Has anyone ever been bullied and did it change you?

Watched a doc on columbine shooters and they were severely bullied anyone whose ever been bullied has felt that kind of rage they felt.

Posted by enfant_terrible

Lol funny but in an upperclass white dominant school social class is everything. It's prison for white ppl

Lol I think everyone has been picked on to some degree...

I have.. it made me stronger, meaner, and more compassionate..

Posted by Cancan26
Lol I think everyone has been picked on to some degree...

I have.. it made me stronger, meaner, and more compassionate..

Same here I don't like that it made me meaner tho. I used to love my pure heart

Posted by Shadowcat

Posted by Stensco21
Watched a doc on columbine shooters and they were severely bullied anyone whose ever been bullied has felt that kind of rage they felt.

They weren't bullied. That was a myth spread by the mainstream media. Not attacking you, just clarifying.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/04/20/columbine.myths/



But to answer your question, it made me very angry and I am now very critical of how schools deal with bullying.

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Made me angry too like I thot about doing major harm and I saw a video proving they were bullied. Pushed shoved embarrassed on a reg basis. Policies won't stop bullying. It has to be ballsy ppl taking up for ppl and fighting for weaker ppl. One reason I was a target for bullying because I wouldn't sit back and watch and could be just as mean and eventually would wear them down still enraged me

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Posted by Stensco21
Watched a doc on columbine shooters and they were severely bullied anyone whose ever been bullied has felt that kind of rage they felt.

They weren't bullied. That was a myth spread by the mainstream media. Not attacking you, just clarifying.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/04/20/columbine.myths/



But to answer your question, it made me very angry and I am now very critical of how schools deal with bullying.

Made me angry too like I thot about doing major harm and I saw a video proving they were bullied. Pushed shoved embarrassed on a reg basis. Policies won't stop bullying. It has to be ballsy ppl taking up for ppl and fighting for weaker ppl. One reason I was a target for bullying because I wouldn't sit back and watch and could be just as mean and eventually would wear them down still enraged me

What is the name of the documentary?

Btw you're right, policies aren't enough.

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I'll have to find it. There's a clip prb on YouTube where the jocks would shove them and mock them and anyone whose had this happen to them knows the rage and humiliation you feel especially being outnumbered and it's you against the whole football team.

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Posted by Cancan26
Lol I think everyone has been picked on to some degree...

I have.. it made me stronger, meaner, and more compassionate..

Same here I don't like that it made me meaner tho. I used to love my pure heart

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Me too!!

Maybe it's our Scorpio moon?

I hate being mean too... But I don't hold back on assholes...

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Posted by Stensco21
Watched a doc on columbine shooters and they were severely bullied anyone whose ever been bullied has felt that kind of rage they felt.

They weren't bullied. That was a myth spread by the mainstream media. Not attacking you, just clarifying.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/04/20/columbine.myths/



But to answer your question, it made me very angry and I am now very critical of how schools deal with bullying.

Made me angry too like I thot about doing major harm and I saw a video proving they were bullied. Pushed shoved embarrassed on a reg basis. Policies won't stop bullying. It has to be ballsy ppl taking up for ppl and fighting for weaker ppl. One reason I was a target for bullying because I wouldn't sit back and watch and could be just as mean and eventually would wear them down still enraged me

What is the name of the documentary?

Btw you're right, policies aren't enough.

I'll have to find it. There's a clip prb on YouTube where the jocks would shove them and mock them and anyone whose had this happen to them knows the rage and humiliation you feel especially being outnumbered and it's you against the whole football team.

Is it bowlimg for columbine?

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It's the one told from his mother's perspective of how he started withdrawing and becoming angry and it had to do w being outcastes

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Posted by Cancan26
Lol I think everyone has been picked on to some degree...

I have.. it made me stronger, meaner, and more compassionate..

Same here I don't like that it made me meaner tho. I used to love my pure heart

Me too!!

Maybe it's our Scorpio moon?

I hate being mean too... But I don't hold back on assholes...

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Maybe! Me either I'll flip real fast. I can be straight up scary

Posted by TheTinMan
for doing what he did that is.

I don't either

I was an easy target. Tall, fat, always the tallest in my class. It made me grow thicker skin thanks to my father. They talked about me, I talked about them back. Until they wanted to fight. I wasn't a fighter, never was. I was an eater and a lover. So I offered food. From then on, i was the girl that had the cool snacks. I was very quiet because I was mostly insecure about my height and weight. I think that was the trigger for people to mess with me.

Still a lot self conscious about my height. From what I see with my eyes, the tall girls get passed up. But hey...

I still have all the cool snacks?

Posted by tooba
I had been. School and home, but it's something I hardly remember. It did make me a vicious person. By high school people dared not to tamper with my emotions. Even guys. I wrestled this one and pinned his ass down twice; never called me a weak skinny girl again... Messing with someone who has pent up anger and works out like a beast is not a wise move. Dude was bigger/broader than me too, so... Yeah I was a horribly angry person... Regardless I hold back a lot, though, and over time I learned to hold my tongue and certain words back, let alone my hands.

But at the same time it really softens you up in the sense that you feel others' pains from any kind of injustice more severely, and you always stand up for the weaker person. And you never ever think to be unfair to someone else. That's the positive side to it.

I may or may not have some kinds of issues. And unfortunately my last couple breakups did the worst kind of emotional damage to me because they in part did remind me of harsher times when I felt like I couldn't stand up for myself, couldn't be myself, which I've realized has caused me to become angered more easily as of late, but again, I choose to remain mindful of it. Just walk away from it to deal with those kinds of problems now.

I'm a mess!

I was bullied by my own mother! She was a witch but I got use to it. She scream tell me I'm a piece of shit. Hit me and move on and I was so used to it I just took it but from other peers it would enrage me!! I'm so tough now but it made me not as outgoing and kind of stoic