AquaVibe
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Aquarius Female Falling for Cap Male!
I feel like I like him more than he likes me. I dont know if its just because he does not call me as often as I would like. And since I am nowhere near him at the moment, the phone and internet are all the communication we have!
I send him a daily morning text because I want him to know that he is an important part of my day and that I want to include him in it. I have asked him if he truly does like me and he has said yes. I just feel like his actions arent going with his words!
Is he testing me to see if I can handle being with him? Is he waiting until I return to turn the volume back up?
I know I have a problem dealing with attention and patience..but Im honestly willing to work that out to be with him. Thats how much I truly care for him.
I just want to know is it worth holding on to him and waiting until I return by his side? Or should I just drop the hope for love and remain his friend?
I send him a daily morning text because I want him to know that he is an important part of my day and that I want to include him in it. I have asked him if he truly does like me and he has said yes. I just feel like his actions arent going with his words!
Is he testing me to see if I can handle being with him? Is he waiting until I return to turn the volume back up?
I know I have a problem dealing with attention and patience..but Im honestly willing to work that out to be with him. Thats how much I truly care for him.
I just want to know is it worth holding on to him and waiting until I return by his side? Or should I just drop the hope for love and remain his friend?
PS.- 90% Of the time he says he is gonna call...he doesnt. What is up with that?
"PS.- 90% Of the time he says he is gonna call...he doesnt. What is up with that?"
Honestly? he is not that into you. I think you are more into him at the moment by what I have read of what you have written.
Caps are very cautious (I have a cappy moon) in relationships - we take our time. I really do not feel that his actions are only related to him being a Cap - but him being a male.
When a man has feelings for a woman (is interested in her) his actions will follow his words. OR...also possible is, this is just who he is and you need to figure out if this is a character trait you are willing to put up with...for me, it signals a huge red flag.
I'd step back and let him make the moves - see where it goes.
Honestly? he is not that into you. I think you are more into him at the moment by what I have read of what you have written.
Caps are very cautious (I have a cappy moon) in relationships - we take our time. I really do not feel that his actions are only related to him being a Cap - but him being a male.
When a man has feelings for a woman (is interested in her) his actions will follow his words. OR...also possible is, this is just who he is and you need to figure out if this is a character trait you are willing to put up with...for me, it signals a huge red flag.
I'd step back and let him make the moves - see where it goes.
"PS.- 90% Of the time he says he is gonna call...he doesnt. What is up with that?"
It means his word means nothing, his words are empty.
"Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him."
~unknown
It means his word means nothing, his words are empty.
"Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him."
~unknown
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