Short story: I was going out for a month with a male who had his moon in leo.
?? I was worried when I he would start saying I don't listen. Because conversations involve two people. ?? Our first fight. I asked him several times if he really wanted to come out. He would change his mind several times. Then came out, annoyed cause he couldn't drive my car. Even though he had previously said he could. (it's a newer model) ?? The other was after he let some of my friends came over. I asked him several times if it was okay. Later it turns out it wasn't. He brought it up several times, so I asked him why did he not say no, if it was going to bother him so much?
I broke it off after valentines day. While I understand what he was doing seemed right to him, by breaking of his previous relationships. I got insanely jealous. Namely because the first thing I got was, "hi i'm meeting up with my ex today, hope your day is going well." So I cut it off. The problem was here, while it didn't mean much to him, I know for most females it does. This is what troubled me the most, because his ex was saying she was pregnant with his baby. When I spoke to him on the phone, I asked him, did she have any proof? He then proceeded to defend her, blew in blinding rage. I answered to yes I'ld rather be his ex, when he said I could go join the ex's, and hung up.
The problem is from most of the stuff I read about leo's understand this fixed nature. The thing is we were only going out for a month. It wasn't enough to even form a proper connection. I was getting insulting messages. I was sick for 2 weeks with the cold and still working. When I had to call up sick friday night, because I could barely handle working. Let alone him coming into work and starting a scene. I made a deal that I would leave work after wrapping up my ties. (he lived in the area) I was currently floor manager, So I couldn't just quit.
He kept coming into my work place, and when we first broke up, I said to him the best thing to do would be to not see each other for a month or so. till we both get over it. He didn't listen to this and kept coming in my work place. My last day he came into work, I was a waitress and being the only person on front of house, during the day. He was standing there trying to talk to me while I was working. While I had about 6 or 7 seven tables. While I'm also getting messages, like I love you so much, and then when I didn't reply, I was a cold bitch slut, watch out for your car, etc.. Anyway I said I would leave my work, Because I'm really not interested in this confrontation, It was a month relation and we weren't compatible. To the point a few weeks ago, he was saying I can't go back to my previous work place (This is after I've left), the week after, he's threatening to show up my place.
Can somebody please explain to me what on earth is going on?
I have a taurus sun and a capricorn moon. This stuff is way to much. We were not compatible, to some degree at the beginning we were. Perhaps this is because I have Aries in Acendent. I didn't want to sit down and talk, because the messages I was getting soon after I broke up with him, where quite aggressive. The other stories I've heard about leo's breaking it off, they stop contact straight away.
It's also disconcerting because my old work place, people there are getting fed up with him/me thing. He keeps coming into my old work place, or standing out the front, across the road. I had to tell my partner now, who's the chef at the cafe, to call the cops if he does anything. The last Message I??ve said, is if he takes it further I??ll get the cops involved. Because the threats were quite serious. Although I actually don't think he cares about the police.
The thing is, for me it's normal to stop a relationship if it's not working: If we fight and it's not resolved. I didn't do it to be mean or cold. I did it because when I was talking to some guy, at work, he was telling me he'ld been in a relationship for 7 years, and he'd just found out his wife had been cheating on him. He was absolutely devastated.
The thing being his relationship with me, was not good, because emotionally we weren't able to satisfy each other. In the long run it would be a bad thing for us both to feel regretful for the relationship.
I was wondering If this is the case when you break it off with them?
I was going out for a month with a male who had his moon in leo.
?? I was worried when I he would start saying I don't listen. Because conversations involve two people.
?? Our first fight. I asked him several times if he really wanted to come out. He would change his mind several times. Then came out, annoyed cause he couldn't drive my car. Even though he had previously said he could. (it's a newer model)
?? The other was after he let some of my friends came over. I asked him several times if it was okay. Later it turns out it wasn't. He brought it up several times, so I asked him why did he not say no, if it was going to bother him so much?
I broke it off after valentines day. While I understand what he was doing seemed right to him, by breaking of his previous relationships. I got insanely jealous.
Namely because the first thing I got was, "hi i'm meeting up with my ex today, hope your day is going well."
So I cut it off. The problem was here, while it didn't mean much to him, I know for most females it does. This is what troubled me the most, because his ex was saying she was pregnant with his baby.
When I spoke to him on the phone, I asked him, did she have any proof? He then proceeded to defend her, blew in blinding rage. I answered to yes I'ld rather be his ex, when he said I could go join the ex's, and hung up.
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