I need some advice!

Alright, I'm a Virgo female, Aquarius Moon, Cancer Rising, and Leo Venus. I know an Aries male, moon Virgo, and Venus Pisces. I know that he "kinda" "likes" me from what he has told my friends, and I also have feelings for him. However, all my past relationships have lasted at least two months, and it's starting to make me very upset. I want a real relationship, one that lasts long, and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could get this Aries to be seriously interested in being in a real relationship with me. So, some advice on this subject would be nice :] Thanks.

Your words are an utter contridiction ....


1. you say you want a real long-lasting relationship

2. you want to attempt to apply this term onto an Aries man




That makes the man an object of feelings you already own without his being apart of the equation.

If you have already developed the definition of the feelings you want to experience .. you can't then expect to be able to loop this feelings around a person, as if they are going to provide you with this experience.



The desperation in women to feel loved is quite disturbing

Well, I'm not exactly looking for all things to go exactly as I wish, I realize perfection is not realistic. I simply want a long meaningful relationship and I know it's not unrealistic since I've seen it happen for many people time and time again. I'm not looking for any specifics, he can make mistakes and I know there will be bad things to cancel out good. I just want some questions answered about Aries men...For example, what do they have to see in a woman to want a long partnership with them? Thanks for your imput, by the way.

Posted by jen2487








If you have already developed the definition of the feelings you want to experience .. you can't then expect to be able to loop this feelings around a person, as if they are going to provide you with this experience.

i agree. This may not be qualified as advice but if i were you, i wouldn't waste any more of your time on someone who "kinda" likes you. Its to the point where your unhappy so why keep on with it? I bet the second you distance yourself from him or the relationship, he will come around. And if not? then maybe you get lucky and actually meet a guy who wants a meaningful relationship as well, and by that point you wouldn't have tried. The point is i would quit wasting your energy on this guy when your potential soulmate could be right around the corner. Take it or leave it i hope it helped in someway....good luck 🙂

posted by p-angel...sry im a little computer illiterate.

Thanks, Jen :] I'll try to lay low for awhile then. Maybe take this whole break off of attempting at a relationship, and use this time to think a little more about the situation and get my act together. I appreciate the help everyone!