Cancer guy and Virgo girl hmm

I was just curious if anyone has any experience with cancer men. First night I met this one we were glued to each other. And for the past 2months since then we talk all throughout the day and we have sex regularly. I'm pretty content the way things are now but I was wondering y it's so hard to get commitment outa these guys. My last ex was a Sagittarius so I feel I am "prepared" for this commitment phobe thing he has going on. The only thing we don't do is actually go on real dates and he says he has never asked a girl to be his girlfriend, that it just turns into that... That's so weird for me! I'm a Virgo, I like to classify things and I guess he just won't let me. I've never dated a cancer before so I dunno what is what with this one. But like I said we talk all day about everything and anything, and we do lots of physical stuff. I generally make the first move, cuz otherwise we will both procrastinate. I just can't tell whether we are just friends or if we could be heading toward more. He never gives direct answers, if anything his answers make me more confused.

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I'm a virgo girl with a cancer man and i feel closer to him than i've ever felt with any man. from the beginning we made an agreement of "no relationships" and "no public displays of affection" and now look at us. he introduces me as his girlfriend and is the king of PDA's. I understand his emotional side(which took a while to break the shell) and i accept that he is still haunted by his past. and he appreciates my loyalty and he feels secure with me. What you need to do, is ask about his past, and pay attention to his emotions. cancers tend to hold on to their pasts and if you lick their wounds, he will be yours forever. i noticed my man sees i'm picky with relationships(because i'm a virgo) because he has known me when i was with other people, so that gave his ego about 10 points when he saw how i interacted with my ex's and how affectionate and loving i am to him. so yeah, emotional support is key with a cancer. they just want to be looked after.

Hi Jayna,

After reading your post, it sounds like your Cancer may already think of you as a girlfriend. But for some reason he may have some fear of commitment. As yourpersonalcritic said, Cancers hold on to the past for a long time. We base everything off past experiences, and use it to guide future actions. Maybe his fear of commitment is based on something in the past. Or he may be trying to give you subtle clues that he really wants to solidify everything but he is doing it in such a way that you're not picking up on. I'm not trying to say that you're slow or anything, just that we Cancers have a way of going about things in an upside down sort of way. Try to read between the lines in the things that he says and does and acts. If you get the feeling that there are those clues there, and he really does want something more permanent and wants to put a title on it, then be direct with him about it. Not confrontational, just bring the subject right out in the open. Usually, if he does indeed feel strongly about you, he will warm right up to this and respond positively to your openness.

Good luck.

hi everyone,

im a cancer male and i have a huge crush on a virgo female. she is my class fellow. im not sure what she thinks about me. can you help me?

Im a virgo woman married to a cancer man..He is my soul mate.. The best advise I could give to a virgo woman is "you can be yourself around a cancer man". you know what I mean virgos. We tend to put up fasades, but with cancer the're no need with your cancer man. And that also mean no fasades sexually, you can be yourself. Depending on his past and childhood you do have to lick his wounds for him. Once he knows you understand he's yours for life..he is loyal and romantic. sometimes you have to teach him, but once you do he always remembers. Now virgos, you know your temper be calm, cancers dont like the fight. Its not that they dont understand, they're lovers not fighters. He's not weak he's just the most wonderful man.. he's a wonderful dad,but virgo woman remind him that its ok to tell your children I love you.. he has no problem telling you, but he may forget that the children need to hear it..