Why do pisces take so long to reply?
Why do pisces take so long to reply?
Laziness and a lack of interest are my main things. Maybe if I'm upset or busy, too.
Unless you're my s/o, are making important plans, or said something funny, I'm probably not gunna reply for a while. Hahaha.
Unless you're my s/o, are making important plans, or said something funny, I'm probably not gunna reply for a while. Hahaha.
curious what "up in the clouds" means?
Posted by BigGirlPanties
curious what "up in the clouds" means?
For instance:
I can do absolutely nothing constructive all day, NOT be bored.... and later when someone asks me what I did that day - I would have a really hard time answering the question - technically I did nothing....
I love my non-explanations!
Thank you all for the insight ^^
Well my pisces friend has been doing this since years. I just want him to be regular when it comes to replying mails etc. Its just so frustrating to wait for his reply everytime i mail. Maybe lack of interest as Scenic mentioned could be the reason. So when i assume he is not interested in talking to me i stop contacting him. And then there he is, popping up out of nowhere, acting like he hasn't done anything wrong, but inside I'm boiling with anger and just want to scream at him and tell him how wrong he is to keep me waiting all this time.
I am going through the "waiting phase" right now.
If someone could just tell me how to get a pisces be a regular replier, it would be a really great help!
TIA.
Well my pisces friend has been doing this since years. I just want him to be regular when it comes to replying mails etc. Its just so frustrating to wait for his reply everytime i mail. Maybe lack of interest as Scenic mentioned could be the reason. So when i assume he is not interested in talking to me i stop contacting him. And then there he is, popping up out of nowhere, acting like he hasn't done anything wrong, but inside I'm boiling with anger and just want to scream at him and tell him how wrong he is to keep me waiting all this time.
I am going through the "waiting phase" right now.
If someone could just tell me how to get a pisces be a regular replier, it would be a really great help!
TIA.
Hmm it's not that we forget to reply, we're just busy with other things.
I for one never forget to reply to a message, but there might be a reason as to why I haven't yet.
-I'm busy so I checked the message and thought to reply later
-don't know what to say yet
-I'm having a me moment
-etc
Up in the clouds sounds pretty accurate most of the time, or just heavily immersed in things. There's no yogurt to make us regular, it's all about timing really. Give timelines when you want a reply or a non offensive reminder. The closer you get to us and the more we respect you, the faster we'll reply.
I for one never forget to reply to a message, but there might be a reason as to why I haven't yet.
-I'm busy so I checked the message and thought to reply later
-don't know what to say yet
-I'm having a me moment
-etc
Up in the clouds sounds pretty accurate most of the time, or just heavily immersed in things. There's no yogurt to make us regular, it's all about timing really. Give timelines when you want a reply or a non offensive reminder. The closer you get to us and the more we respect you, the faster we'll reply.
Posted by EusiveSoulll
@ The OP.... judging by your user name, I presume you must be leo, in which case, taking into account how much leos detest being ignored, good luck with getting your fish friend to behave according to how you would like him/her do to.
It is unclear weather the person you spoke of is just an acquaintance, a really good friend of many years or s/o (and this is not based on how you perceive him/her, but rather how you are being perceived by them). Reason I choose to emphasize the previous differentiation/classification is, in my personal interaction with others, each one of those carries assigned level of "priority".
My s/o (POI), along with close friends of mine, is/are going to receive prompt responses depending on my availability (how busy I am), where as with my acquaintances, it is completely contingent upon the urgency of their message. If I happen to be the recipient of the random, irrelevant message/e-mail by the later, good luck with expecting me to respond in any foreseeable future.. unless I have nothing better to do at the moment.
+1 I wonder what your mercury is so well put!
*waves back* 😄
I can definitely relate to English being a third language! At times I try to explain to people it feels like my brain stalls because inside my head there's all these languages bouncing around! It gets worse around other multilingual people haha! Times like that I just give up smh 😛
I can definitely relate to English being a third language! At times I try to explain to people it feels like my brain stalls because inside my head there's all these languages bouncing around! It gets worse around other multilingual people haha! Times like that I just give up smh 😛
Ohhh booooo fucking hooo "I can speak 3 languages and it's really tough on me" 😛
What everyone else said.
Sometimes it makes me feel guilty. Meh. I am working on not beating myself up for things lately.
Sometimes it makes me feel guilty. Meh. I am working on not beating myself up for things lately.
annnd... blockquote destruction!
Posted by deezie
Ohhh booooo fucking hooo "I can speak 3 languages and it's really tough on me" 😛
Posted by EusiveSoulll
Now say that in Canadian 😛click to expand
Ooooo boo fooking hoo "I coon spook 3 "loon"guages and it's really tough on me"
lol I was determined to figure out what my html issue was.
Turns out it was Elusive's
Turns out it was Elusive's
Posted by EusiveSoulll
LOLOL
It is beyond amusing how us fishies manage to get trapped in the matrix of each others quotes 😛
lol it's you missy with your hearts!!!
ALLLLL YOU!!! 😛
Posted by NemesisPosted by deezie
lol I was determined to figure out what my html issue was.
Turns out it was Elusive's
lol. elusive always get trapped in my posts...hehehe 😄
how??ve you been? 🙂
astrology is boring/dissapointing as of late.click to expand
In the spirit of staying in the matrix
And also in the spirit of something else which already escaped my mind... hahahaha omg
I'm good nemmers, you?
ALso the world is very disappointing to me these days 😢
Posted by NemesisPosted by deeziePosted by NemesisPosted by deezie
lol I was determined to figure out what my html issue was.
Turns out it was Elusive's
lol. elusive always get trapped in my posts...hehehe 😄
how??ve you been? 🙂
astrology is boring/dissapointing as of late.
In the spirit of staying in the matrix
And also in the spirit of something else which already escaped my mind... hahahaha omg
I'm good nemmers, you?
ALso the world is very disappointing to me these days 😢
haha - those nano-seconds of thoughts...
i'm ok 🙂 thanks. the world in general or some people on it are dissapointing you deezie?click to expand
OH that is what it was - in the spirit of thread derailment. bhahahah
Ummm a LOT of people in it I guess Nem. Seems to be growing intensely this new year.
lol ohhhh poor nem! 😢
Soooooo how would one....get close to a pisces?? If they are hard at communicating, is there anything you can say or do to get closer without communication? 🙂
Thanks for the comments guys 🙂, and def as an air sign I can do all three plus make you laugh your ass off...literally! ha ha ha
It just seems like when you guys are having that time out or space that's needed to recharge, sometimes it can be hard to start back that communication to make the picses feel comfortable?? I feel weird trying to make them come to me..so to speak because you dont wanna be pushy either.....not easy sometimes LOL
It just seems like when you guys are having that time out or space that's needed to recharge, sometimes it can be hard to start back that communication to make the picses feel comfortable?? I feel weird trying to make them come to me..so to speak because you dont wanna be pushy either.....not easy sometimes LOL
Because, speaking only for myself, I have the attention span of a goldfish and..
Ooh look, something shiny!
Ooh look, something shiny!
Posted by Nights22Posted by BadassGemini
Soooooo how would one....get close to a pisces?? If they are hard at communicating, is there anything you can say or do to get closer without communication? 🙂
Entertain us or Intrigue or seduce us or all 3 lolol
It depends. I do think we communicate just maybe not the way people like.click to expand
U r supposed 2 be a Shark..
Explain why r u acting like a Mermaid...
Hmmm maybe u r one of those metrosexual confused sharks...
Pisces is dual simultaneously ... much unlike the Gemini who is either one or the other, but, never both at that same time.
People tend to misunderstand two fish swimming in opposite directions, to mean either one way or the other, up or down ... but, that is in error. Even Fish themselves don't quite grasp it, and believe one is either up or down.
Pisces people are both, at the same time. We care so much about you that we feel like exploding right out of our skins, while at the same time, we might not give a rats ass about you at any given moment.
We want to talk to you, while at the same time, we don't want to talk to you.
We want to spend time with you, while at the same time, we want to be alone.
I know, I know .... so how the hell is another person suppose to be able to relate to us when we can't seem to be able to have ONE consistant desire?
When you read about Pisces and they say that we can't decide, that we are scatter-brained, that we are unstable .. all of that is true to an extent. True in that we are everything all at once. We feel both, all. It's not so much that we are scattered as much as we are all.
People tend to misunderstand two fish swimming in opposite directions, to mean either one way or the other, up or down ... but, that is in error. Even Fish themselves don't quite grasp it, and believe one is either up or down.
Pisces people are both, at the same time. We care so much about you that we feel like exploding right out of our skins, while at the same time, we might not give a rats ass about you at any given moment.
We want to talk to you, while at the same time, we don't want to talk to you.
We want to spend time with you, while at the same time, we want to be alone.
I know, I know .... so how the hell is another person suppose to be able to relate to us when we can't seem to be able to have ONE consistant desire?
When you read about Pisces and they say that we can't decide, that we are scatter-brained, that we are unstable .. all of that is true to an extent. True in that we are everything all at once. We feel both, all. It's not so much that we are scattered as much as we are all.
So, to the question asked .. why take so long to reply?
You (the non-P trying to relate with us) have a CERTAIN mind-set that is expectant of the other person to interact according to responses back and forth. And you should have this expectancy, considering this is how people normally operate. You do your part, then sit back and wait for a response = interacting.
The Pisces person you are relating with/to doesn't care to talk to you, while yearning to talk to you .....
... befuddled is the most accurate word I can think of, and ha ha at the same time for using that word for clarity.
::: shrugs :::
We are the epitome of an enigma .... perhaps we are so ambiguous that we might not even exist !!!
And you are so dwelling on the surface that you can't get past a returned phone call/text?
You (the non-P trying to relate with us) have a CERTAIN mind-set that is expectant of the other person to interact according to responses back and forth. And you should have this expectancy, considering this is how people normally operate. You do your part, then sit back and wait for a response = interacting.
The Pisces person you are relating with/to doesn't care to talk to you, while yearning to talk to you .....
... befuddled is the most accurate word I can think of, and ha ha at the same time for using that word for clarity.
::: shrugs :::
We are the epitome of an enigma .... perhaps we are so ambiguous that we might not even exist !!!
And you are so dwelling on the surface that you can't get past a returned phone call/text?
Like a sponge..
After absorbing, u need to squeeze it out..
Is it like that?
After absorbing, u need to squeeze it out..
Is it like that?
My Pisces friend has been doing this for years and I've never called her out on it. Recently I sent her a BBM because I seen she had posted something on her status which made me feel that she wasn't doing well..the message said 'If only I loved myself more I would be better off'. So I just wanted to make sure she was OK. Sent her a quick message to ask if everything was OK. That was at 11pm. She read my message and never responded. So the next morning I ask again if she was OK. She responded with a 'Yea just wasn't in the mood to talk but I'm OK.' Like really?? You write someting like that for all you contacts to see and don't think people are going to check to see if things are OK? smh. Honestly, I think she's in one of her depressed moods again so I will leave her to go through the motions. That is usually when she is not in a hurry to respond to text, emails, BBM etc., or in dreamland where she often lives.
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