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you notice this shit? people slacking in rships then hurling themselves in almost manic excitement into the next one. and even more DOCILE for the 'next times.' this shit been bouncing around my head for months now.

was out having lunch with my Scorpio sun/Cap moon co-worker when he said, right there in front of my sandwich: "i should learn how to cook. you know, i never really tried before." and of course this is in referrence to his ex-wife. "if i were to have another girlfriend, i should TRY." and to me this implied that he.... slacked.

and this is the 2nd time he's said this. from the occasional statements he's made about her and what they've had together (btw we're not romantically involved coz yuck we are sooo not each other's types), i can piece together a picture of casual carelessness. she'd sneak to Singapore and cheat. he'd incessantly talk about his attraction to other women while she played it cool with her Libra ass. but when all was said and done, nobody was really 'cool' with anything. YET here he is, secretly making a promise to 'improve' for next time when the opportunity strikes, recognizing grace too late. 'if it was right, then it should come easy.' how fucking wrong people are. nothing stronger than regret, not even pain. coz that shit HAUNTS you.

as someone who personally tries hard, hits hard in almost every goddamn thing i do while trying to look indifferent, secretly obsessing while texting you only 2x a week and completely ENSLAVING myself to whatever burns in my mind.... it's very difficult for me to RELATE to complacency.

a common theme in people who had the most shortcomings in relationships that couldn't make it is their DEEP DRIVE to make the next one work. the one who was in a sense 'wronged' will become more casual, less expectant of... anything really, hardened by the first deep cut. and you notice the 'offender' who first leave/ghost/fade/houdinis from their attachments always have this sense of MANIC excitement, eagerness and almost DESPERATION upon entering the next one. and the next one often lasts LONGER. a bitter pill to swallow for the Gwen Stacies (GS) of the world. sure the memory of the 'first great one' will haunt you but with almost this sense of PANIC you'd cling tighter to the 'next times,' convincing yourself it's your NEST.

e.g.

LeaAnn Rimes + Eddie Cibrian. (Dean Sheremet = GS, might even say Brandi Glanville but yuck)

Elizabeth Taylor + Richard Burton. (Mike Todd = GS). *this instance, the GS is better in every aspect.

every other person who showered more, dressed up better, tried their best to not say the wrong thing and actually remembered important dates. what even is alpha next to the omega? you worked that mill that shaped that stone but you're just the GS to the MJs of the world.

Yeah it's called having a fixed moon ha

I don't think people try hard enough to fix issues. People either ghost, ignore or sweep it under the rug. That's why open communication is needed. I can't stand someone who is closed mouth but expects there to be changes. No one is psychic!

Posted by saggurl88

I don't think people try hard enough to fix issues. People either ghost, ignore or sweep it under the rug. That's why open communication is needed. I can't stand someone who is closed mouth but expects there to be changes. No one is psychic!

i'm pro-ghosting. sometimes it wounds when you can't tell a tell. but water in my chart is almost the same percentage as earth. and my chart is bipolar asf like almost all opposing each other or.... balancing. depends on how you see it. i can argue both sides if i had to.

Posted by MareInfame

I understood your Scorpio friend completely different.

It seems like while he was in it, he wasn’t as aware of his shortcomings and now that he has lost his Libra and dealing with the pain of it all, he is also taking the time to see where he could have gone wrong in that mix. He’s analyzing it from afar and trying to use it as a learning experience for the next time around.

It’s the process of learning and having more self awareness.

He better sharpen his skills. Libras don't deal with half of your talents for ltr.

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Posted by MareInfame

I understood your Scorpio friend completely different.

It seems like while he was in it, he wasn’t as aware of his shortcomings and now that he has lost his Libra and dealing with the pain of it all, he is also taking the time to see where he could have gone wrong in that mix. He’s analyzing it from afar and trying to use it as a learning experience for the next time around.

It’s the process of learning and having more self awareness.

He better sharpen his skills. Libras don't deal with half of your talents for ltr.

I know a lot of Scorpio male Libra Female couples that aren’t as OP described... so I wouldn’t generalize.

But, yeah... OP’s Scorpio is definitely learning the hard way.

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I just stated to date a Libs you can't take a break of imperfection or attention may wonder.

don't persecute me but I feel more like the Scorpio you describe - do very little other than give my partners lots of free space and time, throw money at stuff, talk a lot/give advice, acquiesce to any demands of a sexual nature, and fix minor things (typically things I broke - takes me a long time, am not very handy)....been working well for me though....I have a slight desire to do more (very slight), but I always wind up with these overachiever/go-getter types that just jump right in before I even have a chance....I don't need it, or ask for it, and absolutely hate relying on others, but this just happens...I often regulate how much they do, as I think its often excessive. I see myself as more of an idea man, and attract people good at executing....I think this is maybe the taurus life....On my leo side, I think I have good delegation skills though...like if something is outside my wheelhouse, I have a friend I can loop in....Not the most well-traveled or innately adventurous (prefer to read a book about a country than visit it) but we can do a group outing/vacay with my Sag/Libra buddies who are, not the best listener, but let me intro. you to my Virgo friend with Venus in Libra who loves to chat and will listen for exactly 50% of the time, etc. Always felt that no one person can or should be able to meet all of an individuals needs, so I think its essential to any relationship to have a close-knit compensatory social circle....

I've known two Virgo-Virgo married couples (both failed miserably) and there was a dynamic of extreme servitude w/in the relationship - in both cases, it was the male Virgo basically worshiping at the altar of the female. In both also though, the female had wandering eyes, one strayed physically several times, but the most pronounced quality was just an overall lack of respect for the servile male (not that I think its gender-related). On the male's end, the service was almost like a compulsion, like their only passion in life was to submit to and be abused by their overlord. But the flip-side of that was the ever-building resentment that manifested in extreme passive aggression on their part, culminating in a maniacal rage in one of them when certain lines of respect were crossed - to where it became obvious that all of his servitude was also a way to control his wife. Even after the divorce, every time we chat, that one in particular goes into this angry robotic recitation of his list of all things he'd do for her, starting with the daily foot rub. Most shocking ending to a relationship I've seen. Initially all blew up when he got a rash that turned out to be syphilis, and he told his whole family a made-up story about being raped by 2 dudes while wandering in the park. Ultimately came out that he had created a double-life where he used meth regularly, and cheated on her with a homeless dude who he was allegedly "helping" several nights a week, while also trying to lure him into a cuckoldry situation with his wife.....To this day, he denies all of it, though the evidence is incredibly strong, and after his list rage, he ultimately winds up crying and saying the thing he misses most is serving her....he has all this love and service to give and now no one to give it to....

Anyway, you mentioned mutable duality, and though the glyphs of all other mutables actual contain a visually obvious dual component, and the symbolism is also just as easily discerned, Virgo not so much. I have read a proposal that it is this passive-aggressive resentment as the shadow of servitude. Others say a virgin-whore dynamic....wondering what your thoughts on it are....

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don't persecute me but I feel more like the Scorpio you describe - do very little other than give my partners lots of free space and time, throw money at stuff, talk a lot/give advice, acquiesce to any demands of a sexual nature, and fix minor things (typically things I broke - takes me a long time, am not very handy)....been working well for me though....I have a slight desire to do more (very slight), but I always wind up with these overachiever/go-getter types that just jump right in before I even have a chance....I don't need it, or ask for it, and absolutely hate relying on others, but this just happens...I often regulate how much they do, as I think its often excessive. I see myself as more of an idea man, and attract people good at executing....I think this is maybe the taurus life....On my leo side, I think I have good delegation skills though...like if something is outside my wheelhouse, I have a friend I can loop in....Not the most well-traveled or innately adventurous (prefer to read a book about a country than visit it) but we can do a group outing/vacay with my Sag/Libra buddies who are, not the best listener, but let me intro. you to my Virgo friend with Venus in Libra who loves to chat and will listen for exactly 50% of the time, etc. Always felt that no one person can or should be able to meet all of an individuals needs, so I think its essential to any relationship to have a close-knit compensatory social circle....

I've known two Virgo-Virgo married couples (both failed miserably) and there was a dynamic of extreme servitude w/in the relationship - in both cases, it was the male Virgo basically worshiping at the altar of the female. In both also though, the female had wandering eyes, one strayed physically several times, but the most pronounced quality was just an overall lack of respect for the servile male (not that I think its gender-related). On the male's end, the service was almost like a compulsion, like their only passion in life was to submit to and be abused by their overlord. But the flip-side of that was the ever-building resentment that manifested in extreme passive aggression on their part, culminating in a maniacal rage in one of them when certain lines of respect were crossed - to where it became obvious that all of his servitude was also a way to control his wife. Even after the divorce, every time we chat, that one in particular goes into this angry robotic recitation of his list of all things he'd do for her, starting with the daily foot rub. Most shocking ending to a relationship I've seen. Initially all blew up when he got a rash that turned out to be syphilis, and he told his whole family a made-up story about being raped by 2 dudes while wandering in the park. Ultimately came out that he had created a double-life where he used meth regularly, and cheated on her with a homeless dude who he was allegedly "helping" several nights a week, while also trying to lure him into a cuckoldry situation with his wife.....To this day, he denies all of it, though the evidence is incredibly strong, and after his list rage, he ultimately winds up crying and saying the thing he misses most is serving her....he has all this love and service to give and now no one to give it to....

Anyway, you mentioned mutable duality, and though the glyphs of all other mutables actual contain a visually obvious dual component, and the symbolism is also just as easily discerned, Virgo not so much. I have read a proposal that it is this passive-aggressive resentment as the shadow of servitude. Others say a virgin-whore dynamic....wondering what your thoughts on it are....

virgo/virgo is pure obsession based on my observation. but i've noticed that same dynamic too. LVP color coordinates with Ken (both virgos) ffs. i've seen the tyrannical side of some virgo women too and it's sooo childish. harmless but so extra. it goes with being petty. sometimes you never know what you even did or said. and we refuse to tell you.

and i'm sure you have some idea what happened in the 'ace of spades.' so i started seeing a virgo moon (surprise!) and observed the same things. i catch myself at the edge of dictatorship sometimes. used to be regulated when i was with someone with aries placements. but knowing my luck, i'll probably end up back to square one. exciting stuff like statistics and stonecutting is where it's at now. 9 animals in the house. you can't split an odd number.

not sure what you're asking about the glyph but the mary magdalene vibe is strong and hilarious. there's this bratty virgo sun/aries moon friend i've got who had a lot of angel imagery all over her apartment. she's ghosting on me for a reason she will not say. i'm not even fucking surprised coz it's the same shit i'll do. then maybe i'll come back when i revert to my goldfish attention span.

@Metatron btw i'm not in bigotry mode right now. i feel like it's time to let it go coz it cuts in on what i should be doing- overthinking. i just got triggered that one time coz someone brought up pisces women and virgo women. to be fair, i didn't bring up crocodile-wrestling immediately. didn't wanna be recognized coz i wanted to ghost on the friendships. i don't wanna politely reply to music videos being sent to me by someone who knows i have a bf (300x a day i make sure to post everywhere). hope he doesn't see this but he makes me uncomfortable. maybe i'll share that but not publicly coz it's connected to a real dramaz here and i'm too self-absorbed to participate. and i only really care about my theories (i worship at the altar of my 1st house).

have to pick up my kid and will respond more fully when time frees up but I should've said symbol rather than glyph...half man/half beast, two opposing fish, twins, but Virgo shows no duality in the symbol...that was what I was getting at there....totally understandable on the other stuff and even if it was just a troll, I'd have found it hilarious as I said...croc-wrestling lolol....you can delete that if you like also...

That's deep. Lol But I don't believe people can change that much tbh. He will probably try to cook a few times and then give up. Or only do so in the beginning. Unless his next girl holds his ass accountable which then his reaction will reveal how much he's really matured.

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have to pick up my kid and will respond more fully when time frees up but I should've said symbol rather than glyph...half man/half beast, two opposing fish, twins, but Virgo shows no duality in the symbol...that was what I was getting at there....totally understandable on the other stuff and even if it was just a troll, I'd have found it hilarious as I said...croc-wrestling lolol....you can delete that if you like also...

a taurus dude actually brought up croc wrestling. had me dying. 😂😂

but srsly PEACE agenda's where it's at now.

ohhh nah you know i never delete any of my posts or comments for the lore. 😂😂

it's so funny though when i was my normal self i kept receiving those but when i morphed into the most obnoxious type of person i can think of, poof nothing. tells you a lot about that guy eww. how can you even take it seriously? i tried to give the most morally-absent advice i can think of. but then i can't stop making serious threads from time to time about my theories and actually giving helpful advice. of course, me pushing my theories will win out in the end. and i still seriously think the moon-landing didn't happen. drones man.

i be like look at my theories instead of trying to make friends with me like eww stop acting so familiar. i left my stem cell job coz people expect me to be friendly but all they get is polite replies. why can't people keep their distance? there's a reason why i always use that reaching to the light avi.

@Metatron virgo sign is connected to scorpio's that's why. but i'd rather people look into mercury. i'm going to make a thread on that, how mercury's both the trickster and the guide. the god of thieves but also the guide to lost travelers.

i'm actually at work right now but i decided to take gemcutting/stone whatever to cope over the ace of spades. and i have it after work coz i'm... craz-mercury dominant.

Posted by Sarapis

Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

knew you did that on purpose, i was itching to say ADIPOSE. obvious trap. 😂😂

but i always expect stalking from tauruses lolz PEACE 😂😂

i don't know who @Kittens is but he supports my theories and that's good enough for me 💕 seriously named a stray after him or... her (?) idk. hope him/her/it's doing fine. but somehow i'm sure he's a pisces dominant.

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Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

knew you did that on purpose, i was itching to say ADIPOSE. obvious trap. 😂😂

but i always expect stalking from tauruses lolz PEACE 😂😂

i don't know who @Kittens is but he supports my theories and that's good enough for me 💕 seriously named a stray after him or... her (?) idk. hope him/her/it's doing fine. but somehow i'm sure he's a pisces dominant.

😛 Im impressed, I figured you just didn't see it.

Nah, wasn't stalking, you just have a very...... unique style .. and you dont really change much, and what you did change was easy to see through.. there were several users who noticed, not just me. You're pretty mild though so I dont think many people were worried about calling you out. I wanted to try to get you to slip up, just for fun.

Oh boy, you guys are a match made in heaven lol jk.

Anyway, glad you're doing okay. Carry on and let your freak flag fly.

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i just really need a break from people but at the same time i feel the need to push my theories forever

plus i didn't wanna get anything weird in my messages again so i decided i'd become the opposite of myself

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Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

lmao cloudy paved the way....so triggered she charged at her on the front page then deleted hahahah....

Posted by virgoOPPP

i just really need a break from people but at the same time i feel the need to push my theories forever

drone world thread was the tell for me....

you had me most triggered with this to Ararule:

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i love your threads

was following you but i can't see the list of people i'm following so i unfollowed

don't know why, admin needs to fix this

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GTFO!!! hahahahhahaa...

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Posted by Sarapis

Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

lmao cloudy paved the way....so triggered she charged at her on the front page then deleted hahahah....

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maybe bringing up croc wrestling's not such a good idea....but i can't stop laughing whenever i see the words. taurus men are hilarious.

didn't know people even paid that much attention to anything i say. all i ever really wanna talk about is how sags are misers (i've always said that even back then), stalky tauruses, spare tiring for capricorns, my axis and stanning other virgos.

then everything else is just my pets, work, hobbies and overthinking about something. and my threads are in paragraphs! who wants to read a boring long ass novel about one fucking sentence?

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Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

lmao cloudy paved the way....so triggered she charged at her on the front page then deleted hahahah....

maybe bringing up croc wrestling's not such a good idea....but i can't stop laughing whenever i see the words. taurus men are hilarious.

didn't know people even paid that much attention to anything i say. all i ever really wanna talk about is how sags are misers (i've always said that even back then), stalky tauruses, spare tiring for capricorns, my axis and stanning other virgos.

then everything else is just my pets, work, hobbies and overthinking about something. and my threads are in paragraphs! who wants to read a boring long ass novel about one fucking sentence?

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the modest size queen bit had me dying espec. with the drake meme lol....too drunk to type...good night....

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Posted by virgoOPPP

i just really need a break from people but at the same time i feel the need to push my theories forever

drone world thread was the tell for me....

you had me most triggered with this to Ararule:

Posted by virgoOPPP

i love your threads

was following you but i can't see the list of people i'm following so i unfollowed

don't know why, admin needs to fix this

GTFO!!! hahahahhahaa...

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drone world is actually my genuine opinion about relationships (though there should be some acceptable level of personality) but it deviated so much from my usual shit that i had to bury it with other decoy threads.

i'm surprised you recognized me there coz most people think i'm blue pilled which... i don't understand why.

as for ararule, i'm guessing he's a pisces moon much like kittens. you can smell the strong, rabid opinion. thing is i can wade through points i don't like about someone's opinions but just pick and choose what i like then agree with them. i look for bridges, not walls. got plenty of that on my own.

ararule describes the nature of signs which i agree with, virgo sense of self-worthlessness included. kittens supports my stats and seem very helpless + non-threatening yet stands by his/her (it?) opinions, virgo one step above 'demonic Cap women' included. what's not to like? i genuinely clicked follow on them both but i don't see their avi showing up on my screen which annoyed me coz i wanna follow their threads, am genuinely supportive of them.

i'm mostly here for pisces moon paragraphs.

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Omg I've had this thought so many times. Its so unfair to the Gwen Stacys. I see this everywhere. Ive even had people I dated tell ME in the end thank you because now they can be better for the next one and I'm just like... What a feg. I hate people. They only think about themselves. Spiderman was so self absorbed.

some people i think force themselves right after GS, think that's more what i'm trying to say.... what i mean by hurling themselves in a manic way to the next one

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Posted by saggurl88

I don't think people try hard enough to fix issues. People either ghost, ignore or sweep it under the rug. That's why open communication is needed. I can't stand someone who is closed mouth but expects there to be changes. No one is psychic!

i'm pro-ghosting. sometimes it wounds when you can't tell a tell. but water in my chart is almost the same percentage as earth. and my chart is bipolar asf like almost all opposing each other or.... balancing. depends on how you see it. i can argue both sides if i had to.

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What does “Sometimes it sounds when you can’t tell a tell” mean?

I ghost too but not if they are in constant contact, I just won’t reach out if they don’t. But I need someone who likes talking and I will always respond to them. So if they don’t contact me, they probably think I’ve ghosted them.

But anyone who needs closure, I will give it. Otherwise I don’t say anything to them.

I’m still having a hard time understanding what a Virgo wants. I can see why you guys get ghosted though. Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

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Posted by saggurl88

I don't think people try hard enough to fix issues. People either ghost, ignore or sweep it under the rug. That's why open communication is needed. I can't stand someone who is closed mouth but expects there to be changes. No one is psychic!

i'm pro-ghosting. sometimes it wounds when you can't tell a tell. but water in my chart is almost the same percentage as earth. and my chart is bipolar asf like almost all opposing each other or.... balancing. depends on how you see it. i can argue both sides if i had to.

What does “Sometimes it sounds when you can’t tell a tell” mean?

I ghost too but not if they are in constant contact, I just won’t reach out if they don’t. But I need someone who likes talking and I will always respond to them. So if they don’t contact me, they probably think I’ve ghosted them.

But anyone who needs closure, I will give it. Otherwise I don’t say anything to them.

I’m still having a hard time understanding what a Virgo wants. I can see why you guys get ghosted though. Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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when something hurts/upsets me but you can't tell. i think this maybe why i like pisces coz they can always tell, unlike other insensitive bitches. but i can see what you mean.

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Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

lmao cloudy paved the way....so triggered she charged at her on the front page then deleted hahahah....

I deleted for other reasons but nice of you to speak on my behalf.

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I was about to post that tbh I have no clue why just thought it was a funny sequence of events...wb

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

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Posted by Metatron

Posted by virgoOPPP

i just really need a break from people but at the same time i feel the need to push my theories forever

drone world thread was the tell for me....

you had me most triggered with this to Ararule:

Posted by virgoOPPP

i love your threads

was following you but i can't see the list of people i'm following so i unfollowed

don't know why, admin needs to fix this

GTFO!!! hahahahhahaa...

drone world is actually my genuine opinion about relationships (though there should be some acceptable level of personality) but it deviated so much from my usual shit that i had to bury it with other decoy threads.

i'm surprised you recognized me there coz most people think i'm blue pilled which... i don't understand why.

as for ararule, i'm guessing he's a pisces moon much like kittens. you can smell the strong, rabid opinion. thing is i can wade through points i don't like about someone's opinions but just pick and choose what i like then agree with them. i look for bridges, not walls. got plenty of that on my own.

ararule describes the nature of signs which i agree with, virgo sense of self-worthlessness included. kittens supports my stats and seem very helpless + non-threatening yet stands by his/her (it?) opinions, virgo one step above 'demonic Cap women' included. what's not to like? i genuinely clicked follow on them both but i don't see their avi showing up on my screen which annoyed me coz i wanna follow their threads, am genuinely supportive of them.

i'm mostly here for pisces moon paragraphs.

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I like the walls/bridges analogy a lot and I try to do that....I like Pisces moon paragraphs myself....many seem to have creative writing gifts....and even the ones that irk me (typically males) do always seem to have good insights....I think there can be a tendency in some towards harsh overgeneralization tho... just can't with that ararule dude tho...maybe it's language barrier...just seems extremely dense....lol @ decoy threads

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Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

lmao cloudy paved the way....so triggered she charged at her on the front page then deleted hahahah....

I deleted for other reasons but nice of you to speak on my behalf.

I was about to post that tbh I have no clue why just thought it was a funny sequence of events...wb

Not triggered as much as I found it interesting that the individual who calls taurus women shady untrustworthy masculine and aggressive hoes talks about dick size non stop, rants aggressively about every sign and pretends to be a completely different person. This is the second sleazy pat down I get for deleting a day later, so I’ll keep in it mind to wait at least 78 hours since people are so eager to assume

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i'm sorry.

it's just i tried to make amends with my taurus friend from back in college, then told her about my health but i guess she got too excited about the supplements business she got herself into and my oversensitive ass took it to heart.

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Damn, @metatron, I was trying to flush her out with the 'stem cell thread' but she didnt bite.. you did good.

lmao cloudy paved the way....so triggered she charged at her on the front page then deleted hahahah....

I deleted for other reasons but nice of you to speak on my behalf.

I was about to post that tbh I have no clue why just thought it was a funny sequence of events...wb

Not triggered as much as I found it interesting that the individual who calls taurus women shady untrustworthy masculine and aggressive hoes talks about dick size non stop, rants aggressively about every sign and pretends to be a completely different person. This is the second sleazy pat down I get for deleting a day later, so I’ll keep in it mind to wait at least 78 hours since people are so eager to assume

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It was honestly just a joke...and what I said is true about being about to rectify my post on that, and really for the very reason that I thought you'd be upset if u read it...my sincere apologies....it does seem like people in general are more sensitive lately, myself included but perhaps I'm being more insensitive....

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Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

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Have experienced this...

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know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

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Posted by saggurl88

I don't think people try hard enough to fix issues. People either ghost, ignore or sweep it under the rug. That's why open communication is needed. I can't stand someone who is closed mouth but expects there to be changes. No one is psychic!

i'm pro-ghosting. sometimes it wounds when you can't tell a tell. but water in my chart is almost the same percentage as earth. and my chart is bipolar asf like almost all opposing each other or.... balancing. depends on how you see it. i can argue both sides if i had to.

What does “Sometimes it sounds when you can’t tell a tell” mean?

I ghost too but not if they are in constant contact, I just won’t reach out if they don’t. But I need someone who likes talking and I will always respond to them. So if they don’t contact me, they probably think I’ve ghosted them.

But anyone who needs closure, I will give it. Otherwise I don’t say anything to them.

I’m still having a hard time understanding what a Virgo wants. I can see why you guys get ghosted though. Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

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when something hurts/upsets me but you can't tell. i think this maybe why i like pisces coz they can always tell, unlike other insensitive bitches. but i can see what you mean.

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Lmao 😩😩😩😂😂😂

We can’t tell if we can’t see you. Lol

Pisces are full of crap with that “I had a dream about you “ just so they can talk 😜

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Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

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Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

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It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Metatron

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

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virgos are extra sensitive.

my virgo sun/aries moon friend ghosted me and i still don't know why. we've both had relationship issues lately so i guess the mourning just take forever for us.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Metatron

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

virgos are extra sensitive

my virgo sun/aries moon friend ghoted me and i still don't know why. we've both had relationship issues lately so i guess the mourning just take forever for us.

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The Virgo just contacted me so I’m seeing him this weekend but he keeps disappearing for 2 weeks at a time. It’s annoying.

I think he got upset that I canceled on seeing him 2 days in a row. But I invited myself and didn’t want to impose. So he said. You’re right, maybe you shouldn’t come- then disappeared for 2 weeks lol.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Metatron

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

virgos are extra sensitive

my virgo sun/aries moon friend ghoted me and i still don't know why. we've both had relationship issues lately so i guess the mourning just take forever for us.

The Virgo just contacted me so I’m seeing him this weekend but he keeps disappearing for 2 weeks at a time. It’s annoying.

I think he got upset that I canceled on seeing him 2 days in a row. But I invited myself and didn’t want to impose. So he said. You’re right, maybe you shouldn’t come- then disappeared for 2 weeks lol.

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why are we so extra? i feel like it's probably coz you're not initiating contact.

anyway, i have given up on the virgo moon.

i might as well just date another pisces coz that's probably where this is going anyway.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Metatron

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

virgos are extra sensitive

my virgo sun/aries moon friend ghoted me and i still don't know why. we've both had relationship issues lately so i guess the mourning just take forever for us.

The Virgo just contacted me so I’m seeing him this weekend but he keeps disappearing for 2 weeks at a time. It’s annoying.

I think he got upset that I canceled on seeing him 2 days in a row. But I invited myself and didn’t want to impose. So he said. You’re right, maybe you shouldn’t come- then disappeared for 2 weeks lol.

why are we so extra? i feel like it's probably coz you're not initiating contact.

anyway, i have given up on the virgo moon.

i might as well just date another pisces coz that's probably where this is going anyway.

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I tried initiating contact like he asked but he would ignore my message and try to get me to double text. Leave me on read, then I send another and he would answer the first. That's a shitty way to get someone to text often and it just pissed me off, so I reverted back to not texting. I don't have time for games.

Well he just made plans to see me two days in a row again, so it must have been that. We have never saw each other 2 days in a row. I'm not sure I know how o bring up the disappearing thing or if I should just leave it alone. It's annoying but doesn't bother me too much but I still want to know why he does this, especially when he said he wouldn't.

Feels like Scorpio punishment.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Metatron

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

virgos are extra sensitive

my virgo sun/aries moon friend ghoted me and i still don't know why. we've both had relationship issues lately so i guess the mourning just take forever for us.

The Virgo just contacted me so I’m seeing him this weekend but he keeps disappearing for 2 weeks at a time. It’s annoying.

I think he got upset that I canceled on seeing him 2 days in a row. But I invited myself and didn’t want to impose. So he said. You’re right, maybe you shouldn’t come- then disappeared for 2 weeks lol.

why are we so extra? i feel like it's probably coz you're not initiating contact.

anyway, i have given up on the virgo moon.

i might as well just date another pisces coz that's probably where this is going anyway.

I tried initiating contact like he asked but he would ignore my message and try to get me to double text. Leave me on read, then I send another and he would answer the first. That's a shitty way to get someone to text often and it just pissed me off, so I reverted back to not texting. I don't have time for games.

Well he just made plans to see me two days in a row again, so it must have been that. We have never saw each other 2 days in a row. I'm not sure I know how o bring up the disappearing thing or if I should just leave it alone. It's annoying but doesn't bother me too much but I still want to know why he does this, especially when he said he wouldn't.

Feels like Scorpio punishment.

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he's being petty

i say bring it up

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Metatron

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

virgos are extra sensitive

my virgo sun/aries moon friend ghoted me and i still don't know why. we've both had relationship issues lately so i guess the mourning just take forever for us.

The Virgo just contacted me so I’m seeing him this weekend but he keeps disappearing for 2 weeks at a time. It’s annoying.

I think he got upset that I canceled on seeing him 2 days in a row. But I invited myself and didn’t want to impose. So he said. You’re right, maybe you shouldn’t come- then disappeared for 2 weeks lol.

why are we so extra? i feel like it's probably coz you're not initiating contact.

anyway, i have given up on the virgo moon.

i might as well just date another pisces coz that's probably where this is going anyway.

I tried initiating contact like he asked but he would ignore my message and try to get me to double text. Leave me on read, then I send another and he would answer the first. That's a shitty way to get someone to text often and it just pissed me off, so I reverted back to not texting. I don't have time for games.

Well he just made plans to see me two days in a row again, so it must have been that. We have never saw each other 2 days in a row. I'm not sure I know how o bring up the disappearing thing or if I should just leave it alone. It's annoying but doesn't bother me too much but I still want to know why he does this, especially when he said he wouldn't.

Feels like Scorpio punishment.

he's being petty

i say bring it up

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Ok I will. I'm not gonna argue with him about it but I don't like being lied to either. He needs to back up his words with actions. I'll see how it goes.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Metatron

Posted by saggurl88Disappearing but expecting people to cater and keep up with you and check in. Virgos have lost their damn mind

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Have experienced this...

know what i always wondered? when a water sign acts this way it's coz they're 'sensitive?' but when an earth sign does it then it's 'petty?' but when they don't like the water sign it's 'manipulative?'

aStrOLOgy

It’s different cause water signs will talk about their feelings and be upset then ignore.

Virgos don’t talk about anything. One small thing can get a Virgo upset and people have no clue. They just end up getting ignored and having to wait till the Virgo finishes mourning lol.

virgos are extra sensitive

my virgo sun/aries moon friend ghoted me and i still don't know why. we've both had relationship issues lately so i guess the mourning just take forever for us.

The Virgo just contacted me so I’m seeing him this weekend but he keeps disappearing for 2 weeks at a time. It’s annoying.

I think he got upset that I canceled on seeing him 2 days in a row. But I invited myself and didn’t want to impose. So he said. You’re right, maybe you shouldn’t come- then disappeared for 2 weeks lol.

why are we so extra? i feel like it's probably coz you're not initiating contact.

anyway, i have given up on the virgo moon.

i might as well just date another pisces coz that's probably where this is going anyway.

I tried initiating contact like he asked but he would ignore my message and try to get me to double text. Leave me on read, then I send another and he would answer the first. That's a shitty way to get someone to text often and it just pissed me off, so I reverted back to not texting. I don't have time for games.

Well he just made plans to see me two days in a row again, so it must have been that. We have never saw each other 2 days in a row. I'm not sure I know how o bring up the disappearing thing or if I should just leave it alone. It's annoying but doesn't bother me too much but I still want to know why he does this, especially when he said he wouldn't.

Feels like Scorpio punishment.

I never text a guy first, they can all go to hell lol. They take you for granted at the drop of a hat as it is, we don't need to make them feel like princesses as well.

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I never text at all, hardly. Me and the Virgo haven't text in over a week. He finally sent a text cause I posted a new pic on Instagram since I was going out. And he sent a text at 1:30 am to see if I was in his area by chance so I can go over there 😆 WTF— I ignored the message and he sent me an apology text at 3pm today and then made the plans for seeing me 2 days. These dudes are a mess.

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Posted by saggurl88These dudes are a mess.

The scary thing is when a guy tries this stuff, it's because it has worked on someone else..

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I actually had to tell the last Virgo that mind games don't work on me. I know this type of behavior usually works, It's called the law of attraction, but I'm way better at playing it when I actually have interest in someone. I'm horrible with doing just enough to keep a person biting. The only people it doesn't work with is Aquas, cause they hate those types of no contact games.

But funny thing with Aquas is you can plan a date and cancel numerous times and they stay interested- Go figure.

Posted by Erinelda

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Erinelda

Posted by saggurl88These dudes are a mess.

The scary thing is when a guy tries this stuff, it's because it has worked on someone else..

I actually had to tell the last Virgo that mind games don't work on me. I know this type of behavior usually works, It's called the law of attraction, but I'm way better at playing it when I actually have interest in someone. I'm horrible with doing just enough to keep a person biting. The only people it doesn't work with is Aquas, cause they hate those types of no contact games.

But funny thing with Aquas is you can plan a date and cancel numerous times and they stay interested- Go figure.

I have had nothing but silly experiences with Aquas so I have given up on them lol. I can't even take a nap without them assuming it's games. I am not a plan canceler and I reply to people when I feel up to it instead of instantly, so they slow fade away. We ain't compatible anyway so it's not worth the trouble. I seen you have way more patience for them.

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I have patience for anyone who I like, that likes me. They key is I have to like them. Games won't work if I'm not interested. No matter what they try.

And I always answer right away because I don't initiate contact, its the least I can do. That's probably why the Virgo sen me an apology cause I would've answered sooner but I ignored it. He doesn't want to see me, but he doesn't want me seeing anyone else— GTFOH

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Posted by Erinelda

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Erinelda

Posted by saggurl88These dudes are a mess.

The scary thing is when a guy tries this stuff, it's because it has worked on someone else..

I actually had to tell the last Virgo that mind games don't work on me. I know this type of behavior usually works, It's called the law of attraction, but I'm way better at playing it when I actually have interest in someone. I'm horrible with doing just enough to keep a person biting. The only people it doesn't work with is Aquas, cause they hate those types of no contact games.

But funny thing with Aquas is you can plan a date and cancel numerous times and they stay interested- Go figure.

I have had nothing but silly experiences with Aquas so I have given up on them lol. I can't even take a nap without them assuming it's games. I am not a plan canceler and I reply to people when I feel up to it instead of instantly, so they slow fade away. We ain't compatible anyway so it's not worth the trouble. I seen you have way more patience for them.

I have patience for anyone who I like, that likes me. They key is I have to like them. Games won't work if I'm not interested. No matter what they try.

And I always answer right away because I don't initiate contact, its the least I can do. That's probably why the Virgo sen me an apology cause I would've answered sooner but I ignored it. He doesn't want to see me, but he doesn't want me seeing anyone else— GTFOH

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posting a pic looks like you're back in the market

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Erinelda

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Erinelda

Posted by saggurl88These dudes are a mess.

The scary thing is when a guy tries this stuff, it's because it has worked on someone else..

I actually had to tell the last Virgo that mind games don't work on me. I know this type of behavior usually works, It's called the law of attraction, but I'm way better at playing it when I actually have interest in someone. I'm horrible with doing just enough to keep a person biting. The only people it doesn't work with is Aquas, cause they hate those types of no contact games.

But funny thing with Aquas is you can plan a date and cancel numerous times and they stay interested- Go figure.

I have had nothing but silly experiences with Aquas so I have given up on them lol. I can't even take a nap without them assuming it's games. I am not a plan canceler and I reply to people when I feel up to it instead of instantly, so they slow fade away. We ain't compatible anyway so it's not worth the trouble. I seen you have way more patience for them.

I have patience for anyone who I like, that likes me. They key is I have to like them. Games won't work if I'm not interested. No matter what they try.

And I always answer right away because I don't initiate contact, its the least I can do. That's probably why the Virgo sen me an apology cause I would've answered sooner but I ignored it. He doesn't want to see me, but he doesn't want me seeing anyone else— GTFOH

posting a pic looks like you're back in the market

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I know what I was doing lol And I'm single and always on the market, until otherwise noted 😛

Usually I'm just private and sneaky about it 😄