Cap sun Aries moon..umm help

I currently have many Capricorns around me including one i am interested in. i see the definite mold of character, but this one that i am just nuts about has an Aries moon, which in the past has not served me well. My last romance was with a Taurus with an Aries moon and Scorpio rising. AAAHHHHH!
From what i am witnessing the Aries moon adds a great deal of vanity and selfishness that i don't understand and therefore can activate my stinger, which i try to avoid. my moon is in Gemini which makes me incredibly social even at times when i would just like to be alone. The Cap and I keep running into each other all over town, we sit and talk about topics that mean something to both of us, but as soon as another female comes into the frame, all is lost. When we are seen together we are often referred to as "a star couple" based on our looks, aloofness, whatever. If anyone has any input on this Aries moon, (also trine Jupiter in Leo) please advise. I don't want the stinger to come out, and the only way to prevent this is to understand.

Hi Scorpiogemini ... i have an aries moon, and while this sign is known for being self-centered and at times selfish, i really think it depends on the individual. So, your new Cap with Aries moon, has a wondering eye then? Is that what the issue is? My experience with Capricorns is sometimes they don't realize someone is interested in them unless it is made obvious to them. Maybe he doesn't realize the depth of your interest in him. His Aries Moon and your Gemini Moon should be compatible.

If you provide more details, possibly i can add some insight to the Aries Moon. Sorry i couldn't help more.

I'm not sure there are any issues. I'm not even sure I care at this point. It seems we get along like bread n jam until one of us looks too long at the other, revealing an obvious interest, then SMACK!, the masks go on. Every time! It's getting old. I just recently gave him my number and then threw it out of my mind. All of it. This is complicated shit, and I'm not sure if I can even handle it (or want to for that matter). Thank you for your reply, I'll keep you posted.