How to get a Taurus guy back after breaking up?

So here is the problem.

I think I messed up and frankly I am not sure what to do so maybe some of you have some ideas for my way forward.

I am a Scorpio ( with ascendant in Sagittarius and Moon in Scorpio) and I met this great guy who is Taurus. I must say that from the very beginning it was the case of us missing each other ? when he could meet up ? I was busy, then when I was free he was busy. Get the idea? In the end ? although we only met briefly I got to like him. He had to go away overseas for quite a while and we didn?t keep in touch apart from few sms, but although I really missed him ? I actually never told him this. WHY? Not to make an impression I am desperate or something.

In the end it all started to fizzle out and I think I ?put last nail to the coffin? when I said I cannot see him when he wanted me to go with him and his son to the theme park. BTW ? he actually didn?t tell me before he had a son, and I never met the boy so I was actually terrified. I then went for a holiday and when I got back everything between us ? I felt at the time was not to be salvaged. So what did I do? I wrote him an email saying that I don?t really need a casual relationship and that I really want to look for someone who I could commit to and be with for long time etc etc. and I wished him good luck in his life and I said goodbye.

The moment I sent an email I regretted and it has been nearly 3 weeks that I did it. I cannot get over this and frankly ? as silly as it sounds maybe ? I just want to write to him and beg for forgiveness. I just don?t know if it is not too late. What to do what to do? I really cannot get over him 😢

Thanks for any comments

I think if u can just mail him that you were sorry about breaking up and if you sound honest, he will surely get back to u. I am assuming he also really likes u. The thing about taureans is that we feel really offended if someone leaves us or lets go. Moroevr before u broke up he wanted u to go with him to the theme park, ur refusal there must have disappointed him like crazy. Just be yourself and he will surely come around.

So - I did send him and email. He responded nearly immediately. He did say that of course we can get together, of course we will meet up and he will call me. I think last night I went through painful checking if a) my phone is working; b) thinking he was only being polite and replied and ....well he didnt call. So what is a normal waiting time then if the guy say he will call. Is it 2-3 days or longer? I have never in my life known Taurus before and with him it seems like everything is such a hard work 😢 or maybe he just wants to be friends now? Sorry for moaning but I am so bessoted with him to to point of clueless. What do I do? wait? and if he will not phone me tomorrow - just phone him.Helps help help 😢

He will call you but not immediately as that would be a sign of weakness and dependancy (in his mind). If he doesnt get back to you tomorrow, call that bastard yourself and take him by the horns.

Ahhh...I really like this reply🙂 I wish I could do this - take him by the horns - well i will see. For the update: I am Scorpio girl with Moon, Venus, Mercuryand Jupiter in Scorpio and he is Taurus with Venus in Taurus, Mercury and Mars in Gemini and Jupiter in Leo. It is really funny - but with him everything seems like a hard work - to make him talk, say things from inside, I never actually knew is he cares or he doesnt. Is this normal with Taurus men? I keep saying it is all going to be well worth it in the end. I just feel like he is the "Mr.Big" and I feel such a connection - but ask him how he feels about me and he says..."I like you". Duh? I guess it is a long way ahead of me to get anywhere with him. Any similar experience with Taurean guys?

Thanks 🙂

PucaGirl, you should know the 2-3 dau phone call rule. He knows that you've now admitted to liking him and for it being a mistake sending that email..so the ball is now back in his court..he's recovered from the disappointment/hurt etc..so now he will play it his way. Just chill out and all will be well..hardest part was swallowing your pride and sending that email..

Good luck

I love Taurus guys..so aggressive, moody and controlling..brrrrrrrrring it on 😉

Not to mention persistent and utterly charming..of course you get the bad apples in every sign..

Thank you! I feel like I am going to explode. I never any time in my life liked anyone like I like him. And what is he doing? he put his profile back on the online dating site and when I saw it - I felt so miserable. Now it is just over - either he is serving cruel punishment or he only wrote to me because he wants to be friends. OMG - I can just sit and cry and bite my freshly manicured nails...DESPAIR...LADY DOOM 😢

Keep us posted PucaGirl, I'm curious how it turns out 🙂

Oh dear me - he didnt call, I send him a light and breezy email. Nothing heavy and guess what we are going out next week to a dinner. I will post additional message in the Taurus dedicated message board - because I am facing another paralysing problem. Thanks for any advice though.