Libra woman/Gemini man

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lizoleeta
@lizoleeta
10 Years

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I am interested in a Gemini guy and I know we're a good star match. The thing is, we've been friends for awhile and while he enjoys spending a lot of time with me, talking to me about personal things, having dinner, hanging out, but nothing has happened between us. Sometimes I feel certain he's interested in more but when we met he was getting over someone and just moving to a new place far from his home, so it wasn't a good time for him. But sometimes I really feel like he is interested in me as more--he always hugs me an extra long time, he touches me a lot when we hang out, he's at times called me "his girl" in conversations. It's very confusing, though, because we've been alone many times but he never makes a move. He doesn't really talk to me much about other women but I do know that I'm not his normal physical type, so does that matter a lot with Geminis? We have a great connection and can talk for hours about everything, and have a lot of shared interests. I haven't said anything to him about my feelings because I don't want to mess up our friendship or make things weird, as we're both mature adults and I feel it's better at this age to have friends than lose them over silly romantic feelings. I've also been trying to be patient and just see what happens. I also was seeing someone else when we met but that's over now. Do Geminis ever like to be friends first and take it slow even if they are interested, or should I just write him off as a friend and forget about it?
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Undine
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12 Years5,000+ Posts

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Are you having dinner and going out? Just the two of you? Well, if this is not dating, I don't know what is.....

Let him know, about a week in advance, that the third date (or whatever your number is) is also a sex date. You have read online that is important to check the chemistry as early as possible! That is what I've emailed to my Gem (or something like it). He found it funny. Sixteen months later, we are happier than ever. The only awkward date was the third one 🙂.