We hear about couples with really good compatibility charts, but what about couples that have so many negative aspects that it seems like the phrase "the stars don't always align" comes into play? OR the charts are practically PERFECT, but never really took off into anything special?
I myself dated two people where our charts were so good, we only had two negative aspects in an entire chart full of love and relationship supporting aspects. The negatives weren't even squares! They were opposing and posed more as challenges rather than negative. BUT both ended without much happening. In my first one we were really awkward in person and never really got off well. The other did go pretty good for a few months, but eventually he left me for someone else.
Anyone want to show your stories of having hit it off well with largely incomp. charts, or perfect charts that didn't seem so in person?
I've always gotten along better with people who have incompatible charts with mine. The ones that I've had good compatibility with, not much happened beyond friendship. I've actually had the highest chart compatibility (so far) with the guy who is now my stalker/obsessor. So....I'd have to say, I'd take negative aspects over the good ones. At least, that has always worked best for me.
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I myself dated two people where our charts were so good, we only had two negative aspects in an entire chart full of love and relationship supporting aspects. The negatives weren't even squares! They were opposing and posed more as challenges rather than negative. BUT both ended without much happening. In my first one we were really awkward in person and never really got off well. The other did go pretty good for a few months, but eventually he left me for someone else.
Anyone want to show your stories of having hit it off well with largely incomp. charts, or perfect charts that didn't seem so in person?