Cancer man disappeared. How could he be so cruel?

I learned from a previous unsuccessful relationship with a Scorpio/Libra, to be extremely sensitive and sincere. I was patient, placed his feelings above mine. No insulting pet-names to him (not that I would), kept times open just for him, never showed interest towards another man-made it clear I was a one woman man, played a little hard to get, talked nice about his family, raved about his talents, complimented him with specific examples, I let bygones be bygones.
We met in May. Started out with casual, cordial communications at work. He hinted that he was interested. We connected on twitter. That continued until we began exchanging personal emails, every day, every other day, every three days. That turned into working closer together, more flirting by email every day, every other day, etc. Then we began talking over the phone daily. I said something over the phone that he thought made him feel guilty-he said so, and I haven't heard from him since. He made a dinner date with me, ignored it when the day arrived, didn't cancel it, and didn't acknowledge it at work when I saw him, hasn't answered my telephone calls or returned them. Hasn't answered my email. I see him at work, he says hi or bye and that's it.
It's obvious he doesn't want anything to do with me. My problem-after being nice to him and helping him and others, sometimes at his request, I think it would have been decent of him to just say goodbye. He doesn't have to agree to stay in a situation with me that he doesn't want. I'm not asking that. I'm just asking that he give me a clean break, closure, and an adult discussion. Why would he not want to "close-out" nicely? I treated him respectfully and was very giving at all times. I think adults who gave freely of their time should tell the other person when they no longer want to be in a situation. I tell men who I don't want to be in a relationship with that I no longer want that.
To just walk away and not say a word!!! Why? No closure from him hurts badly. I can accept his changed mind. He didn't have to be so mean to me, I didn't deserve it.
HIM-Sun-Cancer, Moon-Scorpio, Venus-Virgo, Nept-Sagittarius, Nrth Node-Scorpio Uranus-Libra, Pluto-Libra, Saturn-Cancer, Mercury-Cancer, Mars-Taurus, Chiron-Aries, Jupiter-Aries, True Lil-Aquarius, True Nrth Node-Scorpio.
ME-Sun-Sagittarius, Moon-Gemini, Venus-Sagittarius, Nept-Scorpio,Uranus-Virgo,Pluto-Virgo, Saturn-Pisces, Mercury-Scorpio, Mars-Virgo, Chiron-Pisces, Jupiter-Leo, TL-Picses,TNN-Taur

You sound like a moron.


You know it's over, yet, you continue to cry about not being respected by him.


Seriously ..... he made the right decision

Your comments are harsh....there's a way to say things, you aren't nice. Guess your life has been just as harsh to you. I wonder how many times in your fifty something years you acted like a moron, since you can call someone that.

Of course, only look at how someone talks to you ... whatever you do though, don't ever consider your actions in being pathetic because then you might actually realize you're a moron for emotionally grasping onto the idea that a man who doesn't want you, owes you something.


You're emotionally needy, and so therefore think people are supposed to cater to your feelings.



What a waste of life ... there are actually important things, you not being able to handle rejection is not one of them.