CrabbyBullbaby
@CrabbyBullbaby
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Cancer/Virgo?
There's a limit on this site about how much Cancer chicks can post. The last time it was unlimited a lot of people died from the constant whining.
Joking..hit preview because there's a character limit on posts and in preview you will see how much of your message got through.
Joking..hit preview because there's a character limit on posts and in preview you will see how much of your message got through.
Heres the rest of it. LOL I understand the Cancer whining but thankfully my Taurus keeps that side of me in check...Heres the rest of it.
Because of a legal situation I am in, I can not leave until the first of the year, then I plan on moving out of this god forsaken town. He will be making a career move about the same time and we have mentioned its possible for us to move to the same area then. My Cancer is very cautious and my Taurus is very patient. But I will shut him down in a min if I thought he was playing with my Cancer feelings. Our connection is ..... powerful. Ive read were some Virgos lie. He was yet to lie to me. If I ask him a direct question, he will answer it truthful. He doesnt volunteer info tho.
We are a site together. A sex site that lets us explore what each other likes sexually. On that site, I have a journal. I wrote about him one night in it and he read it. He only wrote MARRY ME!!! He later told me I made it very clear in my writings how I felt about him. I told him I cared about him and was half in love with him. Ive never told him Ive loved him. My Cancer wont let me. But on one of my pics in my profile, he picked the most classiest pic of me and wrote, this is why I love her....
Because he is in the public eye and is coming into the most busiest time of his year, he doesnt text me back until late at night when he is on his way home. And I usually get a late night call. Because he is such a public figure I know his schedule. He is at work about 7am and heads home about 1030-11 at night.
I just need advice here guys. I know its easy to say oh hes married and he wont leave her while Ive seen in some Virgo cases this is true where in some, they do leave, they just have to build up to it. In the cases where the Virgo hasnt left, he has a history of lying. My Virgo has never lied to me.
So input from other Virgos on this?
Because of a legal situation I am in, I can not leave until the first of the year, then I plan on moving out of this god forsaken town. He will be making a career move about the same time and we have mentioned its possible for us to move to the same area then. My Cancer is very cautious and my Taurus is very patient. But I will shut him down in a min if I thought he was playing with my Cancer feelings. Our connection is ..... powerful. Ive read were some Virgos lie. He was yet to lie to me. If I ask him a direct question, he will answer it truthful. He doesnt volunteer info tho.
We are a site together. A sex site that lets us explore what each other likes sexually. On that site, I have a journal. I wrote about him one night in it and he read it. He only wrote MARRY ME!!! He later told me I made it very clear in my writings how I felt about him. I told him I cared about him and was half in love with him. Ive never told him Ive loved him. My Cancer wont let me. But on one of my pics in my profile, he picked the most classiest pic of me and wrote, this is why I love her....
Because he is in the public eye and is coming into the most busiest time of his year, he doesnt text me back until late at night when he is on his way home. And I usually get a late night call. Because he is such a public figure I know his schedule. He is at work about 7am and heads home about 1030-11 at night.
I just need advice here guys. I know its easy to say oh hes married and he wont leave her while Ive seen in some Virgo cases this is true where in some, they do leave, they just have to build up to it. In the cases where the Virgo hasnt left, he has a history of lying. My Virgo has never lied to me.
So input from other Virgos on this?
Posted by Damnata
There's a limit on this site about how much Cancer chicks can post. The last time it was unlimited a lot of people died from the constant whining.
LMAO ROFL hahahahahahaha
Thanks Damnata. That was a good laugh for me. I need it today.
Posted by VirgoDragirlPosted by Damnata
There's a limit on this site about how much Cancer chicks can post. The last time it was unlimited a lot of people died from the constant whining.
LMAO ROFL hahahahahahaha
Thanks Damnata. That was a good laugh for me. I need it today.click to expand
IT IS TRUE!
Dude, remember when I posted those Sun/Moon descriptions on all the boards? I couldn't find them all and it bugged my Virgo self so I asked this awesome friend from the US and I will get the book in 2 weeks! I have to start with the crabcakes forum because I only found 5-6 for them and I need to post all of them 😄
OK..thanks for advice and view points!! That was a ton of help! Goodness, why didnt I think of that?! Silly me.
Posted by DamnataPosted by VirgoDragirlPosted by Damnata
There's a limit on this site about how much Cancer chicks can post. The last time it was unlimited a lot of people died from the constant whining.
LMAO ROFL hahahahahahaha
Thanks Damnata. That was a good laugh for me. I need it today.
IT IS TRUE!
Dude, remember when I posted those Sun/Moon descriptions on all the boards? I couldn't find them all and it bugged my Virgo self so I asked this awesome friend from the US and I will get the book in 2 weeks! I have to start with the crabcakes forum because I only found 5-6 for them and I need to post all of them 😄click to expand
@Damnata: The one you did on cancer sun cancer moon is spot on. Mine too. I'm looking forward for that posts.
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
OK..thanks for advice and view points!! That was a ton of help! Goodness, why didnt I think of that?! Silly me.
Pretty much what I'm talking about. You can't take humor/sarcasm, you won't get with a Virgo.
He's married, which makes him a cheater. You're approaching this from a selfish mindset, including talking about his Gemini wife as not being the best match for him. Well he's still married so she must be..for the time being.
Back off this man or come back here after some months and cry wolf about Virgo players. He will hurt you far more than you hurt him. And you actually believe a cheater didn't lie to you at all, ever? LOL
If he's a public figure, it's very possible he won't ever leave her. It would fuck up his status.
Glad to be of help.
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
OK..thanks for advice and view points!! That was a ton of help! Goodness, why didnt I think of that?! Silly me.
Sorry about that! Didn't mean to hijack your thread.
First. I am the biggest smart ass on the planet and rarely take things serious. So, dont lump me into what you think all Cancers are or should be.
And yes. I as a Cancer would know if he had lied to me. Know your Cancers. Dont assume. We just know. Most are lead by their hearts and dont want to believe it when they are lied to, but I would spot it in a hot second and call him on it. Try not putting me into some preconceived category you have of all Cancers.
I am just looking for facts about Virgos. From your point of view as a Virgo MAN. As a Virgo woman, who is obviously emotional as most Cancers I hear about....
You came into my post seemly bitter and venomous for some reason. That is not appreciated. If you have nothing to say without putting someone down, then say NOTHING. I may be new but disrespect is not tolerated.
And yes. I as a Cancer would know if he had lied to me. Know your Cancers. Dont assume. We just know. Most are lead by their hearts and dont want to believe it when they are lied to, but I would spot it in a hot second and call him on it. Try not putting me into some preconceived category you have of all Cancers.
I am just looking for facts about Virgos. From your point of view as a Virgo MAN. As a Virgo woman, who is obviously emotional as most Cancers I hear about....
You came into my post seemly bitter and venomous for some reason. That is not appreciated. If you have nothing to say without putting someone down, then say NOTHING. I may be new but disrespect is not tolerated.
@VirgoDragirl thank you.
Thank you.
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
First. I am the biggest smart ass on the planet and rarely take things serious. So, dont lump me into what you think all Cancers are or should be.
And yes. I as a Cancer would know if he had lied to me. Know your Cancers. Dont assume. We just know. Most are lead by their hearts and dont want to believe it when they are lied to, but I would spot it in a hot second and call him on it. Try not putting me into some preconceived category you have of all Cancers.
I am just looking for facts about Virgos. From your point of view as a Virgo MAN. As a Virgo woman, who is obviously emotional as most Cancers I hear about....
You came into my post seemly bitter and venomous for some reason. That is not appreciated. If you have nothing to say without putting someone down, then say NOTHING. I may be new but disrespect is not tolerated.
So...let me get this. You abhor generalizations on sun signs but ask about Virgos. lol@ your overinflated "I can detect any lie" sense of self. No one can. Not all the time. And especially if feelings come into play..we're flawed to see what we want to see. Most of us anyways. But expecting integrity out of people who cheat..slim odds. That was my point.
I will say whatever I want to. lol@ disrespect is not tolerated. What are you going to do, smart ass?
FWIW, I like Cancers and Cancer chicks in general..we mesh well. Those I know don't go after married men though so yeah, I'm not lumping you with them at all.
Try the Virgo board..we have few Virgo Men but they post more frequently there.
Lawrd have mercy why are so many Cancer females koo koo cray cray! Cancer women can be very sweet but whoa just I dunno.
The guy is married. Why are you asking for advice on such an obvious situation.
Until he's divorced you are the other woman. You continue to say how you refuse to be the other woman but then on the other side of it you are entertaining this married man situation.
Then you go on the Virgo board asking for advice about a situation that only takes common sense to figure out.
He's married, point blank period, stop talking to a married man, get your own damn man, close your legs to married men.
The guy is married. Why are you asking for advice on such an obvious situation.
Until he's divorced you are the other woman. You continue to say how you refuse to be the other woman but then on the other side of it you are entertaining this married man situation.
Then you go on the Virgo board asking for advice about a situation that only takes common sense to figure out.
He's married, point blank period, stop talking to a married man, get your own damn man, close your legs to married men.
I have never gone after a married or taken man in anyways shape or form nor have I now. We are just friends but it is heading in a direction that has me uneasy. Which is why I am here now.
WTH?! So because I am texting him and we talk on the phone, I am fuc&in him now too? Nice!!!!!!!!!!!! And Im "cray cray"?! I am starting to this think not many on this site can give advice without being judgmental! OH wait..im talking to Virgos..silly me! LMAO! I was about to get annoyed but then I remembered these are Virgos Im talking to. My bad!!
No idea what I was thinking. Ill just read this now for sheets and giggles. 😆
besides I have already decided what I am going to do. But thank you for calling me crazy when you dont know me. Made my day.
No idea what I was thinking. Ill just read this now for sheets and giggles. 😆
besides I have already decided what I am going to do. But thank you for calling me crazy when you dont know me. Made my day.
*secretly gives tiki a virgo card*
Smart ass....I wasnt taking about her. lol You women on this site are a trip. /shrug Im trying to figure out how to read my chart..... :/ confusing
Its like trying to teach a 2 yr old how to put on pant..one leg per hole.....not 2 in one.
Would you want your husband (if you were married) text'n and talking on the phone to ANOTHER woman behind your back? Hell no
You got a nerve befriending a married man whose secretly attempting to cheat on his wife. You think your hands are clean but you are not just trying to be his friend, you're also attempting to figure out if he'll leave his wife so he can be with you.
How many times has he told you he's attempting to fix his marriage only to turn around and say he's leaving her under duress--pussy duress--he's attempting to get some vagina and he'll say anything.
Hell yeah you're going to be judged for doing what you're doing, passively cheating with a married man is beyond ratchet. If he cheats on his wife he'll cheat on you.
Take that ratchet ass BS behavior on another forum--say like Ashley Madison where all the loose morals, no value having cheaters reside.
You got a nerve befriending a married man whose secretly attempting to cheat on his wife. You think your hands are clean but you are not just trying to be his friend, you're also attempting to figure out if he'll leave his wife so he can be with you.
How many times has he told you he's attempting to fix his marriage only to turn around and say he's leaving her under duress--pussy duress--he's attempting to get some vagina and he'll say anything.
Hell yeah you're going to be judged for doing what you're doing, passively cheating with a married man is beyond ratchet. If he cheats on his wife he'll cheat on you.
Take that ratchet ass BS behavior on another forum--say like Ashley Madison where all the loose morals, no value having cheaters reside.
Posted by DamnataPosted by VirgoDragirlPosted by Damnata
There's a limit on this site about how much Cancer chicks can post. The last time it was unlimited a lot of people died from the constant whining.
LMAO ROFL hahahahahahaha
Thanks Damnata. That was a good laugh for me. I need it today.
IT IS TRUE!
Dude, remember when I posted those Sun/Moon descriptions on all the boards? I couldn't find them all and it bugged my Virgo self so I asked this awesome friend from the US and I will get the book in 2 weeks! I have to start with the crabcakes forum because I only found 5-6 for them and I need to post all of them 😄click to expand
😄 Can't wait to see these posts....
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Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
I just told him I knew and I refused to be the other woman....I deserve better than that.
And yet, this look like the actions and statements of the "other woman"
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
He is a public figure very much in the spot light with his career. I have to be very careful here.
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
I just need advice here guys. I know its easy to say oh hes married and he wont leave her while Ive seen in some Virgo cases this is true where in some, they do leave, they just have to build up to it.
As well as this:
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
We are a site together. A sex site that lets us explore what each other likes sexually.
and you made a thread asking advice about a married man, not your boyfriend or your husband. As for this:
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
He was yet to lie to me....
His first lie:
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
... I deserve better than that. He agreed and told me hed never put me in that position. That I did deserve better than that.
but did this:
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
We did nothing for the week he was there except he kissed me... We text for about a month then he disappeared.... I text him to see how he was doing and he called me. He told me he had to try to work on his marriage.
Without the mention of being married prior to these events. Oh yes, because:
Posted by CrabbyBullbaby
He doesnt volunteer info....
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Unless you as a direct question of course. Hmph.
Crabby, the only advice you are going to get and should get is to stop pursuing a married man.
I know how we Crabs like to obsess but there are other men, single men looking for you.
This very minute.
So utilize this time to clear your head and heart of this obsession and find the right AVAILABLE guy for you.
I know how we Crabs like to obsess but there are other men, single men looking for you.
This very minute.
So utilize this time to clear your head and heart of this obsession and find the right AVAILABLE guy for you.
Not to derail this thread but I too am a Cancer Taurus Moon and guy who asked me out recently is a Virgo Capricorn Moon. We have great conversations and he's a sweetie pie. He's single though thank goodness. I made sure of that before going on a date.
But if I find out any of chicks are on the board I'm out. I don't mess with that drama bs.
But if I find out any of chicks are on the board I'm out. I don't mess with that drama bs.
Was he not wearing his ring when you worked together? Anyway the moment you knew he was married was when you should have ended all contact. You're playing in another woman's sand box, you're validating the ego of a married pig and are settling for crumbs. That you have no shame over the fire you're playing with and are actually coming here for advice to win a MARRIED man speaks volumes about your character. You're the kind of woman other women avoid and for good reason.
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Heres the story
We meet 3 yrs ago at my job when he came into town for work. It was instant attraction on both sides. Cancers and Virgos attract on that scale.
We did nothing for the week he was there except he kissed me on the back patio of my job. I was leaving town within the week to take a new job in a new state and he left town. We text for about a month then he disappeared. Typical Virgo. This was in Aug. I text him to see how he was doing and he called me. He told me he had to try to work on his marriage. I could hear it in his voice how bad he wanted his family back together. Again, typical Virgo. I told him I wished him the best of luck and we went our different ways. This was in Dec.
Nothing for 6 months. I actually had thought his marriage was fix. I get a text from him out of the blue. We started chatting again. Thinking this was a sign that his marriage had indeed failed, we started texting every day. Then I found out he was still married. I never asked him about it or confronted him about it. I just told him I knew and I refused to be the other woman. I stopped all contact with him. That was Aug of last year.
Then I get a random text from him at Christmas but never respond back...until last month. I just wanted to see how he was. Weve started chatting again. I asked him if he was still with his wife and he said yes. I asked him What do you want from me? He told me he wanted us to pick up where we had left off the year before. That "we had been so close". I told him I refuse to be the other woman. I deserve better than that. He agreed and told me hed never put me in that position. That I did deserve better than that. So I asked what was going on with his marriage then. He stated, Im working on that. I asked him point blank if he was leaving her, he said yes.
He is a public figure very much in the spot light with his career. I have to be very careful here. He just got his career back on track after his wife threw him under the bus on a very public level. But because he has 3 kids with her, he has tried to keep them together. She is a Gemini. Not the best of matches.
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