Capricorn + Cancer

I am a Capricorn woman who has been married to a Cancer man for 18 years. Rather me sit here and tell some of the negative traits which we all have. I will share with you reasons why things seem to work out for us. Success against all odds is a general charateristic of myself. That includes relationships, career and health. My goal is to be at peace most of the time, I don't like toxic energy. I try to neutralize it with analization of the issue so we can come to some resolve. This relationship requires alot of energy from me. Cancers need affirmation of Love constantly. You must be careful with them, they are very fragile. This is hard for me as a woman because, I am not a fragile person. Understanding that he is different than me and knowing that some of his differences are needed are key. Having a person that is just like me would be boring because there would be no element of suprise or change. Who wants a life were you know what to expect all the time (well I kinda do like that for certain things.)? I pray alot asking for God to help me stay focused and I look at what is real in relationships. We can all strive for perfection...having it is another story. Two good people may not be good at all things together, but are not good at anything apart.

Capricorn, male or female, is likely to be involved in a career which will take most of his/her time and attention. Cancer must prepare to accept the excess time that is given to this career, as Capricorn will naturally expect it. Cancer is the type that demands a lot of attention, and if he/she does not get it they are likely to pout for days. Pouting will not even be noticed by Capricorn as he/she is too busy planning ahead on his/her career performance.

Since Capricorn is so absorbed in his/her own affairs, Cancer will come to regard his/her mate as a crashing bore. Capricorn, in turn, feels that Cancer should put some of that sensitive, emotional instincts to work in his/her own career, thus making Cancer less dependent on him/her, emotionally as well as financially.

Without good communication this relationship between Capricorn and Cancer will become dead.These are opposite signs in the zodiac. Complementary and also a competitive relationship. Ambitious and success are the keynote. The sensitive Cancer will feel hurt or neglected. Cancer admires and benefits from Capricorn's sense of duty and responsibility but Capricorn sometime lacks the sentiments, warmth and loving care, which is very important to Cancer. Although they're astrological opposites, these two have lots in common.Those gorgeous old goats are tremendous traditionalists, imbued with a strong sense of history.
There could be problems in paradise even for this pair, if the Capricorn is so steeped in Victorian morals and standards that they can never let themselves go .If these sensitive swains want their relationship to work, they've got to form their very own mutual admiration society.Both of them need reams of reassurance, otherwise the Cancerian may worry themselves sick and the Capricorn will develop an incredible inferiority complex and become a grouchy old goat. They've both got to talk about their insecurities. What they both want, from their lives as well as their loves, is a strong sense of security and they'll build a lovely life.

CANCER ROOSTER: An emotional rooster, a cancer rooster, when feeling insecure, can be quite depressing to be around. They are often vain and egotistical and can be easily swayed by the opinions or flattery of those they admire.
CAPRICORN PIG: Negative alert! If not careful, these types of personalities can be quite overbearing and authoritarian, even with loved ones. They are, however, loyal and protective of their family and strive to succeed and impress the world.

Yikes!

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This is very different.