Why do people are such stupid? (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by haffo on Sunday, October 9, 2005 and has 61 replies.

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@seizeTheDay
21 Years1,000+ Posts

That's EXACTLY the point I was trying to make. Sometimes you have to hop into the shoes of the other person-

Yes.. say what you want-- but as you have the right to say what you want to other people, they have the same right to say what they want to you. Just because she doesn't find you funny doesn't make her stupid-- no matter how many smilie faces you put around your jokes.

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@haffo
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Cancerlady

We all know about Qbone's intentions and why he put those words about me. You are fool if you do not see that. There is no room for those words to be said in funny way because the conversation based on those words are not "ment" to be funny.

Now you bringing this topic here because you definetly feel some unfairness done to Qbone just because of me. I don't give a flying f*ck about that. And I do not advise you to continue to that because this will only make me alienated to you.

On the other hand, I didn't have any problems with that girl. So there was no room for possibility that I said some joke because I wished her something bad. This is where Qbone and me divides.

And about grammatical words. Don't try to become grammar nazi. If you understand what I say then go that way. Other than that if you still feel bad about my writing style then don't answer to them. I promise that I wont write anything about your posts either.

And in the final. I know what your intentions behind everything that you try to show. If you continue it it will only alienate the situation. If you care about this place to be only opinion center then keep your games to yourself.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

STD

I wouldnt really cared if she wouldn't take this joke as not funny. But when someone say "What is that now? A person who didnt joke until now will start to joke?" prhase then this is not being said for a good wish opinion.

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@haffo
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Sam

As I said above, I wouldn't mine if she not understood the joke. But when you say something that indicated not good wish opinion then I will think that those words actually were said to offend me.

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@seizeTheDay
21 Years1,000+ Posts

If we go back to the beginning- and take a birds eye view of this situation,
It comes to this bottom line:

You asked people what they thought of the situation... and think the majority of people here think you were unreasonable to think this woman is stupid because ( A ) she didn't find it funny.. and ( B )She responded in a way you found to be rude.

Whether you accept that or not is up to you.

Now... here's what I think... (you can stop reading if you don't care): I think that if I ask people's opinions, and the majority of them say, that I was the one who may be wrong in a situation--- then just MAYBE I'd re-examine my reactions (because people do reach the wrong conclusions and overreact when they only look at the situation from ONE side).

My last comment about this is: The FLIP-SIDE of this very situation is:

What do YOU do when someone makes a joke.. and you don't find it funny?

In the past, your actions on this board has been to lash out at people when they make a joke that you didn't quite find funny-or perhaps misunderstood-- and I'm not talking about ANY of the conversations you've had with Q. I don't know this person you've posted about, but going by the post on it's merit alone.. and going on the person I've come to know as haffo on these boards.... for you to call this woman an idiot... and say that she needs to open her mind- is unfair and hypocritical.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

" What do YOU do when someone makes a joke.. and you don't find it funny?"

If I were that woman I would probably sit silent or tell that it is not funny. But when I say "A person who didn't make joke until this day, would start joking now?" will definetly mean everything but a joke. The closest interpretation to this word is that she sees superior over me. This ticks me.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

If she sees superior over me, or thinks that me not acting funny or joking in class makes me unable or unrightful to start joking is pure wrong thought. And since she do not understand that I find this narrow understanding as idiotinc. Not just that, at least sitting quiet or normally saying that I didn't find it funny is the way of behaving "civilised". Therefore polite. She definetly was rude and more than a rude. She felt superior over me and most probably took me as an idiot for not making jokes in the class. But this is my choise and those things arent that hard to understand for anyone.

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@sam2
21 Years

But by correcting her and dissing her you weren'tacting superior...nooooo...
By overstepping your bounds as a student and judging her.....you weren't acting rudely....noooo..
For acting like a pouty child, you were accepting reponsibility for your actions....not...
Tellin' you bud, what goes around comes around, and karma has a big fat return coming in your direction....
How old are you...six...—( Notice there are no smiley faces in this message.)

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

SagiTAUries

I have found nothing additional in your post. Furthermore I also see you didnt read the part "A person who didn't joke so far will start to joke now?". I don't think this part is anyhow "joke" related. This part is far far more offending that anything have been written as a comment on her typo. If she wouldn't "just" find my joke as a "funny" then she wouldn't need to put that above part too. Next time just read it properly and try to take every part of the puzzle in to consideration. I don't care if she find it funny or not. I would just move on. But there are definetly more than this "stupid" joke when she pointed out that comment. This just shows how stupid person she is.

PS: I really don't find some of your comments as funny. I find them more offencive. Especialy the ones that involves Qbone. I also remember that we agreed to stay away from each others comments. Now I ask you: What do you want from me by coming and dropping such comments?

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Personally I would have found it funny too, and I am the most sensitive person in the WORLD! But I don't think that is the point of what these people are trying to convey.

I think it is pointless to try to explain to Haffo his fault in the matter...it's like talking to a brick wall!

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

"she was telling you to stop making stupid jokes because it's not your personality type evidently. "

This part is BS. Because I do not make jokes not because it's not my personality type, but because dumba $ $ people like she is everywhere. Got it?

So don't tell me that is my personality type mister because IT IS NOT!!