Come forth the Aquarian behavioural interprepter!

Ok, I've done a bit of reading on this board and there is definitely a pattern to the aquarian behaviour, and I got a cracker of a story about a man who fits the profile. Ok, first things first, I'm a gemini sun libra moon and he is an aquarian sun and gemini moon. Airy fairy or what!!!!! We got not chance of getting our stories straight with eachother.

We met about 5 months ago through a mutual friend, had this crazy weekend with couple of friends - no naughty stuff just good laughs. I called him a week or so later and since then we have been catching up once a week or so (he lives about an hours drive away). I definitely pursued him in the first instance, sexually. We've gotten to know eachother really well and have an initmate relationship when we are together. We get on like best mates, totally straight up and down with eachother. Typical gemini me, likes the boy but would never put it right out there to him, but my actions definitely would display attraction, eventhough my words sometimes contradict. When we first met we kinda both did the 'not going to be a relationship' thing. We talk about everything, including all of his rendevous with other women, none of which he seems to bother with for too long. Very fickle, like implies he is looking for the one but nobody fits the bill. I think he is great and we have never argued about a single thing. Anyway there is this other woman at the moment - he said he been spending a little time with her, she wants relationship, he not sure, she a bit weird, but goodlooking. He said he tends to go for women who have children already - he only 30 and already has two to two different girls!!! I have none, unmarried, no baggage etc. He always takes my calls, rings me every few days, compliments me with things such as attractive, good in bed, give him the best h% #d.!!! He is very attractive and has no problem picking up women. I think he finds me attractive physically. But the main focus he seems to push is our friendship and that we will be 'friends for ever'. He is going through a bit of a downer period, work slow for him, confused about his single dad with two kids situation, what am I doing with my life type stuff. So my question is, why then if we are such great mates, attracted to eachother bla bla bla, is there no basis for a relationship on his part. Mind you I have never said I wanted one in so many words but I just feel like he doesn't even consider me as girlfriend material. contd below::

Cut me off mid way through - yes, contd:

My life pretty on track career wise, professional, big money, flash car, etc. Are aquarians 'scared' of successful women? Would he think he has nothing to offer me? He dropped a few comments like 'wish i was like you,', 'nothing to offer you' He has no money, house etc. To him I probably have it all. But could this be a problem? And what about these other women? He tells me eveything about them and I am sure they don't know he is seeing me. Who is he lying to? Who is he trying to protect here? Them, it seems to me. Anyway, I kinda wanted a bit of insight as to what to do from here. When he talks about the others - I play it so cool, and say its fine etc. But its not and I wanta know if perhaps I mean more to him? I seem to outlast the others at least!!!!
Should I just keep on the way I am, give him his space, freedom, other girls etc?

Insight please - i think I'm in love for the first time in my life!!!!!!