Aries dudes acting hot and cold

Y'all it's barely February and I've already endured two heartaches--from Aries guys specifically lmao I don't understand. For some context I'm a Taurus woman.

The first one ended because it was long distance and it had little ground to stand on anyway (we worked together for months but had only been "talking" a couple of weeks, and slept together once before he moved across the country). In spite of the distance he was determined to make it work and called me all the time.. but he and I just couldn't get over our stubbornness and different communication style s so we just.. stopped talking eventually. Still makes me sad when I think about him though.

Fast forward to some weeks later when I was fiiiinally getting over Ram #1, this OTHER guy at work whom I'd been flirting with on and off decides to corner me one day and ask for my number. I was so taken aback because our interactions were literally limited to stupid ass flirting and not much actual conversation. This guy moves really quickly from one task to another while I'm usually in one spot doing something diligently (fun fact we work at Trader Joe's!). Tell me why my hunch is right and he's an Aries too!!

So whatever we text and flirt, and it gets heavy to the point we were basically in agreement that we wanted to have sex with each other.. but I didn't give in right away and toyed with him for a couple of weeks (but playfully, careful to never hurt his ego. I've done my research -___-). One afternoon though he asked me again when he could see me, so I was like "screw it maybe today's the day, let's hang out! when are you free?"

He goes "I'm free today,"

"sweet what's your address?"

"My cousin is still home, I'll let you know when he leaves," and some hours pass and nothing was ever said about it again. He texts me later that day about something else entirely and I just get so annoyed.

I'm a pretty straightforward person so I was just like "hey, what's your deal? You asked for my number yet you don't really take the time to get to know me, (he doesn't talk to me at work or outside of work to ask anything about me) you only hit me with "wyd?"... which is fine, I don't want a relationship either, I just wish I was clear on exactly what your intentions are. If you wanted to hang out but couldn't, just let me know instead of leaving me hanging."

And he goes "sorry I'm just not really sure what I want."

Huh—

I don't know y'all 😐 I know not everything can be reduced to a zodiac thing but I'm just wondering why the universe keeps throwing these men my way when it clearly isn't working out 😭 there's another Aries in my horizon but I won't even talk about him lmao

Sorry I know it's a lot, I'm just super confused and would love insight! Thank youuu!!

Aries is not a good match for us Taureans.

"He goes "I'm free today,"

OP: "sweet what's your address?"

thats brutal 😄 😄

PS. flirt with co-workers is good, asking for their address is creepy, no wonder he chickened out

whats wrong with: see you at some bar?

Ummm how can you trivialize your own game playing and put his front and center.

Dont be mad he played it better.

Be straightforward if you ate indeed straightforward.

If you're not, own it and learn how to play the game.

Posted by Pandora101

"He goes "I'm free today,"

OP: "sweet what's your address?"

thats brutal 😄 😄

PS. flirt with co-workers is good, asking for their address is creepy, no wonder he chickened out

whats wrong with: see you at some bar?

I mean 😂 I could elaborate on how we established we wanted to sleep together lmao but I didn't wanna make anyone blush with the little details. We both stated early on that neither of us wanted a relationship so the only place it was going was obvious; what's creepy about cutting to the chase? I honestly think the game was just over for him and he lost interest.

Update btw we're still flirting heavily and doing this stupid dance lmao but I'm over it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ still hella attracted to him but ehhh