Question for libras !

This topic was created in the Libra forum by InLoveWithALibra on Wednesday, October 12, 2016 and has 14 replies.

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@confusedlibra78
12 YearsLibra

Yes!! I tend to pull away from and give the silent treatment when I'm upset. Ultimately, I want that person to reach out and apologize but not too soon. I need time to be mad. Complicated? Yep! Lol!

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@LibraLovesHim
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Hell yes! Not for long though. Im used to a virgo-libra though who will fuck up and will actually silent treatment my silent treatment!? wtf is this! So in this case we dont talk for maybe 1 week max! LOL! DUMB AF.

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@confusedlibra78
12 YearsLibra

Posted by Libramiss

Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes!! I tend to pull away from and give the silent treatment when I'm upset. Ultimately, I want that person to reach out and apologize but not too soon. I need time to be mad. Complicated? Yep! Lol!

Depends on what they did and how upset I am but I tend to do this too. But I prefer them to not take too long to apologize well maybe just a little until I have calmed down. 😛

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There's a fine line between apologizing too soon and waiting too long. Good luck to others trying to find it —

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by dolluxe
Is this the Libra dude who was in a probation situation and you had to bail him out?

Why tell someone you don't care about them anymore when you still do?

Also, it sounds like he just wanted money and now that you served your purpose, he doesn't feel a need to talk to you anymore.

Move on. This is not a Libra thing. He's just a POS.

THAT'S why this silly bitch sounded familiar. She was asking the same shit about that guy then too.

...I seriously am beginning to despise some of these bitches who come here. So fucking pathetic, it's annoying. They're doing stupid, stupid shit and expect legitimate, CODDLING advice for their idiocy? Blegh.

Being naive to some dating things is one thing, but consistent poor decision making is something you either learn from or don't. If you don't then you can kindly shut the fuck up and suffer alone.

Go the fuck away you pathetic human beings. Zero tolerance. Zero.

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@dontwant2fitinn
10 Years

If you did nothing wrong do not apologize or commuicate with them when they are like this. In my opinion silent treatment is a form of mental abuse. If they care they will come around and have a conversarion like an adult.

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@Starry22
12 Years

I give the semi-silent treatment only when i am trying to come to terms with what is going on. Once that is done I will be back to my usual happy self. If however the problem is persistent despite several pleas I will ice you out. I do not think its different than most other normal people would do.

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@SaintsDetriot
9 Years

When I get angry I will actually tell you what went wrong and why I am angry. I played games in elementary school and I don't have time for games anymore. I believe we libras as we get older we evolve our traits. For me I don't care if someone doesn't like me bcuz I have been through stuff in my life that has changed so I can be more efficient in who I am and I love myself. I think there is a difference between a mature and immature libra and in order to evolve we have to go through tough situation in our life to better ourselves. Unfortunately everyone isn't going to like you and it's life. We do love bcuz it's in us to do but in these times we live in now love is just another four letter word. People don't believe in love anymore well not like they use too. People now place restrictions on what love is! Just my opinion and with my line of work I see just how evil people can be. So I live day by day and hope for a better tomorrow.

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@yyynm
10 Years

Posted by confusedlibra78
Yes!! I tend to pull away from and give the silent treatment when I'm upset. Ultimately, I want that person to reach out and apologize but not too soon. I need time to be mad. Complicated? Yep! Lol!

This is me to a T. And I hate when people ask why I was giving them the silent treatment and they look at me like I'm crazy. It makes sense to me why I do it that's what matters