Name the 5 top qualities your mate should possess

Ok, I wanna know what qualities you desire in a lover and why.
List them in order of importance.
Think long and hard about why those specific qualities are important to you.

Also just for fun you can add a specific sign that you think that could bring these qualities to you.

List your sign as well.

I'm a Cancer.

Top five are:

1.Honesty because honesty is important in any successful union.

2.Commitment because I admire anyone that can remain commited to someone.I want someone that can weather the storms of life with me and not run away when the going gets tough.

3.Compassionate...Yes this is actually a NEED for me..It is one of the sexiest qualities of a man.

4.A Provider....Family men are so sexxy to me...just wanna feel secure and happy.Yes he must be employed or employable.

5.Courageous..I need someone to protect me and the kids right and to do whatever it takes to make sure that is family safe at all times.

Imma say a Scorpio, Capricorn or a Pisces.

5.

And Taurus...Can't leave those wonderful people out.

A good communication - I talk a lot, and need someone who likes to hear me talk lol, but also knows how to make me sh** up when I get too critical/depressive/confused about stuff

Someone who is very physical - A good intimate life is very important for me, I like cuddling a lot, kissing and having sex. All this is extremely important for me, and I need a partner who likes being cuddled, cause if he is too cold I would feel rejected all the time

Intelligence - I need someone who is very intelligent and preferably more intelligent than myself. In this way I would look up to him and respect him, and he would understand myself maybe even more than I do myself sometimes, and this is important as I can be very confusing/complex

Sociable - I am not always that good at being social myself, and I also need a lot of space, so it could be great to have a partner with a good and healthy social life so he can leave me alone somedays and other days he could include me in social activities

Empathy/Kindness - I need someone who is kind, sweet and just overall a good person.

Signs: I think aries/libra/pisces/cancer/virgo - any mixes of these... My bf is a libra/pisces mix and I've never had a better boyfriend before🙂

I'm an Aquarius

1. An honest old soul...And by honest, I mean someone who can be honest with themselves too. If he's honest, he'll be faithful & have a good/clean conscious. None of the other great qualities I can list will matter if he's not self-aware & honest with me and himself. I say 'old soul' b/c it insinuates wisdom & an automatic understanding of & insight into you, of others, of the world that many people just don't have...Old souls are naturally easier to talk to...to learn from. As an Aqua, I need to teach AND learn.

2. Thoughtful...Being dependable & reliable are things that automatically come with this b/c you 1st have to be thoughtful of the other person in order to bring them consistency & dependability. A man that thinks of me, what I may like and deserve as much as he considers his own wants & needs is very thoughtful. If he's truly thoughtful & really really cares about you, your needs will be met.

3. Intellectually stimulating...Being intellectual or smart doesn't mean that you can stimulate others. A man who is smart/intellectual, yet humble, entertaining & able to 'keep up' is 1 of the biggest turn ons for me.

4. Physical...I have to adore his smile...his dimples...his strong back/arms...his teeth...something! I want to be just as attracted to & turned on sexually & physically by him as he desires to feel the same about me. A man that has the right qualities can make him look even more attractive than he already is, soooo if there was something cute that was already there, that makes it even better!! i.e. the icing on the cake =)

5. Alpha male...My definition may be different than yours...to me, this means that he's a protector, a provider & takes control in situations when he's better at it than me. A strong speaking bass voice...is very masculine...can put me in my place, when necessary...I desire these things b/c it feels good to sometimes let go & let the man be 'the man.' There will always be the leader of a pack. All I'm saying is that I don't mind my husband being the leader of his family...and I think alpha males are born with the 'leader of the pack' mentality.