I am a scorpio woman who has been hanging out with/ going out to dinner with this guy for about 3 months. At first I thought he was really boring because he didn't talk a lot, and he didn't really try to flirt or make any moves on me so I wasn't sure if he was interested in me, but he would follow traditional date etiquette (open doors, pay for the meal, walk me home). Sometimes we would just hang out and have really deep discussions about our interests, politics, philosophy,the stock market ( he's a business major), and our hobbies. He would always insist that we spend more time with each other afterwards, which was surprising because we're two very different people (he's a privileged, sheltered, white frat boy, and I'm a quirky, eclectic, artsy black girl). He claims that he enjoys my company because I'm refreshing and I don't really judge him for his faults. I thought he was just being friendly. On a friday night, 2 weeks ago, I hung out with him at his apartment. We listened to music, drank moscato, and discussed life and our plans for the future. I got pretty tipsy and decided that it would be in my best interest to spend the night. He insisted that I slip into one of his extra shirts before going to bed, and I did. As soon as I got kinda comfy in his bed he told me he had something to show me. He led me to the window in his living room to show me an incredible view of the city skyline, and then proceeded to kiss me. We went back to his room, he threw on a special playlist, we hopped in bed, proceeded to sing Bound 2 by Kanye West together and cuddle. Then we made out. He managed to finger me to an intense orgasm multiple times. I did not return the favor, and he didn't ask me to. I left at 7am. He tried to persuade me to sleep in with him until 11 am. I slipped into my own clothes, but when I took off his shirt he was a little hurt and insisted that I keep it. Two days later I texted him asked him what happened on Friday night, and he simply said that we " hung out". I told him that felt a lot of lines were blurred and that boundaries needed to be established in order to prevent chaos. He basically doesn't want to categorize the nature of our relationship because he wants it to be open to the highest degree of comfort. Can anyone explain what is going on? I'm very confused. Since then he hasn't been more distant than usual, and he's tried to hang out with me whenever he could "assign energy" towards that.
