my experience with the virgo male

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KrystleSade
@KrystleSade
15 Years

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I am going thru the same kind of. But except i was talking to my virgo since march & we started talking & day by day he told me that he is liking me a lot because i am different. & i told him i felt the same. So things got stronger from there. He told me i was important to him & that if i couldnt see him he would see me. We live in dofferent states. Well in april i went to go see him. & things were great in the beginning he seemed so shy around me. But we found that we had a lot in common in food,music,clothes,music,etc. So he would seem to get close to me then pull away.? He cooked for me. Opened doors,perfect gentlemen. His parents liked me. Well after a week went by he started working a lot. His boss gave him more hours. This was like his second week of work. & he started to get more detached. He said for me to go home because of bad timing. He said that he does like me,but he wants to get to know me better before making a decision. I completly understand that i told him that i wasnt rushing him because it never works out if things are rushed. So the day before i left we sat down to talk. I told him that i'd wait for him no matter how long because i wanted him in my life. He said that he would like for us to get to know eachother better & that he wants me to be apart of his near future. That him & his parents wants me to come back. He told me when the time is right i may return with him working & his parents & all. That he is a man of his word. He was always blunt no matter of it was good or bad. Thats what i like because he is honest & its hard to find that now a days. Well it's been 3 months going on 4 next month since we last saw eachother. But when i had left in May i texted a few times letting him that i was worried because he wasnt replying....so finally the day before my birthday he finally responded & i said sry for calling him while he was closing at his job. He said its ok. Then i told him i dont wanna bother you,may you text me when you get home? He said ok. So 2 hours later no text,then he said he was wasted if he can talk to me the next day. & i told him so much for getting in touch with you. He said ever since i left he works 6 days a week & that he was sry for not answering but he's been really busy. That was the last time i spoken to him & this was on May 22nd. After i texted him again..but not everyday ..maybe every other week because i dont wanna annoy him. & i called & left voicemails & he hasnt contacted me til this day.
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KrystleSade
@KrystleSade
15 Years

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& i told him if he doesnt wanna talk to me anymore to tell me,but i also told him i missed him. Thing is i'm so inlove with him. I learned alot from him. & i need him. I'm scared i will never get the chance to tell him how i feel if he hasnt answered me. I know he has never lied to me so,should i doubt his words? It's not rare that i do this for any guy. But for him everything fits my puzzle. I was in alot of bad relationships,abuse,rapes,cheat,etc. Since i was 15 . I am 20 now. & i told him i never had a guy like you before ,so its weird. When i know i deserve it. I'm afraid to speak up because i let ppl. Control me & if i say something about how i feel ,idk if it's a bad thing. When he always told me to tell him whats going on. Im scared to lose him & not having that chance. Im not a patient but i learned how to be with him. He tought me alot. Which i am greatful for. We are two very different personalities but i learn to except him for who he is. I wish i knew what he is thinking. I want him to except me for who i am. Cause i suffer from manufactured fear. I make stuff in my head thats not true & not gonna happen. & makes me worried. He balances me. & i am a Gemini. Any advice? They say the one who waits patiently comes most successful. I've waited for many ppl. Guys that werent worth it,but i know he is. I just dont know what to do
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Mistery
@Mistery
18 Years500+ Posts

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Long distance relationships are very difficult. Hard enough even for more established relationships much less a new one. This guy may have had good intentions in the beginning but it looks like out of sight, out of mind with him. I don't care how busy you are with work, texting or calling doesn't take much effort and he's not even doing that. Take that as a clue and find a guy close by to date.