Falling for a Scorp

So I don't know how else to deal with this so maybe one of you guys can help.. My best friend is a scorpio male and we've been friends for a good while now. He admits all the time that I know him better than anybody and and he really cares about me. Of course we made a wrong turn and began fooling around (not full sex though). It really did complicate things as we remained friends so he would still talk to other girls and vise versa. It caused alot of jealousy to enter our friendship mainly on my part because he never wants to admit his feelings. Anytime anybody or myself would bring up a relationship or just us being more than friends he would always say that he didnt want to because he didnt want things to end badly and us not have a friendship anymore, which I completely understood. But one night we slept together and I told him that I couldnt continue to do this to myself because I loved him more than a friend but he said he felt the same way about me. He said he realized that he loved me too. I had to leave for school a few days later so we kinda left off there, but one day we were messaging eachother and he kept telling me that I was going to replace him because he left for Brazil for a year and I told him I could never replace him because I was inlove with him, something I thought he already knew but he said he didnt. Then he started telling me all this stuff about me being perfect for him but it was the wrong time. Being the cancer that I am I retreated into my shell and told him all that wasnt what I wanted I just wanted to get it off my chest and tried to change the subject. I really do have a problem with rejection. So we continue to skype and message eachother talking about who loves eachother more and things like that. Then things just stop. We stop talking and never contacted me and it really hurt my feelings. Then one day he makes a status saying " you watched how I treated all them, why would you put yourself in there shoes?" clearly talking about me. Now he's back to the whole "we need to stay friends" thing. And I just dont understand. There so much that I held back from him to keep our relationship good for him and I just feel like I cant let this one slide. I feel like he keeps manipulating me to keep me where he wants and I dont know how to stop it. Does he really care or does he just want to keep me hanging around?

Me: Sun- Cancer
Moon- Aquarius
Rising- Libra
Venus- Gemini

Him: Sun- Scorpio
Moon- Virgo
Rising- Leo
Venus-Ca

Its vey difficult to go through the wall-of-text .Next time, please divide them into suitable paras

Its a typical problem of confusion in the teenage years .
Btw whats his mars sign ?I wanna know whether its compatible with your venus/moon placement

Scorps are not gods .Dont cry over spilled milk .
First of all ask yourself ,is it fair to expect somethings from reality ?Or, for that matter ,is it fair to expect somethings from someone ?

It's very upsetting .. the amount of people who have no desire to control their path, and so await the direction of another person.

If you wait on another to approve of your relationship for you, so you can live it happily, then you are in for a rude awakening. The only person who can approve and direction you is you.

YOu hang in the balance for his decision ... as if you aren't worthy of making one for you.


Makes me nearly ill.



You actually have a choice, and it's not all left up to the man to decide whether you're good enough ... unfortunately, you are not alone and by looking in just dxp alone, it's obvious that women wait on the man to approve of them, for them.

Do yourself a favor and move on. Do not overthink this or hope that one day he will come around. It is a safer bet that he will not. I hate to say this really I do, but in my experience when a person is not ready nothing will ever make them feel that way. And if the person keeps saying friend friend and then tries to jump your bones, that is not a friend that is a fwb. And with FWB one person usually gets hurt really really badly. Don't let yourself get hurt more than you do now. Many, not all, but many scorp men can not do well with Cancer females or many others for that matter because they never know what they have till it is gone, and even when it is gone they never realize it or do for a short time and then just ignore it,


If you are going to be friends just keep it at that, do not mention how you love him or your feelings other than friendship. You will only give him a bigger head and more incentive and ways to manipulate you and your emotions.

"You actually have a choice, and it's not all left up to the man to decide whether you're good enough ... unfortunately, you are not alone and by looking in just dxp alone, it's obvious that women wait on the man to approve of them, for them."

i have to say it makes me kind of nauseous too. it's all...'what is he thinking', 'what is he feeling', when it should be what do I think?, what do I feel? unfortunately, men find this attitude to be 'selfish' which is always a case of the pot calling the kettle black, but as far as i'm concerned, when you first meet someone, it's more about you than it is them.