@RoseTheTaurus
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Anyone close to you with Mars square pluto aspect
Understanding Mars Square Pluto in Relationships
Mars square Pluto can indicate intense and potentially destructive energy that may lead to emotional or physical conflicts. It often signifies a need for control and power struggles. Recognizing these patterns early can help manage the risks and promote healthier interactions. Not everyone with this aspect becomes violent, but awareness is crucial for preventing negative outcomes.
I have Moon & Mars (both Aries) in hard aspect to Pluto.
My 3 Cancer and 1 Pisces placement soften it up. I can be pretty psychologically brutal.. in an under handed way, then play innocent. OR straight mean if you have it coming. It's never intended to be cruel but my bluntness can hurt. Never physically, tho.
The Pluto allows you to hit those hidden truths that people don't want you to see.
Control is key, and shutting it down when temper escalates. Therapy helped...
Posted by shellshocker
I have Moon & Mars (both Aries) in hard aspect to Pluto.My 3 Cancer and 1 Pisces placement soften it up. I can be pretty psychologically brutal.. in an under handed way, then play innocent. OR straight mean if you have it coming. It's never intended to be cruel but my bluntness can hurt. Never physically, tho.
The Pluto allows you to hit those hidden truths that people don't want you to see.
Control is key, and shutting it down when temper escalates. Therapy helped...
Military man, correct?
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No... and I'm a girl
Posted by DazedScorp
Hmmm... sorry. Not who I thought you were.
lol! no problem. I get that a lot.. especially from people who've known me for years 😛
Posted by RoseTheTaurus
Or any Mars-Pluto aspects.
My mother has a mars-pluto conjunct and she was physically & emotionally abusive, but in a calculating way. I believe though having Aries in 4 personal planets had a huge influence on the physical abuse.My boyfriend is a Cancer sun, Taurus moon, Leo Mars. He's pretty calm and emotionally stable (taurus moon), although I sense this inner darkness or intensity. Sometimes he straight up seems like a Scorpio. He has a Mars square Pluto aspect. Apparently this aspect can lead to violence or physical abuse- if the person doesn't learn to channel that energy into a physically draining activity. Do you have or know anyone with this aspect? I have this huge fear of falling for someone who is innately cruel and not realizing it until after it's too late.
I lived with an individual with Mars square Pluto who threatened to "fucking kill me" as he smashed my head into a concrete wall.
Ha ha - he also has Venus Square Mars and this is what astro.com.says about that:
"Either you or your partner will get tired of the emotional and physical bruises and will leave." I left.
Wish I'd known about Mars and Pluto a long long time ago.
My ex has a Mars-Uranus-Pluto conjunction in Virgo. I am a Virgo but the closest of these Virgo planets of hers is 9 degrees away from my Sun.
I just think she is quite selfish and harsh and abrupt for a female, and being a sensitive Virgo it has been painful to be on the receiving end of this.
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Or any Mars-Pluto aspects.
My mother has a mars-pluto conjunct and she was physically & emotionally abusive, but in a calculating way. I believe though having Aries in 4 personal planets had a huge influence on the physical abuse.
My boyfriend is a Cancer sun, Taurus moon, Leo Mars. He's pretty calm and emotionally stable (taurus moon), although I sense this inner darkness or intensity. Sometimes he straight up seems like a Scorpio. He has a Mars square Pluto aspect. Apparently this aspect can lead to violence or physical abuse- if the person doesn't learn to channel that energy into a physically draining activity. Do you have or know anyone with this aspect? I have this huge fear of falling for someone who is innately cruel and not realizing it until after it's too late.