Virgo and the Sagicorn gal

So I've been with my Virgo for 2yrs now. He and I are great for the most part.. But oh do we know how to tear each other down! The worst part of it is that when we go through these lows, he becomes distant to the point where I've found him creeping around on me! I've found him "chatting" with random birds on FB, flirting and getting their number then continuing on thru text. Looking to fill a void I guess. This is what hurts me the most, as I could never do that to him, because I only crave his attention. I've given him an ultimatum but fear he'll do it again. He deleted his FB and all the skanks numbers for now. But what will happen down the road? I want to get revenge so bad to teach him a lesson, but know that would only hurt us more. What's saving him is that he's never done anything except converse with them. Always comes home right after work and otherwise are always together. But it's still cheating. Should I be concerned? Could this younger than me virgo ever be 100% loyal? He's 28, I'm 36. He's an Aries rising and quick to anger, and lash out. I'm a Libra moon and always want to fix us. Advice? Thanks loves!

Thanks hun! Your totally right! Let the birds keep chirping lol. And yesss the sex is so sexy it's truly our saving grace!! Haha 😉

I realized I posted it in the wrong forum after the fact and couldn't fix lol. First time posting in more than a couple years. Anywhoo on his part I don't believe it's anything that can't be forgiven as it's just random chatting and on my part I love this man with all my heart, I have a lot invested so no it's not just about the sex. I just stated that that's our saving grace because it's simply awesome! I agree that if there's something wrong he should come to me instead of reaching out to randoms. I hope he'll eventually grow out of this as I stated earlier he's a bit younger. We've both got a lot invested in this relationship and don't want to simply walk away.