DeeLovesRed
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I think you should take a chance.
If it doesn't work out it's up to the both of you to try to continue to friends. If you care for each other that shouldn't be a problem down the road. If one or both of you need some time to heal after that, then so be it. I'm just saying it's OK to still care about someone and not date them in the end. I'm just putting the worst case scenario out there -- that you date and it doesn't work out.
One thing that seems a little strange is that he's asking you to be his girlfriend just like that. I don't care if you know each other and are friends. It makes more sense to take things slow and date, then decide if you want it to continue in a more serious capacity.
You go on some dates, and maybe have sex eventually and see how things progress.
Have you ever even kissed? I'm thinking the first kiss will tell you a lot, assuming you want to kiss him.
If you like him, take a chance. Go on a date. See where things go. You don't have to rush things.
But...if you really don't see him that way...then just be honest with him and try to work around the awkwardness. If if you try and it's not working for you, then be honest still.
If it doesn't work out it's up to the both of you to try to continue to friends. If you care for each other that shouldn't be a problem down the road. If one or both of you need some time to heal after that, then so be it. I'm just saying it's OK to still care about someone and not date them in the end. I'm just putting the worst case scenario out there -- that you date and it doesn't work out.
One thing that seems a little strange is that he's asking you to be his girlfriend just like that. I don't care if you know each other and are friends. It makes more sense to take things slow and date, then decide if you want it to continue in a more serious capacity.
You go on some dates, and maybe have sex eventually and see how things progress.
Have you ever even kissed? I'm thinking the first kiss will tell you a lot, assuming you want to kiss him.
If you like him, take a chance. Go on a date. See where things go. You don't have to rush things.
But...if you really don't see him that way...then just be honest with him and try to work around the awkwardness. If if you try and it's not working for you, then be honest still.
You've got 4 of my personal planets 🙂
Childhood friend, as in: we were playmates and I fancied him, and now reconnected after several decades?
Or as in: I've known him for decades, loved him like a brother, but never fancied him?
If it's the former, go for it. If it's the latter, nah....Also, listen to your gut. It knows....
Childhood friend, as in: we were playmates and I fancied him, and now reconnected after several decades?
Or as in: I've known him for decades, loved him like a brother, but never fancied him?
If it's the former, go for it. If it's the latter, nah....Also, listen to your gut. It knows....
Posted by Piscis_Hominis I think you should take a chance.
If it doesn't work out it's up to the both of you to try to continue to friends. If you care for each other that shouldn't be a problem down the road. If one or both of you need some time to heal after that, then so be it. I'm just saying it's OK to still care about someone and not date them in the end. I'm just putting the worst case scenario out there -- that you date and it doesn't work out.
One thing that seems a little strange is that he's asking you to be his girlfriend just like that. I don't care if you know each other and are friends. It makes more sense to take things slow and date, then decide if you want it to continue in a more serious capacity.
You go on some dates, and maybe have sex eventually and see how things progress.
Have you ever even kissed? I'm thinking the first kiss will tell you a lot, assuming you want to kiss him.
If you like him, take a chance. Go on a date. See where things go. You don't have to rush things.
But...if you really don't see him that way...then just be honest with him and try to work around the awkwardness. If if you try and it's not working for you, then be honest still.
We’ve been on a few solo dates and picnics. Yes, we kissed. Yes, we crossed the sex line...and that’s another thing, I don’t want us to move too fast, but maybe we are—!! Although I am afraid, that if we don’t work out things would turn out bad between us, I do want to still give “US” a shot.
Posted by Undine
You've got 4 of my personal planets 🙂
Childhood friend, as in: we were playmates and I fancied him, and now reconnected after several decades?
Or as in: I've known him for decades, loved him like a brother, but never fancied him?
If it's the former, go for it. If it's the latter, nah....Also, listen to your gut. It knows....
Childhood friend as in, we always fancied each other & everyone always knew it. But I would treat him like a “brother” around family😩😩😩. I’m such a wuss, I swear.
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Undine
You've got 4 of my personal planets 🙂
Childhood friend, as in: we were playmates and I fancied him, and now reconnected after several decades?
Or as in: I've known him for decades, loved him like a brother, but never fancied him?
If it's the former, go for it. If it's the latter, nah....Also, listen to your gut. It knows....
Childhood friend as in, we always fancied each other & everyone always knew it. But I would treat him like a “brother” around family😩😩😩. I’m such a wuss, I swear.click to expand
How long has been going on?
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Piscis_Hominis I think you should take a chance.
If it doesn't work out it's up to the both of you to try to continue to friends. If you care for each other that shouldn't be a problem down the road. If one or both of you need some time to heal after that, then so be it. I'm just saying it's OK to still care about someone and not date them in the end. I'm just putting the worst case scenario out there -- that you date and it doesn't work out.
One thing that seems a little strange is that he's asking you to be his girlfriend just like that. I don't care if you know each other and are friends. It makes more sense to take things slow and date, then decide if you want it to continue in a more serious capacity.
You go on some dates, and maybe have sex eventually and see how things progress.
Have you ever even kissed? I'm thinking the first kiss will tell you a lot, assuming you want to kiss him.
If you like him, take a chance. Go on a date. See where things go. You don't have to rush things.
But...if you really don't see him that way...then just be honest with him and try to work around the awkwardness. If if you try and it's not working for you, then be honest still.
We’ve been on a few solo dates and picnics. Yes, we kissed. Yes, we crossed the sex line...and that’s another thing, I don’t want us to move too fast, but maybe we are—!! Although I am afraid, that if we don’t work out things would turn out bad between us, I do want to still give “US” a shot.click to expand
no reward without risk.
Posted by jeanePosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Piscis_Hominis I think you should take a chance.
If it doesn't work out it's up to the both of you to try to continue to friends. If you care for each other that shouldn't be a problem down the road. If one or both of you need some time to heal after that, then so be it. I'm just saying it's OK to still care about someone and not date them in the end. I'm just putting the worst case scenario out there -- that you date and it doesn't work out.
One thing that seems a little strange is that he's asking you to be his girlfriend just like that. I don't care if you know each other and are friends. It makes more sense to take things slow and date, then decide if you want it to continue in a more serious capacity.
You go on some dates, and maybe have sex eventually and see how things progress.
Have you ever even kissed? I'm thinking the first kiss will tell you a lot, assuming you want to kiss him.
If you like him, take a chance. Go on a date. See where things go. You don't have to rush things.
But...if you really don't see him that way...then just be honest with him and try to work around the awkwardness. If if you try and it's not working for you, then be honest still.
We’ve been on a few solo dates and picnics. Yes, we kissed. Yes, we crossed the sex line...and that’s another thing, I don’t want us to move too fast, but maybe we are—!! Although I am afraid, that if we don’t work out things would turn out bad between us, I do want to still give “US” a shot.
no reward without risk.click to expand
This. You may miss out on a really good thing. Your charts look really compatible so why not give it a shot?
Posted by UndinePosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Undine
You've got 4 of my personal planets 🙂
Childhood friend, as in: we were playmates and I fancied him, and now reconnected after several decades?
Or as in: I've known him for decades, loved him like a brother, but never fancied him?
If it's the former, go for it. If it's the latter, nah....Also, listen to your gut. It knows....
Childhood friend as in, we always fancied each other & everyone always knew it. But I would treat him like a “brother” around family😩😩😩. I’m such a wuss, I swear.
How long has been going on?click to expand
Officially.. since December 2019, so six months
Posted by ClassyAquariusPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Piscis_Hominis I think you should take a chance.
If it doesn't work out it's up to the both of you to try to continue to friends. If you care for each other that shouldn't be a problem down the road. If one or both of you need some time to heal after that, then so be it. I'm just saying it's OK to still care about someone and not date them in the end. I'm just putting the worst case scenario out there -- that you date and it doesn't work out.
One thing that seems a little strange is that he's asking you to be his girlfriend just like that. I don't care if you know each other and are friends. It makes more sense to take things slow and date, then decide if you want it to continue in a more serious capacity.
You go on some dates, and maybe have sex eventually and see how things progress.
Have you ever even kissed? I'm thinking the first kiss will tell you a lot, assuming you want to kiss him.
If you like him, take a chance. Go on a date. See where things go. You don't have to rush things.
But...if you really don't see him that way...then just be honest with him and try to work around the awkwardness. If if you try and it's not working for you, then be honest still.
We’ve been on a few solo dates and picnics. Yes, we kissed. Yes, we crossed the sex line...and that’s another thing, I don’t want us to move too fast, but maybe we are—!! Although I am afraid, that if we don’t work out things would turn out bad between us, I do want to still give “US” a shot.
That's not fast. You know each other since childhood. If you know him well then why you worried? Are you afraid that he might lost interest? He said he loves you so I don't think he didn't think about it for quite some time, so he did reconcider failure, yet he still want to try.click to expand
Yea, it’s me. I’m just thinking too much on the “negatives” and “what if’s.”
Deep down you probably think you dont deserve him.
Proceed to self sabotage yourself and live in regret.
Or
Go.Be.Happy
Are you going to always need a pep talk to live your life?
Proceed to self sabotage yourself and live in regret.
Or
Go.Be.Happy
Are you going to always need a pep talk to live your life?
Posted by DMV
Deep down you probably think you dont deserve him.
Proceed to self sabotage yourself and live in regret.
Or
Go.Be.Happy
Are you going to always need a pep talk to live your life?
oof, that cuts right to the quick. but i like it. i'm totally stealing it.
He's got the same sun, venus, mars and rising as the scorp I'm dating. He's a true gentleman, I think you should give this a go. Besides, pisces/scorpio is a good team!
Posted by DMV
Deep down you probably think you dont deserve him.
Proceed to self sabotage yourself and live in regret.
Or
Go.Be.Happy
Are you going to always need a pep talk to live your life?
I needed this‼️
Posted by Gobby
Two important questions:
1) How has he been with his previous lovers and girlfriends?
2) How do you feel about getting involved with someone who has a Gemini moon and Sag Venus?
1) I’ve known a couple of his past lovers. One left him because of his weight. The other young lady was reconsidering her daughter father input on her love life, so she ended this with him.
2) I mean my dad has a Gemini moon, my mom is a Gemini Sun, aunt and closest coworkers are also Gem Suns.. & Gemini is my 7th and 8th house. His moon falls in my 7th house and my Jupiter conjuncts his Venus. As long as we’ve been friends he hasn’t act “two-time-ish” & he doesn’t flirt a lot BUT he does have a lot of friends (more than me)...
Posted by Jules-ll
He's got the same sun, venus, mars and rising as the scorp I'm dating. He's a true gentleman, I think you should give this a go. Besides, pisces/scorpio is a good team!
Gentlemen FOR SUREE‼️‼️‼️
Chivalry is ALIVE ‼️‼️
And he’s very easy to talk to.
I'm confused. You have fancied each other for a long time. " extremelllyy close?". You have even gotten physical. What is going to actually change besides not needing to hold back?😁
I think you confusing anxiety for suppressed unrealized excitement?😋
I think you confusing anxiety for suppressed unrealized excitement?😋
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in your opinion?
social ostracism or self-delusion?
tbh i just need your sun/moon for this
i need it for astro notes
cap is usually considered the father of the zodiac, although the actual sun is associated with both leo and the father figure.
interesting too the planet saturn was thought to be the original sun in some ancient mythologies.
cancer would of course repr
This guy ive been friends with is acting distant and out of character and wont tell me whats wrong.. im at a point that i want no negativity in my life and have also told him that i will also stop talking to him if he disturbs my peace.he hasn’t given me
So I have a female Aries friend who is Cap Moon with Leo Mars. She is one of the nicest cool people I know. What I am about to discuss is out of concern for her as a friend. I want to stress I realize it is not of my business and I have kept my mouth s
I was curious do other fellow Sag Moons mainly attract Libra Suns like I do? Other than libra suns, I attract Virgo Suns like crazy.
Just wondering if it's a common thing among other Sag Mooners attracting Libra Suns
Man's Mars conjunct Woman's Venus
OR
Man's Venus Conjunct Woman's Mars
Like as in every single day all day and everyday conversation but still no commitment (Aquarius moon).. I’m trying to cut him off but I feel bad because he hates drama. It’s not working out, I’m a Pisces and I want an exclusive relationship whereas accord
What are your experiences.
What do you see or experienced?
what placement/aspect in the chart makes people obsessed with someone (not necessarily romantically/sexually) but be extremely interested in every aspect of that person's life, their thoughts and hang on to their every word?
Any experience. I feel so broken 💔.
Let me know what you think the best star sign matches in a relationship.
Give me your top 3.
Do you mind if your significant other has a dating app on their phone?
Are you in a relationship and still have a dating app on your phone?
State your moon, venus, and mars ease.
would make one likely to suck up or be a sycophant?
a fawning, bootlicking minion sucking up for any semblance of power/strength?
is this a social skillset?
pls state your dominant sign element.
with your family
is there something in the chart that will make you feel as if that's
your ultimate emotional goal?
Or feel like you are out of control around a Sagittarius?
Why do you feel the need to tell us what to do, how to be, or feel like we don’t respect or value you?
Why is it not okay for us to have our own choice, our own opinion? Why is it about you?
“He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals.” — Benjamin Franklin
(BTW he is a cap sun/pisces moon)
do you notice that you are attracted to energies that also happens to be the same as your dominant sign energies? or even sometimes....opposi
in astrology
that you don't even believe in anymore
coz it's all just hype
just in your honest opinion
What’s your sun and mars?
Were you in trouble & kissing up?
Making a good impression?
Because you’re being romantic?
Inquiring minds want to know 🤷♀️
Do you do this?
I’m finally getting the idea of no Cardinals.. common issue keeps cropping up, and I’m a little over it.
I’m just sooooo scared. I don’t know, something is making me anxious, nervous and unsure. He hasn’t ever disrespected me or made me feel unsafe & neither does he have a crazy past. However, it’s just that I can’t give an answer yet because I’m being a damn wuss and afraid. How should I approach this? Any tips on dating someone you’ve know for god long. And, I’ve already let him know that I’m scared and I really don’t want to do anything to fuck up our bond.
Maybe, some helpful astrology info 🤷♀️🤷♀️:
HIM(L) ME(R)
Asc: Virgo; Scorpio
Sun: Scorpio; Pisces
Moon: Gemini; Aries
Mercury: Sag; Aqua
Venus: Sag; Aqua
Mars: Cancer; Leo
Jupiter: Libra; Sag
Saturn: Aqua; Pisces