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evergreen89
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Thanks CocoKat for your kind words and advice.
A little UPDATE though, especially for all the HATERS out there, lmao. Still talk to him every single day, with him initiating mostly, but I do text him first occasionally, I also went on 4 dates with him, the third date we went cliff jumping and spent the whole day together, shared plenty of kisses which was very nice. We talked about going to the rodeo show this weekend, so I'm looking forward to that. Things are looking great with him, can't complain about anything as of now. Lol.
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Good for you Evergreen89. I sincerely hopes it works out for you! Dating can be scary and not everyone has our best interests at heart, I certainly have the emotional scars to prove it (as do many women I know), and its important to work on healing them so we are not relating from a place of pain or jadedness or making ourselves emotionally unavailable thru playing overly hard to get.

It sounds like you found the right pace for both you and your interest, being in a receptive position is attractive and very different from being overly hard to get.
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evergreen89
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I agree. I sorta get the feel of how he is now with the texting and planning things, so I no longer take that personal. He rarely plans anything, most of the time it's a spur of the moment, but since I put him in check with the whole asking me out only one day in advanced, he has gotten better now. I'm still keeping my options open at this point, you never know, I might see something in him I don't like. But for now, I like how things are, and im just going with the flow.
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Thank you! I do have a question though, I read about Taurus men and in general they all say that Taurus men can be boring, and very routine. However this guy is the complete opposite. Why is that? I used to date a Capricorn and everything I read about Cappie was spot on with that guy, now with this Taurus I haven't found anything about his zodiac sign to be true, yet.
I'm betting it's the Gemini Venus, and yes they are awful at planning ahead! My ex was like that a lot. They are fun though...they are very playful and love to banter. I'm glad things are going in the right direction with you two 🙂