HELP

So I posted this a week ago and got some great responses so i wanted to dive in a little deeper so maybe you could point more out to me..he is actually a Gem/tau cusper...his Bday is may21 any way here it goes..

We met 4 years ago in June, he had broke it off with a girl that he really did love met another girl a month later and me a month later, I think in the beginning my role was to piss her off by sleeping with me, I did not realize this till earlier this year however we build a friendship and he commits to her in January of 2011 they are broken up by October 2012 August 2012 we rekindle friendship no sex strictly friends. He tells me I have been a topic of their relationship for awhile..whatever blah blah We have a mutual friend that tells me his girlfriend had threesome, I tell him a couple months after we rekindle our friendship..they are on the verge of breaking up..okay so months later we start sleeping together still having our Awesome friendship very open and he felt like he could tell me anything as I could tell him anything...all of a sudden he changed become distant became secretive...i changed as well..distant like he just felt like he couldn't tell me things because of my reaction even though not big i think he could hear the emotion in my voice I am a virgo/libra...anyway so we are here today..emotions crazy well they were a week ago for me we have been fighting off and on..he gets so jealous and finicky over little things, like me telling him no, or him thinking I don't want him to be around my kids..I pulled back from physical interaction with him, today was the first time I called in a week. We have not seen each other in almost 2 weeks, because I refuse I just say I am busy or make up another excuse not because I don't want to see him I just know that when I do all those same feelings will come back and I will have a hard time leaving him like I always do..

So here is the part that I need help with..a couple months ago he started saying things like I am glad you slept over because I get to watch you sleep, and he cares about me, doesn't say alot of things that he wanted to because he doesn't want to lead me on..talks to his therapist about me. says that ima move on before he gets a chance with me and the next man will be lucky..I believed him when he says these things because he is not a emotional guy, he has even cried in my lap for God Sake, he has told me he loved me once and it was at one of the many "ends" to our friendsh

Why do you allow someone like this around your kids? Why are you teaching your kids that your behavior is OK? Instead of worrying about this player and fighting in front of your kids, be a mother.

When you posted this on the Gemini board ..... you got responses telling you to move away from this guy, that you are worth more, that he isn't treating you right.

Since you made the thread again for more responses .... it becomes logical to assume that you didn't want to hear those responses so came here to try and get people to tell you what you want to hear.


I don't get women these days. You have no significant role in his life except as a cum bucket, and that is so acceptable to you, that not only do you chase him for more disrespect - you also expose children to this behavior, which in essence teaches them that it's acceptable to be a human blow up doll for a guy.

Posted by virgom

He tells me I have been a topic of their relationship for awhile..whatever blah blah

wtf


So, he tells you that, and your reaction is ... whatever?



wow .... just wow