Scorpio Revenge!!

Can anyone tell me how to do it as painful as it could be LOL?

I'm an scorp and I was dating a Sag guy from a month and half from now, everything was going so smooth and magical, we slept together. Suddenly my venus in scorpio found that he actually has a girlfriend. : /

I know he cares for me and although his feelings for me may be true I've found this a very dishonest action.
So any advices on how can I respond to him now that I know this information? should I tell him straight forward that I know? or should I just pretend that nothing happened, make him fall for me and give him an scorpio sting?

I am inclined to do the second option - I know for some people it's just a waste of time-. Personally I consider that every person must pay for his actions. I am not willing to "steal" someone else's boyfriend because I couldn't continue a sexual relationship with someone who is committed to someone else in first place. I know this is not exactly of my concern but somehow it hurts just to see how some people believe that they can play around and do what they please when they have a committed relationship in first place.

Any mars in scorpio thoughts ? haha

His placements ( I don't know the houses yet)

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Capricorn

Venus Capricorn

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Capricorn

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

True Node Taurus

Posted by AriesLove
How long were you all dating?

What's makes you think he's going to fall for you....he has a girlfriend. It was just sex to him.

Why did you sleep with him so soon?

I don't think that's the case... he's still interested. He's still calling me and sending messages. He's just being cynical hehe.
We both have feelings for each other and it's obvious.

swatting

Posted by littlegigabyte
You say that you wouldn't consider continuing to sleep with someone who was in a committed relationship, out of what I am assuming to be ethics. But your second option, the one that you are currently dabbling into scheming, doesn't make you any classier in the sense that you are still stealing a man in a committed relationship - just emotionally so.

I don't see how that is, in any way, more moral than what he is doing at all... simply because you are still being a participant and enabling the cheating, just in a different way.

haha yes it's contradictory. I guess I'm juts hurt.

Posted by Shashkay
He won't fall for you.

Telling her will make him hate you more which will be good for you actually. It will end it.

haha I'll probably do it.
You're right

Posted by littlegigabyte

Posted by Nataliaaa

Posted by littlegigabyte
You say that you wouldn't consider continuing to sleep with someone who was in a committed relationship, out of what I am assuming to be ethics. But your second option, the one that you are currently dabbling into scheming, doesn't make you any classier in the sense that you are still stealing a man in a committed relationship - just emotionally so.

I don't see how that is, in any way, more moral than what he is doing at all... simply because you are still being a participant and enabling the cheating, just in a different way.

haha yes it's contradictory. I guess I'm juts hurt.

I understand. I think the best thing you can do is appear to make it look as if it meant nothing and he was nothing to you. I would fall off the face of the earth and never contact or respond to him again. Go find you a nice guy, and make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend. Ask lots of questions and have a set of rules even if it's a FWB situation. The ball is in your court, take back control

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Yeah, you're totally right.
I was really angry when I wrote that post. Like nothing he said to me was true, and that's hard to grasp, I guess.
Thanks so much I guess this is the the most accurate comment I've read so far 🙂

Hm yeah been there to but I have VIT and won't talk about this because a grown mature man doesn't play games like this if they are interested. If they are interested screen them.

If there is something fishy then there is . I been through that so it sucks but fortunately I detached finally and don't talk so much once I am able to pick up constant lies and manipulative tacts then everything I worked in building as friends goes sour quickly.

Haha thanks for your comments guys, I was truly upset and deceived. I will not seek revenge , however, I'll do my own justice for my pride. But it will come from a place from pure love and light. You'll know what I mean later. I'll write down my results, if you wanna read them.

Though, some people on boards need to relax! I don't understand why people do believe that they can be judgemental when it comes to sex. I think every relationship is different, you don't need to schedule when it's ok to sleep with someone... You just know. If I would have waited for the right time to sleep with someone I like I would have lost a lot of great experiences and relationships. So drop the idea of being easy and stop being judgemental regarding that. It's society's cancer. We cannot be like that to each other. Especially women.

Peace 🙂

If you are ok with never speaking to him again after you sting him…then go ahead.

Well, he already had sex with you.

What could you possibly do to him?

His south node is Scorpio? I would see this as a warning & red flag. Whatever you do to him (as in revenge) he can probably dish out right back to you. Is this a hill you want to die on?