tell her she was wrong and I wasn't like she thought. I was with him for three years and was always faithful. I'm just saying it's ok sometimes to give someone the benefit of the doubt, but it's okay for you to continue to be cautious. It's hard though when your heart wants to take the lead. If you give him a chance then I'm sure you'll see what his intentions are early enough to stop it before it starts. Use your instincts.



The girl who messaged him has a roommate who actually knows the girl he was dating. He apparently cheated on her all the time, despite being in a relationship for a long time. He's a relationship guy, in terms of always getting into very long ones, but he wasn't faithful in his last one. I think it is a reliable source, although I always try to tell myself to figure things out on my own. I think that is why I kind of laced the situation in a little bit of hope, I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt before I completely retreat.

Good ol Pisces charm. I'm usually not so taken by human beings. Its the eyes. Hahah. Oi vey!
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thefish
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Known cheater eh? One would surmise that if its a friend of the ex the stories only half done. Pisces arent very good at breaking up with people. So he may have cheated just to get dumped. Or he may have cheated because he was cheated on. Point is your in or your out. Feel him out or take your hook out of the water and row home.

When your the one we are ever faithful. But if your not we tend to be ass hats. Anyhow try it out one date wont kill you.
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Posted by winterwrought
So this person knows this person, who they want despite their questionable past and/or behaviour. What's stopping the object of affection from doing the same to your ass as well? It's common fucking sense. You'll just be another "tally on the bedpost", another conquest, another fool to be made of by their guile. You want to fabricate faith in the event that they might change - for your sake, or their's - when it probably won't happen.



I couldn't agree more with your posts, especially this last one.

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Posted by transcendentbull

He's also a known cheater, always in a relationship.









You knew this before even making this thread.

Women like you make me sick to my stomach ... along with the Intrigue one posting in here, who is married and living with her husband while emotionally cheating with another man.


If you would chase a cheater .. this means you condone cheating .. so fuck you, cunt
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Posted by transcendentbull
He's also a known cheater, always in a relationship. He recently broke up with his last girlfriend, and the Taurus in me is very cautious because I'd rather not be a rebound or one of many.

Message him? I've been telling myself to leave it over the break and then start a conversation in person, versus online. Bad idea to let it stew?

Guide me oh wise ones.



just take it slow.

plus do you know exactly why he cheated? its all types of reasons for infidelity..he may have had a legit reason to do it..like his gf wasn't giving him intercourse on a daily basis, or she wasn't giving him good oral sex, or maybe her cooch was consistently dry because of some type of personal defect she was born with and penis alone couldn't fix it..you never know.

so if you have a normal,healthy vagina, and good head, i say give him a chance




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Posted by transcendentbull
He's also a known cheater, always in a relationship. He recently broke up with his last girlfriend, and the Taurus in me is very cautious because I'd rather not be a rebound or one of many.

Message him? I've been telling myself to leave it over the break and then start a conversation in person, versus online. Bad idea to let it stew?

Guide me oh wise ones.



This is a no brainer. No, dont message him. Unless you enjoy pain.
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Posted by transcendentbull

He's also a known cheater, always in a relationship.









You knew this before even making this thread.

Women like you make me sick to my stomach ... along with the Intrigue one posting in here, who is married and living with her husband while emotionally cheating with another man.


If you would chase a cheater .. this means you condone cheating .. so fuck you, cunt
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I apologize for making you sick to your stomach. I am a very strong headed individual, I am never willing to take a chance on people. The security of being alone is more appealing to me than taking a chance. I made this thread thinking that I would get some advice on the situation, but I already knew what had to be done. I could never get involved with a cheater, my head would never let me, but I am still quite intrigued by him. That I will fully admit. As much as he may be a bad apple, I am intrigued by him. As much as I use my logic I will still be intrigued by him. That is the honest truth.
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Posted by DAMEN VI

just take it slow.

plus do you know exactly why he cheated? its all types of reasons for infidelity..he may have had a legit reason to do it..like his gf wasn't giving him intercourse on a daily basis, or she wasn't giving him good oral sex, or maybe her cooch was consistently dry because of some type of personal defect she was born with and penis alone couldn't fix it..you never know.

so if you have a normal,healthy vagina, and good head, i say give him a chance







lol 🙂
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Posted by transcendentbull
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by transcendentbull

He's also a known cheater, always in a relationship.









You knew this before even making this thread.

Women like you make me sick to my stomach ... along with the Intrigue one posting in here, who is married and living with her husband while emotionally cheating with another man.


If you would chase a cheater .. this means you condone cheating .. so fuck you, cunt



I apologize for making you sick to your stomach. I am a very strong headed individual, I am never willing to take a chance on people. The security of being alone is more appealing to me than taking a chance. I made this thread thinking that I would get some advice on the situation, but I already knew what had to be done. I could never get involved with a cheater, my head would never let me, but I am still quite intrigued by him. That I will fully admit. As much as he may be a bad apple, I am intrigued by him. As much as I use my logic I will still be intrigued by him. That is the honest truth.
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Well, let's hope this is true, and not you just saying to pacify.

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Posted by caligula
Posted by DAMEN VI

just take it slow.

plus do you know exactly why he cheated? its all types of reasons for infidelity..he may have had a legit reason to do it..like his gf wasn't giving him intercourse on a daily basis, or she wasn't giving him good oral sex, or maybe her cooch was consistently dry because of some type of personal defect she was born with and penis alone couldn't fix it..you never know.

so if you have a normal,healthy vagina, and good head, i say give him a chance







lol 🙂
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LOL. I love it. 🙂
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Hi transcendentbull,

I am a Pisces and by co-incidence i went along two times one on one only with taureans (maybe stars wont let me hook up with anyone else.).
As of my experience, in the beginning Pisces-Taurus go so smooth that people are like "OMG, really this is wow" but later they cant make it as they both do have a compulsion thing that binds together but its not the "actually good" match at all.

He will always be understanding with Scorpios, cancer (emotionally and shortcoming concerns). Not talking in bookish language but these are my own experiences.

He is proudly be a cheater (but only for the ones he don't like) still they would remain in his list but he will be really emotional with the one he really loves and that's a difficult task to get info about his real liking list. But probably you can get it only if he really likes you otherwise he would never let you know or let you know by other means like in jokes.

You might have thought he's the one who would go long with you but half of it depends on you too cuz Pisces men don't actually trust people easily even if they behave mimimi with them (specially born between 20-28feb).

For long run, Pisces wouldn't be a perfect match for you. I had two gfs and both were Taurus and there were times when our mentality doesn't match and i felt like she isn't for me but still we managed. Again problem, then managed. Did several times but its not the perfect combination.

First gf was told that Im no longer interested in her cuz she was really cold.
The second one, in the end when everything was going well and great, she comes to me and says "i lost feelings for you".
First i laughed like villains do and she was shocked why i am laughing then i said "Any f--king Reason" and she says NO.

Then i started shuffling my list again and like "Which one should i pick up now?" cuz i already realized she want a reason to go apart and i also had no problem going away and i had a reason too. lol.


So dear, for the long run its really hard to stay with Pisces and same for Pisces men too who came here by googling "Pisces men-Taurus girl" 🙂

I realized that taurean girls are one of the most super caring girls for pisces and fish guys love it but when their taureans get secretive/angry/COLD/rough, he may get hurt deeply and when the fish is really lost in the ocean again, you cant find them. Its impossible.


I wouldn't say you cant go long with Pisces, but it depends on taureans too and when
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akshae
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...he gets crazy try to understand why he's behaving in such a way.

Pisces would never leave you, keep in mind.
But he will always be happy to ditch you unless you made an image like a hoe in his mind or a bloody cold hearted bull.

But acc. to Linda, they stay together for really long time if they do well with great proportion and chemistry and even if they get apart somehow, they will UNITE one day.

Her words were for the situation when they are apart:
"She may occasionally give in to moods of self-pity and dark forebodings and Taurus woman is firmly convinced that anything can be cured with a tub full of warm water, a cup of hot soup, some cool reason and a few jokes. And he's master in doing so.
His instinct to return may be guiding him well, because there's lots of hope for lasting happiness inherent in a love affair specially between this man and woman".

Taurean would never get such care and emotional understanding from anyone except Pisces. But everyone knows pisces are really wild and sensitive.
They have two fishes in opposite and you can judge even by their logo their emotions and anger at the same time.

What you need to do it to understand his shortcomings ONLY and everything will be awesome like never before.
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by transcendentbull

He's also a known cheater, always in a relationship.









You knew this before even making this thread.

Women like you make me sick to my stomach ... along with the Intrigue one posting in here, who is married and living with her husband while emotionally cheating with another man.


If you would chase a cheater .. this means you condone cheating .. so fuck you, cunt
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I love your candor.

Let's face it, P.

Our inclinations toward monogomous and psychologically healthy relationships seem archaic these days.

What seems to be hip is the self-destruction and mental instability brought on by the YOLO and slutty life style s of the masses today.
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by transcendentbull

He's also a known cheater, always in a relationship.









You knew this before even making this thread.

Women like you make me sick to my stomach ... along with the Intrigue one posting in here, who is married and living with her husband while emotionally cheating with another man.


If you would chase a cheater .. this means you condone cheating .. so fuck you, cunt
click to expand




I love your candor.

Let's face it, P.

Our inclinations toward monogomous and psychologically healthy relationships seem archaic these days.

What seems to be hip is the self-destruction and mental instability brought on by the YOLO and slutty life style s of the masses today.