Drunk text messages - any Sagg input also :)

I would like some input here 🙂

If any of you read my post about the ex-navy Sag guy and how I was so worried I'd never see/hear from him again...well I have done both. I've seen him once while he was in town for his birthday & we talked while we were both out with friends. We've kept in touch here & there, just friendly short conversations. He broke up with me end of Oct. & he's still 3 states away.

My concern NOW is drunk text messages. He seems to be doing it a little more lately. Last weekend he actually confessed to me he wanted to try to make it here & to see me soon, & that he was sorry for how things worked out...is this code for "booty call in the making". Maybe he's buttering me up before he visits thinking he's going to get lucky??

He tried the drunk texting last night (again), but this time I wasn't having it. so I told him I'd appreciate it if he'd talk to me when he's actually sober so I wouldn't have to figure out whats truth.

Need some perspective here! especially from a Sag 🙂
Thanks!

Ahh... sagg man, sweet talker, charming, happy soul with good taste of humor....

well if you want to keep a sagg man, set him free, allow him to have his freedom, and do not allow him to get you for granted ever ever. The words serious relationships and marriage suffocate them.

He can so easily be manipulated, talk to him with compliments, sweet words BUT do it with honest heart... if he sense that you dont mean what you say, he wont burn down your house but he will fly away.

After the sweet talk and compliments, dont give him much attention for the next few days, let him feel he is in an adventure movie that needs to keep chasing you.

I LOVE sagg men, but it is a complete no no for me. I am a virgo and no way i could stand his pretty women allergies, and i am so clear with them, but hey they keep coming back, they like that we are not easy.

My ex fianc? was a Sag. Being a Sag myself we meshed very well until he started "truth" speaking to me while drinking. Most men have balls of gold when they are drinking. They are more open & honest.
In my case the ex Sag was brutally honest (Sag trait in general) & his words were not so nice & cruel. We didn't mesh so well anymore.
Take my point into consideration. 1. Your Sag is probably being honest in his drunken texts & 2. He's being sincere & kind with his words.
If it was me I'd believe him. Being a woman though we deserve more than being a FWB or a BC. Don't fall for his lines until he can say them sober and to your face! You made the right call by telling him to talk to you sober. If he can say the same words to you sober and also back up those words with action, take it to heart! Good luck! 🙂

Thank you ladies for your input 🙂 I appreciate it.

Men in general are just the most frustrating species...but we keep going back for more lol

Maybe it's a little of both