Involved with a cancer male, causing me confusion.

Him:
Sun, moon and mercury in cancer.
Ascendent in scorpio.
Mars in libra.
Venus in gemini.

Me:
Sun, mercury and venus in aries.
Ascendent in saggitarius.
Moon and mars in taurus.

Basically, I've been seeing him for 2-3 months now. We were aquaintances and I was seeing someone else but when that came to quite a drawn out end, this cancer made it known that he was attracted to me. I slowly recipicated but now that he knows how much I like him, he seems even more aloof. In fact, I'm not even sure that he likes me at all! I'm starting to think maybe I'm just someone he enjoys "fixing" or nurturing since I am still recovering from a tough year. Help?

I hate it women state they are confused as a cop-out .. as if you weren't born with logic and reason.