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haffo
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You didn't answer on my question in the first place:

"How did you get that I try to be hit with ladies?"

Which was totally wrong,

Now without an answer you pull out of your ass another two statements:

"he's just a jaded guy with mucho baggage."

and this:

"and I think he wants me."

Sorry but, are you that stupid in real life too? Do you always pull stupid reasons out of your ass in front of everyone just like you did here?

Read what I said and don't pull any new reasons out of your stupid ass (or head, well for you apparently it doesnt matter, ass or head all same):

GET THE FUCK OUT OF THAT FORUM!!

See it tells that you are unwanted here. No mucho baggages, no wantings, no lady hits, just that.
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haffo
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"'Pisces Suns may spend a good portion of their lives yearning for understanding, and the other part in a state of divine discontent. Suffering is sometimes glamorized in the Piscean world."

That explains it."

Another fool trying to find a reason. Apparenlt by the same method, pulling reasons out of their ass.

There is no explainations for anything. Pisces are not intirested. Everything is seen just like that. No hidden reasons, no hidden dramas. If there is no affection, tehre is no interested.

Pull your heads out of your arses and leave any relationships you have. YOU ARE NOT WELCOME!

Is that so hard to understand?
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haffo
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You did not suggested me visiting a mental institute. You just claimed (which was very wrongly) that I was actually "living" there which has nothing to do with occasional visitings in such places that usually associates with what you meant in your sentense.

Which comes to conclusion that visiting mental clinic was "my" suggestion, never yours, and that it is you who need reality sensors to be checked out, be it with prozac or your haloperidol.

PS: LMAO! I'm getting here learned names of meds that probably she has tested on herself. Nice nice, extra info wont hurt...
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haffo
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"branh0913, I can only guess that you actually like Haffo, and have never read any of his other annoying/inflammatory posts. Everyone else is probably just sick of fighting with him."

WOah woah woah!

I can't belive what I hear!

She finds my posts annoying! That means 1:0!

Oh and she probably finds fighting with me sickening..Woah woah! If this is true then that means 2:0!

Nice nice, I can see hate is starting to spread in this topic.

Nice nice, we are making progress here!
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haffo
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""Nice nice, I can see hate is starting to spread in this topic.

Nice nice, we are making progress here!"

actually, i luv u, haffo."

LMAO! What a maneovour. She just said that she finds my posts annoying and inflammatory and then makes 180 degree slip and tells she loves me. She clearly has no stability here and simply tries to not lose grounds..

LMAO! You are getting deciphered lad...ewww...bitch! LMAO!
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Greatwhite
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Well I'm a pisces and have never been described as shy. I think Pisceans are as picky as virgos, their opposite sign, but in different ways. All the slowness and reticence are really our way of investigating the many layers of selfhood discovered in relationships. I call it "testing" although it doesn't always seem that way to others. Pisceans sometimes have a problem with real people and real situations so it's important to your pisces guy to turn off the emotional microscope and just enjoy what he's discovered so far. For fish folk, love is fusion with the bright light of the divine, whatever you want to call all that. Everything in the world and real life only serves as a distraction to this. Taurus might really dig the fish's artsy side but the bull prolly wishes the fish to translate it all into bucks, home and hearth. I have venus dignified in taurus so get on well with bulls and can relate to the sign's materialism pretty well.
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tauruslady000
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"They were both VERY hard to get. VERY hard to read. Maybe that's why I like them. (Sorry Haffo)I knew I had a connection with each of them. I knew they liked me. They still were really hard to get. They lived in their own world, with a tendancy toward wallowing. They were so "woe is me" It's alot of effort for them to leave their wallow and confusion to have a real relationship. They dreamt about the perfect relationship, they were lonely, but took so much effort for them to get out of themselves. In the end it proved too much work for me. What is ironic is that they both see me as the one that got away. More wallowing. They need space, but my experience is, is that if you give them too much space, you may not hear from them. How bad do you want him? Be prepared to work"

SOO TRUE... my ex is pisces although he's aqua/pisces cusp... he acted so weird at times.. so hard to get that i actually thought he doesnt care for me that much.. only when we split up everyone told me how much he cared for me and i realised so many things i havent seen before... now he wants to get back to me but still even he wants to and now i know he loves me he still wont show it and act at times like if he didnt care at all!! SO WEIRD TO ME!

i dont like relationships in general but when im ready for one i want things to run smooth, whats the point of complicating them ?
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"I think Pisceans are as picky as virgos, their opposite sign, but in different ways. All the slowness and reticence are really our way of investigating the many layers of selfhood discovered in relationships. I call it "testing" although it doesn't always seem that way to others."

That's an interesting point of view. So you think it has much to do with person itself rather than practicality in relationship situations. But then you say something that apparently for "me" does not fit to the picture you try to explain:

"Pisceans sometimes have a problem with real people and real situations so it's important to your pisces guy to turn off the emotional microscope and just enjoy what he's discovered so far."

How can a person be picky when it has problems with reality? I mean, understanding the reality and stable thinking style is the first layer or first front to relationship situations while personality traits of person that we interested in as secondary. I mean how can you analyse a person's personality traits when you don't know how?

Don't you think it's a contradiction?
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Greatwhite
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Hi HAFFO!!

No, I don't think it's a contradiction at all. Reality as most would define it, you know, the daily grind of the every day mundane world with all the nuts and bolts machinations which that entails, is hardly the only aspect of living that can come under scrutiny, criticism or pickiness. Mental discernment can also be applied to the sublime, the philosophical and the transcendent. Your assumption that "pickiness" is a word that applies only to the crude and not to the unseen, spiritual and subjective reminds me of an aquarian pal who got very bent out of shape once when I used the word revolutionary in reference to something other than politics. Since aquas often have a love/hate rapport with politics and he was typical of his sign and of using that word in a political sense often, he easily failed to remember that the word's meaning simply means change, be it medical, sexual, physical, mechanical, political or whatever. Pisceans, in my experience, often apply a great deal of discrimination toward others with regards to their spiritual, moral and ethical outlook. They don't look for the obvious, the personality that's right in your face. They'll be looking behind it, in that psychic chamber, really illuminated by consciousness.
For fish, "little things" really do mean a lot and they look for these subtle nuances in others they might opt to spend time with. They provide clues as to what the person is REALLY like when all the chips are down and life suddenly makes you a victim. In short, pisces folk are highly selective in a spiritual, rather than a wordly sense, and wanna know what you're made of, emotionally. With strong spiritual sensibilities, pisces often really wants to only know "Am I lovable in bare form, shorn of all worldly pretense, as simple awareness and charity. If a pisces senses a partner would sacrifice all worldly attachment for them, as they typically would for another, then and only then will they be completely free to look at everyday details and requirements. In doesn't mean we they don't or can't see reality, it just means that every one has different priorities. You state it makes more sense to begin with the visible first then move to the inner aspects of a person. Well, perhaps that's your approach but it may not be the order for all. I remember a girlfriend many years ago asking me "How is it you want my soul but yet you don't seem to care what goes on in my daily life??". Actua
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Greatwhite
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Hi HAFFO!!

No, I don't think it's a contradiction at all. Reality as most would define it, you know, the daily grind of the every day mundane world with all the nuts and bolts machinations which that entails, is hardly the only aspect of living that can come under scrutiny, criticism or pickiness. Mental discernment can also be applied to the sublime, the philosophical and the transcendent. Your assumption that "pickiness" is a word that applies only to the crude and not to the unseen, spiritual and subjective reminds me of an aquarian pal who got very bent out of shape once when I used the word revolutionary in reference to something other than politics. Since aquas often have a love/hate rapport with politics and he was typical of his sign and of using that word in a political sense often, he easily failed to remember that the word's meaning simply means change, be it medical, sexual, physical, mechanical, political or whatever. Pisceans, in my experience, often apply a great deal of discrimination toward others with regards to their spiritual, moral and ethical outlook. They don't look for the obvious, the personality that's right in your face. They'll be looking behind it, in that psychic chamber, really illuminated by consciousness.
For fish, "little things" really do mean a lot and they look for these subtle nuances in others they might opt to spend time with. They provide clues as to what the person is REALLY like when all the chips are down and life suddenly makes you a victim. In short, pisces folk are highly selective in a spiritual, rather than a wordly sense, and wanna know what you're made of, emotionally. With strong spiritual sensibilities, pisces often really wants to only know "Am I lovable in bare form, shorn of all worldly pretense, as simple awareness and charity. If a pisces senses a partner would sacrifice all worldly attachment for them, as they typically would for another, then and only then will they be completely free to look at everyday details and requirements. In doesn't mean we they don't or can't see reality, it just means that every one has different priorities. You state it makes more sense to begin with the visible first then move to the inner aspects of a person. Well, perhaps that's your approach but it may not be the order for all. I remember a girlfriend many years ago asking me "How is it you want my soul but yet you don't seem to care what goes on in my daily life??". Actua
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Greatwhite
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....lly I did care it's just that the spiritual and soul dimension of our relationship was more important to me than daily details. Fortunately, I have found my spirit mate in an aquarian girl with old world romantic looks and moreover a heart of pure gold. She shares my interest in and fussiness about the rightousness of the inner self and its relationship to divine order. As for this man's world--earth, and all that's earthy, you know, success, paying the bills, having THE car, being horny and rockin with the flesh, well, this ole fish has venus in the bull's sign, moon in cappy and pluto/uranus in virgo so I'm pretty damned down to earth, for a fish. And consequently, compassionate as I might be, you won't find me giving hand-outs at the street corner or letting a few goons haul away my stuff cuz I didn't pay my bills. I'm a grounded sea boy who realizes that being a fish is awesome---offering as it does the chance the be the best or the worst of what a human can be-----but with all the drama and sensationalism it all brings------we must treat fish-dom like seasoning on our food. You don't wanna over do it as it'll surely kill you in time. Nonetheless, it will always be that inner light I seek---the one which unlike the others promises fusion with the divine as I ---or another neptunian, defines it------which will be sought over all else. And of course, Haffo, being able to tell one spiritual light from another requires, uh, criticism of a certain sort, pickiness if you will, lest the wrong one be chosen. In short, I think pisceans tend to be spiritually fussy, at least when they're on the high road. Fish faces discern every day. If a situation isn't dramatic, artsy, off-kilter and touched with a bit of the hysterical, does a fish really show much true interest— Seems we want either a trip to Disneyland or to the most decadent brothel and watering hole in town, sometimes simultaneously. Like the sea, restless, coming and going, tranquil here violent there, alluring yet frightening, seeking shape and to become, again and again, in each moment, something seen or heard before, long ago, perhaps in a dream. For pisceans, life is all about becoming and un-becoming. Contradictions are welcome for in th elarger order of life eternal, they are both at the same time supportive and meaningless. God bless you , HAFFO.
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haffo
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Oh what I meant was a bit different. In fact, many Piscean people don't have proper analysing skills with people as a natural skill. It seems like almost natural skill for some other signs, but not for Pisces. Surely the effect of other planetary positions could change that reality, but not everyone that much lucky.

But why is it so important? It's important for being objective instead of subjective. Thinking subjectivly and not taking all possibilities into account, or let's say simply ignoring "what you don't feel like be interesting for you" is kinda unfair. The person might be in right position, but just because you don't know how to stop whenever you need, you will go in wrong direction.

Another important thing is that very few people actually mean what they say. Some do have "proper mental stability", but it's mostly because of common sense. They usualy are not aware of that and can have only limited stability. Therefore, conscious stability is rare trait in people. We need that stability to know wether that person means what it says, so we could TRUST. Without trust, beliving into what they say is blind faith which with such people can be disturbingly problem making. I don't think a Piscean knowing that fact will jump on situations that he/she will have to correct afterwards. I don't think Pisceans will make emotional investments on lousy horse. So we need TRUST.

Wordly analysing skills are essential for building of TRUST. Only then, spiritual qualities will have worth. And I agree, Pisceans will not let it go before spiritual qualities will be within "pickiness" limits as well. But, in contrary what you say, pickiness here are used in both dimentions aka practical (real world) and spiritual. Choosing spiritual qualities over practial qualities is kinda "fast decision".