Aquarius male trouble

Right im a sag female and knew this aquarius male at college when we were 17 (im now 30), we became friends and i found out he liked me and the day he was going to ask me to be his girlfriend (my friends forwarned me) i just blanked him and stopped talking to him. I know that was awful but i got really scared and could not handle the situation so i totally backed off from him. Well i never spoke or saw him after that situation.

Now fast forward 13 years on, i managed to contact him through the joys of facebook! Well he replied back straight away (this was dec 2007). He asked to meet up for a drink which i did, we had a nice time-spent over 4 hours together, and then we stayed in contact mainly though msn/texts say on a weekly basis. Well this year we met twice at my place in feb/march...first time was for over 10 hours, we just talked and talked, it was so apparent that there was a strong attraction between us. He even thanked me for the great conversation etc..

We then met again in march and this time were even a little intimate..he was basically carressing me for over 2 hours, stroking my hair, my arms, etc whilst we were watching a movie at mine. This time when he tried to kiss me i backed off again...i think i became again a little overwhelmed (i know it sounds silly im 30..but i can be very reserved)We spent over 6 hours this time. Well when i stopped him from kissing me i then said its getting late time for him to go home!! I gave him a lift home (he cannot drive) and i was being jokey with him, he did say you just used and abused me, but he said it in a jokey way.

He did text me that night and asked if i got home ok..i said yes...and said i hope we can move on to some more fun in the bedroom department if we meet up again (basically i could not just sleep with him straight away) well the next morning at 9am he text back saying we can sort out some arrangement. After that we spoke on msn and texting...he iniated to meet up again and i said cool ill get us a hotel room (basically im pretty successful in my career i own my own business etc and he is struggling financially) so thats why i offered to pay for the room...he then said he thought we would meet up to hang out and that he felt uncomfortable with me paying..so anyways that did not occur. After that we still chatted..i went abroad for a mates hen wkend , and when i would not go onto msn say for a week he would text me.

Well now things started going iffy at may time...i know he was

things were busy for him at work he was going to a conference abroad, on msn he told me he wanted to meet but he was busy, stressed. I gave him space (3 weeks actually) i didnt go on msn or text him ( i never iniated contact with him) as i knew he was abroad for a week and the other 2 weeks he was busy preparing for his conference abroad.

Well then after that when i knew his conference was over and he would be back home, i went onto msn and he ignored me for like 40 mins so i said hello and then he went offline!! Since then his msn was always offline (he must have blocked me) and he was always online before. So this was like 2 weeks ago, so i then texted him just saying how are you..that was it nothinng else. He didnt answer, so last week i sent an email which was friendly asking whats up, was he still around, and that if he didnt want to spaek with me anymore to let me know directly. I also said i wouild like to still be mates (before i said he should be male escort..bascially be a friend but with sexual benefits) even without the sexual stuff as i realised i like him!!! I deleted him fromy facebook this week as he did not reply to my email either.

I dont know whats happened...he is ignoring me why!! I thought we could be mates..but he is cutting me out totally!! Very painful... 😢

dont worry about it...I suppose
A)maybe he wanted something more than a screw
B)he wanted to see if he could get you to concede (and never planned on following thru)
C)he's met someone else
D)he is used to being chased and not the chaser (you played it cool) (good for you)

what were your intentions with the guy anyway? Your friends forewarned you about him asking you out and you blanked on him... E) he's afraid with actions all these years later that you might "BLANK" out on him again and so why pursue a dead end street??

Aqua's have this thing about friendships and honesty. Maybe he wants to be friends (just not now) and feels some sort of pull against his honesty code (he's seeing someone else)or a loyalty code has been broken somewhere

Aqua's also have this thing about privacy (all the chasing and he is evading)

He's got to make a decision about the relationship and mulling it over on what he should do- over analyzers.... I suppose we like to chase to a point and then stop