Help! aeries - libra

Hi,

So I met this girl (the libra) who I am for the first time in my life absolutely crazy about..I have never had this kind of admiration towards a girl I went out with. I have always had a little competition in the background with most partners up until now and with her its completely different.

She is madly beautiful, we have GREAT communication (just broke up with a girl with whom it was usually hell to try and get anything across..), we have a great deal in common and our time together so far was no less than magical (yes, apparantly such a thing does exist). I hope im not simply blinded by infatuation but since im not 16 anymore (28) I suppose I would tell the difference.

The problem: as much as I am as realistic as one could get (engineer, dont believe in anything that isnt proven) I made the mistake of looking up Aeries man - Libra woman compatibility on sort of dare and the results were not promising.

Now, of course it really depends on the people involved and im not exactly a typical aeries to say the least but it worries me a little since some of the things written I could sort of see happening with us in the future (I am more blunt than her, for example).

SO - anyone here with experience/advise on making this kind of relationship work?

Thanks

Andrew

Aries* of course

Nice to hear, thanks!

So, two more dates so far..They were great *except* she pulled back from the goodbye kiss pretty fast both times..Now, not to brag but im a pretty good kisser and I dont have bad breath or anything..I really dont understand why she didnt let it flow a little more before cutting..Ideas?

Posted by aoe67
Nice to hear, thanks!

So, two more dates so far..They were great *except* she pulled back from the goodbye kiss pretty fast both times..Now, not to brag but im a pretty good kisser and I dont have bad breath or anything..I really dont understand why she didnt let it flow a little more before cutting..Ideas?

But the more pull and push creates more challenging efforts which may cause fun times in getting to know each other better. Become friends don't rush right in. Play, flirt, talk, established a foundation, or etc.

Thanks!

She is indeed quite passive and indecisive..I am not a full on Aries, I am a little calmer I suppose than is typical though I am straight forward and impatient at times. So far we are doing good, she actually did take some initiative since our last date (sent some texts on her own, called me a few times). So what ever im doing seems to be working..I hope that it will continue like this.

There's a Libra ( @LibraLovesHim ) here who is in a relationship with Aries man, hope she sees this thread 🙂

..Goodluck, it will work!! Don't worry.. I'll go into astrology? 🙂

Libra and Aries being opposite signs, will have to find a common ground to compromise.. then, it'll be a beautiful relationship where two complete one another.

But that is astrology, as two people in a relationship all you have to do is put sincere efforts in trying to understand one another, and trust one another. Best wishes 🙂

Hi aoe67!



I was kind of wondering if it was possible you could be my Aries until I caught your age, hes a few years older. PHEW! I have been seeing an Aries for a couple of months and its been beautiful! It feels very yin to yang. I will tell you my experience thus far...

I have been single for around 5 years, mostly out of choice and to work on myself despite having enough admirers not one had caught my attention until I met this man! First experience with an Aries too and cannot believe what i'd been missing.

How we met: At a brunch with mutual friends, I caught him trying to lock eyes with me and I eventually responded-there was alot of lingering looks held across the table with no actual talking-mutual attraction established.

He managed to get me alone and he told me more about himself than anyone has ever done, this may be what made me warm to him. He seemed very fearless, not at all guarded about personal details (unlike me)

That first day it was like I was with a long lost friend. We ended up back at his, me sat in his teeshirt n shorts munching takeaway food (no physical contact) By 3 am I decided to go home, soberness/reality set in and I just kind of felt like WTH is happening here, I felt overwhelmed!

The beginning was very shaky and it still kind of is, I will give you one word of advice-be upfront and dont confuse her based on your insecurities. Eg he tells me things like he gets a lil bothered, upset by male friends who I talk to but its just his trust issues kicking in-but on the same token tells me I am a free woman and allowed to speak to whomever I wish. My thoughts: you cannot have trust issues with someone you consider a free woman.

I hope your Libra is into you as much as you are her, if this is the case please dont play games or listen to your ego too much and it will be wonderful. I am currently apart from my Aries with another 3 weeks to go and we talk everyday. I cant wait to get back to him but this break was well needed, our short time has been very intense and all consuming with my main worry about him getting too used to seeing/being with me.

I wish you all the best and do message me anytime if you feel to!

Wow thanks!!!

Well I dont really play games..If I do its usually because my straight forwardness pushes some girls away and the little games prevent that..But totally not me.

I am also not the jealous type, I guess its an ego thing..

update

5th date was great!!

We saw some movies at her place..Again we had great communication and seem have a pretty similar mindset..She is the cutest thing...I sort of want to continue hugging her now heh (im back home).

Dont know her or her history well enough to determine how she sees this but it seems to be going well.

I had a long relationship with a sag before this..At first it was great but even then we were totally different and sooo wrong for each other when it came down to who we are. This seems completely different, Hope it works out..

One of my friends from work is a libra and her husband is an Aries. He adores her. I mean they have a great relationship from what I can see. They compliment each other well. They have two boys as well. He says really nice things about her when around us. And of course she's happy. 🙂

Another update -

date 5 (or, rather 6 maybe..depending on what counts as a date)

Went out to a nice restaurant..We had a pretty good time but like the other times we went out on a weekday she seemed preoccupied and again not too eager on kissing (last date we made out on the couch for at least 20-30 minutes until her roommate got back, I think she is sort of afraid of the bedroom thus far).

So on the one hand she is interested in dating and we are a pretty much perfect fit..On the other I really dont know what to do to get her more excited since she has like no experience and needs to be lead in a way but on the other hand she still has to be a little more easygoing even to be lead..

Ideas? (I thought of simply meeting at home a little more..to get more intimate..Im afraid it might die down otherwise).