Overthinking?

My ex and I haven't spoken in months. A friend of ours tagged me in a video on Facebook something about crazy girlfriends and horoscopes and he shared it saying it was "so true." When I was on his page I noticed he unblocked me for the first time in months which I thought was strange. I drunkinly said "I'm sorry" and he replied "it's cool." I didn't bother to respond.
Am I overthinking things or what? It's the first time he acknowledged my existence in months. I feel obligated to say more but I don't know if I should let things be.

Posted by Libra82
What are you sorry for? Did you do something to hurt him?

I'm not sure what I was sorry for. It kind of just felt right. I mean I guess the demise of the relationship could be blamed on me. I never took it seriously until it was too late. He left me and then I was distraught.

Posted by Libra82
Do you want him back? I would be pissed at the so called friend tagging me to a video implying I was crazy.

I really did/do care about him but I don't know if getting back would be a possibility or healthy. She probably didn't mean harm, it was humorous. I just want to talk to him but I'm being prideful and I don't know if it's welcomed.

Posted by Libra82
What sign is he?

Cancer Lololol.

Posted by libralotus

Posted by Libra82
Do you want him back? I would be pissed at the so called friend tagging me to a video implying I was crazy.

I really did/do care about him but I don't know if getting back would be a possibility or healthy. She probably didn't mean harm, it was humorous. I just want to talk to him but I'm being prideful and I don't know if it's welcomed.

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So you don't want to get back together... you just

want to talk.

If that's the case, then you've got nothing to lose.

Better to regret trying than not trying.

You'll always wonder.

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Posted by Libra82
Do you want him back? I would be pissed at the so called friend tagging me to a video implying I was crazy.

I really did/do care about him but I don't know if getting back would be a possibility or healthy. She probably didn't mean harm, it was humorous. I just want to talk to him but I'm being prideful and I don't know if it's welcomed.

So you don't want to get back together... you just

want to talk.

If that's the case, then you've got nothing to lose.

Better to regret trying than not trying.

You'll always wonder.

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I don't know if I would want to get back together but I do still have lingering feelings. What do I reply and say??

Posted by Libra82
Oh ok hm don't think I can help you. 😛

Maybe there are cancers here that can offer some guidance. 🙂

Well what would you do—?

I guess keep it light.

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Posted by Libra82
Do you want him back? I would be pissed at the so called friend tagging me to a video implying I was crazy.

I really did/do care about him but I don't know if getting back would be a possibility or healthy. She probably didn't mean harm, it was humorous. I just want to talk to him but I'm being prideful and I don't know if it's welcomed.

So you don't want to get back together... you just

want to talk.

If that's the case, then you've got nothing to lose.

Better to regret trying than not trying.

You'll always wonder.

I don't know if I would want to get back together but I do still have lingering feelings. What do I reply and say??

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The truth.

'I dont like the way things ended... it wasn't cool.

I would like to talk to you, when you have time.'

Something like that-- keep it simple.

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Posted by Libra82
Do you want him back? I would be pissed at the so called friend tagging me to a video implying I was crazy.

I really did/do care about him but I don't know if getting back would be a possibility or healthy. She probably didn't mean harm, it was humorous. I just want to talk to him but I'm being prideful and I don't know if it's welcomed.

So you don't want to get back together... you just

want to talk.

If that's the case, then you've got nothing to lose.

Better to regret trying than not trying.

You'll always wonder.

I don't know if I would want to get back together but I do still have lingering feelings. What do I reply and say??

The truth.

'I dont like the way things ended... it wasn't cool.

I would like to talk to you, when you have time.'

Something like that-- keep it simple.

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Just messaged him. He basically told me he's been working on himself blah blah blah. He's doing good, glad I'm doing good, small talk. Said he was about to run some
errands and maybe we could talk again some other time. I told him not to be a stranger and I missed him. He said ditto and I didn't reply.

soooooooooooooo

Good advice so far but, personally, I wouldn't do anything until my own confusion was cleared. What's the use in trying to do something when I am unsure of what I want. Initiating things with him without a clear mind will only add to the confusion

Posted by LillyPetal
Good advice so far but, personally, I wouldn't do anything until my own confusion was cleared. What's the use in trying to do something when I am unsure of what I want. Initiating things with him without a clear mind will only add to the confusion

I think this is very sound advice. Both of your are in that lonely-bored stage that happens after you separate from someone. We tend to look back on things with rose colored lenses as the saying goes. We focus on the good, and diminish the bad. Both of you might be letting separation anxiety get the best of you. Give each other time to get your feelings clear.