Are starsign traits, the same for Gay People

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by dogsbody on Thursday, September 11, 2008 and has 7 replies.

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@Morisaki998
18 YearsAries

Probably something has to do with the roles. Maybe some strong signs just won't be the 'bottom.' -shrugs-

Actually.. my gay friend is a Pisces and his mate is a Leo. Obviously the Leo is not and will never be the 'bottom.' I should ask him about my theory. lol

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@dogsbody
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Im not sure that they are!
a work colleague is a Cancer and his partner is an Aries
and its "Definately" the Cancer that wears the pants in that relationship (so to speak!)

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I know a lesbian couple, and they behave completely different than their straight comrades.

Aries .... she displays NO jealousy, NO possessiveness of any kind. She doesn't exude sexuality, she doesn't try to compete for attention, doesn't flirt ... and most importantly, she doesn't try to control her girlfriend in any way and just lets her flutter around. Her girlfriend is quite a flirt herself, and the female Ram is compelety indifferent to it and shows absolutely NO insecurity about it.

That ^^^^^ is way off from a female Aries who is straight.

The other is Taurus ... and she's extremely impressionable, she makes none of her decisions, and relies exclusively on the opinions, judgements and decisions of her partner. She breaks at the drop of a hat .. a person only has to look at her the wrong way, and she shatters in a million pieces.

That ^^^^ is way off from a female Bull who is straight.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

PA,

I know Rams like you described in straight relationships as everyone varies depending on maturity, other planet positions, etc...

On the other hand, the female ram in a same-sex relationship might be at their best (feel more at home) as there's a constant struggle of 'who wears the pants' in straight relationships as she-rams are not that feminine.

The feminine signs like Taurus females, may need constant validation in a same-sex relationship as the natural inclination will be to gravitate towards more masculine or the opposite sex. Also the bull is an earth sign so there's the constant 'how does society see this?' unlike the ram who is more iconoclastic/rebelious