Ok so I'm a gemini woman and have been seeing a Leo male. We've been together about 6 weeks but its moved very fast. We each have kids and they all get along very well, we've spent everyday and most nights together. During our relationship he's been texting another girl which he says is only a friend. Well for two weeks I've been asking if she knew about us being together bug he would respond "she knows about you" well she always "liked" Facebook post and send him things o Facebook. Two nights ago I let my need to know the truth win against what I really knew. I know he wasn't sleeping with or seeing her! However they would text morning and night and everything in between, he was asleep, she texted him and I answered as if I was him. I was nice I just let her know there were feelings for this girl and I still wanted to be friends. She said she was sad but she thought there were some feelings there. Anyway, before I could tell him what I did she made mention of their conversation from the night before and then he was mad. So he believed me that I was going to tell him and he read the text that were forwarded to him and saw that I said nothing mean. He said he wanted to break up and I told him not over this. He said "just let me be mad" so i gave him a hug he said "I know you aren't begging for me but don't" and I left. He's returned hardly any text, I posted a public notice that I'm an idiot and he's the most honest person I know! His kids have tried to talk to him that girls just do things sometimes. He knows that in a past relationship my bf had a text GF and said it was nothing then he broke up with me and married her a year later. I've never done this before but I'm afraid he's gone forever do Leo men, what do I do
I need a Leo to forgive me
I total agree with what you said. Normally I would have never done that but something I didn't want to control I suppose took over. I fully trust that he wasn't cheating and she was not his type at all. I think it was more an ego thing on his part, everyone likes to be given attention, I just needed her to know he was taken. I know I was wrong and it will be hard to trust me like that again. I would deal with that if given the chance. At this point I'm going to stop trying to say sorry, he knows. I've said it to many times. I guess I'll let him go, if he comes back then it was meant to be. He was more upset that I said "I had to much to drink" to the girl and the hurt him cause he has a mild issue with drinking, he's more mad at that then what I did.

On one hand, it's only been 6 weeks and he doesn't really owe you anything. On the other hand, he's texting another woman who clearly likes him WAY too much. Morning, noon and night is too much. Sorry but I think he's playing the field, which he's entitled to do since you haven't been a couple that long. If I were in your shoes, I'd walk. This just doesn't smell right.

One more thought: this moved fast, which is kind of a bad sign. Players move in fast but don't last. Second, he's texting another woman morning, noon & night. I just don't believe that men sustain that level of contact with another woman that they are not interested in. Plus, this woman is interested in him. So it's kind of leading her on, at least in her mind. What all this tells me is you're not first in his heart. Sure, you can hang around to see how it all plays out. And there's nothing wrong with that. I might develop into something more. But I personally don't like investing in relationships that start off on the wrong paw, so to speak. And this just doesn't spell real interest to me. It's kind of sketchy. Just my take. Others will rule differently.

Posted by Cbee
His kids have tried to talk to him that girls just do things sometimes.
This means that drug his children into this, with intentions of having them take a side on who is right or wrong.
That's really fucked up. No matter how many times you attempt to claim that you're sorry, or that you've never done this, or say you weren't trying to control .... the proof of what kind of person you really are is right here.
You've tried to pit his kids against him, so that they would side with you.
That's worse than fucked up.
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