Kanikas1
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Please help me understand this!
He called again today and was being absolutely normal! I just don't understand this push and pull game!
Please help me!!!
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You're no longer in a relationship with this guy. You see it as a LDR. He doesn't. You need to adjust your expectations.
You're 25. Focus on yourself. He's just moved a million miles away and you both said you can't live in the same place. He's being rational and logical. He's a Virgo. I'm sure he does love you and like you but circumstances are not in your favour right now.
How do you envisage things to work out?
Unless either of you move to be together you're better off calling it a day. Either being friends (with expectations as friends NOT you hoping he might suddenly change his mind) or you cut him off.
You're 25. Focus on yourself. He's just moved a million miles away and you both said you can't live in the same place. He's being rational and logical. He's a Virgo. I'm sure he does love you and like you but circumstances are not in your favour right now.
How do you envisage things to work out?
Unless either of you move to be together you're better off calling it a day. Either being friends (with expectations as friends NOT you hoping he might suddenly change his mind) or you cut him off.
In addition, it's likely he does feel bad when you get emotional because he can't fix it. He's not there with you. You get yourself upset and he can't fix it. He may not show it but if he does love you it will probably kill him inside. Don't be oblivious to him or his needs in favour of your own.
Just give him space. Life can change but don't try to fix it yourself as its not for fixing. Stop pressuring him every time to talk. If he comes over for the five days and you see him then just enjoy the time you have as friends. Keep boundaries.
I'm not a Virgo but I had a Virgo ex. Very good with the little things too. Venus in Virgo!
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Just give him space. Life can change but don't try to fix it yourself as its not for fixing. Stop pressuring him every time to talk. If he comes over for the five days and you see him then just enjoy the time you have as friends. Keep boundaries.
I'm not a Virgo but I had a Virgo ex. Very good with the little things too. Venus in Virgo!
Maybe someone else can comment when they're free.
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