Blackpisces/arabtaurus relationship help!!!

I'm confused by a Taurus man. Help me understand! It's kinda long, bare with me. I have been talking to this guy for almost 3 months now. We met on a Islamic dating site, I'm black (25), he is Arab(32). He is good looking, has a nice job. And I'm in uni. From where I live (France) to where he is (London) 2h by train. He is French and his whole family lives in France. Anyways, he told me he wants a serious relationship with me, and if everything goes well between us we can get married in a year. He asked me how I was raised(morals and values), and if I still love my ex(who broke my virginity), I said no. He likes black women, and our food. He told me he is dominant and likes a naughty gal. That's not a problem for me I'm a pisces . He asked me a lot of questions about my sexual life, told him I haven't had sex in a long time(4yrs), talked about our families, random things. After a month he was supposed to come see me, that ninja didn't even show up, I wasn't surprised I felt it, again pisces intuition. He didn't even text or call to just let me know. I was angry told him, I can't deal with that type of behaviour. He said "I'm not going to come see you just for sex". He said he couldn't make it , he is sorry. I told him , if he wasn't interested, he should just tell me, he was like "Cherie(baby), I won't leave you just like that, and if I wasn't interested I wouldn't be talking to you". That's not an excuse, so I told him, I was done, he didn't want. He was like you are not going anywhere, I said why? Because I want to see you, make love to you so good that you'll stay with me, and I like you. He hates it when I go out, and he always wants to know what I'm doing.

I gave it a shot, but he was weird, no calls , few texts, and we only talk about sex. I asked him if was married because his words and actions were off. Again he was like "NO", it's just he is busy with work, so he called (whatsapp video)me that day. Talked for a bit. I had some emotional break down cuz of how he was behaving, which was intriguing and I have never been with a man like that. Broke it off couple of times(?), I was all over the place.

I feel like he is insecure and shy , so me being a pisces picks up on that, I can sens his energy through msg. I don't know if that makes sense. He became distant and he disappeared, so I went back to the dating site to see if he was there, guess what he was but changed the city. Sent him a msg, told him I was sorry for being too needy and pushy, that I was the real deal for him, just because I'm unpredictable, I got him. I feel so stupid. He read the msg, when I went back his account was deactivated. Fast forward, I didn't hear from him. Mother's day in Europe , I sent him a msg for his mom, he replied with "hi". I was going crazy, I didn't understand him. Did my research and was here Taurus forum. I felt relieved.I told him that I should me more supportive and understanding. we are humans we make mistakes and we express our feelings differently. I promise him this time it will be different, I know that he is a private person and I respect that. So if he needs to talk, I'm here for him. He replied with "thanks my love". I followed the advice given here, didn't text him again, out of nowhere he sent me a shy text "hello", I replied after 5hours. He asked me what I was doing, and where I was. If I still want him. He asked me "without lying to me , when was the last time you had sex", I told him in a long time. He was like oh so I will do you good then, I told him I'll wait for him. He said "when are we going to see each other, we should plan it", I told him it's up to him. He was like "I like that baby". This might sound silly, he is toughening me , and teaching me "patience". He is honest in a brutal way. Deep down I trust him but sometimes I question myself. Taurus men/women help me understand. Sorry for my English.

He's fetishizing you and totally buying into the hypersexual black woman stereotype.

He thinks you're easy and doesn't respect you.

He only wants to have sex with you.



That's why he only talks about sex with you.

If he actually respected you and considered you as a potential girlfriend/wife he would be more responsive

and be actively trying to get to know you.

You need to respect yourself and love yourself better.



You can do better than him. I promise.



As an African American Pisces Woman who is almost 30..I know.

Trust me.

Absolutely agree. It's all lies and bullshit. Find someone better for you, this is a chain up.

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
He's fetishizing you and totally buying into the hypersexual black woman stereotype.

He thinks you're easy and doesn't respect you.

He only wants to have sex with you.



That's why he only talks about sex with you.

If he actually respected you and considered you as a potential girlfriend/wife he would be more responsive

and be actively trying to get to know you.

I agree. That is loud and clear to everyone but the @OP. Oh, I'm sure it would most likely be a good time but who is he and he doesn't seem to want to know anything about you either.

Posted by tcta

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
He's fetishizing you and totally buying into the hypersexual black woman stereotype.

He thinks you're easy and doesn't respect you.

He only wants to have sex with you.



That's why he only talks about sex with you.

If he actually respected you and considered you as a potential girlfriend/wife he would be more responsive

and be actively trying to get to know you.

I agree. That is loud and clear to everyone but the @OP. Oh, I'm sure it would most likely be a good time but who is he and he doesn't seem to want to know anything about you either.

click to expand

Never underestimate Pisces naivety and or denial.

Deep down she knows everything that I said is true already. That is why she came on here and posted about her situation.She just wanted confirmation.

Pisces are always well aware when they are deluding themselves but we tend to cling on to the delusion as long as possible because we want to believe in the best in people.