Cancer with strong, yet strange feelings for Scorp

I'm a Cancer and for some odd reason, I've felt a very very powerful attraction toward a Scorp female. I mean, it's crazy. Crazy to a point that even when I think I'm crazy, I'm somehow feeling that were destined to be together, and even someday have children - kinda odd, yes. Odd for the fact that 1.) She has a boyfriend, 2.)She doesn't know completely know who I am and 3.) She only barely knew and we live away from each other.

Lol, I don't wanna sound all emotional and what not, but my feelings for her are beyond extreme and normally, I don't have feelings this extreme. (Especially for highly sexually appealing girls)

Again, for some odd reason, I feel a strong need to be frank and im her about my feelings, even though there's a good chance she might be really really pissed off about an incident that happened through im.

Being that I'm a mysterious Cancer, she might not understand me all to well and will misinterpret things for what they are not meant to be. Even worse, I live away from her so I can't directly communicate unless I travel there.

So as a somewhat evolved Cancer, I've come to ask a few questions:

If you felt as strongly as I did about a relationship with her, how would go about telling her your feelings? Even though she's in a relationship and is prolly pissed at me, do you think she'd be surprised to find this out? Do you think she'd care?

If telling her through im is a bad idea, do you think I should risk traveling to meet her? I mean, it's not like haven't live there before or anything, I just have weird feelings about going back. (It was ghetto)

Last question:
How do Scorp women choose their men? If they are already in a relationship, what are the chances that they might become strongly attracted to someone else? If she happens to be pissed at me, what are the chances that a direct appearance and good personality will change their heart?

Thanks in advance! Your help is muchly appreciated.

I don't think Scorpio women will cheat on their partner if they are in love. If they aren't, you might have every chance..We usually choose someone who isn't attached...Don't like breaking up happy homes.

Direct is good. She will just have to deal with it then..as long as your prepared for it too..whatever it is that your confronting her about.

A scorpio will understand you almost completely......but as others have said, if a scorp is in love and getting their needs met where they are you won't exist. If they are not getting those needs met, you may have a chance to fill that space but I'd stay away from people who are in relationships no matter what is going on...even if its bad, the face that they are there says something, and messing with that can be DANGEROUS.....and if she's with a Scorp or Cancer man...you might get physically hurt in the middle of it all....they'll have a connection deep enough (almost addicted to each other) to literally go crazy over infidelity.