Capricorn Male and Silence

I posted the following on the Capricorn message board but I would like to receive a variety of responses to my situation......


Okay, I know you all have heard the same saga before but I need to express what I am going through right now with a cap male.

Here goes..... we have been friends for over three years and this year we started to flirt with one another and share certain thoughts. Well, I suggested that we move the friendship to a new level to see if we have what it takes for the long haul. NOT marriage just dating/lovers. Well, it has been one day and he has not responded.

How long should I wait? I have a feeling that he will not respond but then again he has really suprised me. I'm hoping that he will not just leave it at dead silence. There is a part of me that wants him to say "NO" so I can move on with my life and lose the hope. Then there is a part of me that wants to see if we have a chance for a future. Either way, I will be benefit.

I want to give adequate time to deliberate but I am still anxious. What do you think about this?

"i personally liked your guts, he is real dumb @ $ $ if he lets you go"

Thanks archer, that was sweet of you. But YES, I got my answer on yesterday. He said yes to becoming more than friends. So now we take it one day at a time, which is the best way to go and just have fun and enjoy it.

Anyway, I was surprised he responded and responded to quickly (one day). When we first started being friends, it would take him 1-2 weeks to decided on anything.

Thank you for asking.

Sounds like an evolved Cappy. Good for you...